Do Capricorn people hold grudges?

Capricorn is an extremely mixed contradiction. No constellation has ever struggled so frequently and painfully in the thought of becoming a good person or a bad person like them. On the one hand, they eagerly hope that they can turn into a warm spring to restore everything, on the other hand, they will frantically expect that they can turn into three feet of ice to freeze the world. But for the people born in this winter, the pursuit of warmth is so persistent, so in the end, he always jumps back and actively cultivates his bright quality in spring. It seems that the pleasure of being a good person makes them feel intoxicated more easily. Compared with their own feelings, they don't want to be trapped in any negative dark emotions. But at the same time, I think there is nothing wrong with being a bad person.

Generally speaking, in childhood, they are the loveliest and most painful babies, while young Capricorn is always prone to appear withdrawn and unsociable. The older Capricorn is, the more comfortable he is in society. When they are old, they often become rare representatives of kindness and tolerance (although this kind of tolerance and kindness is like the consideration of imperial power, which makes people feel warm in the face but dare not approach lewdness). Although they are devoted to the compromise of the golden mean all their lives and yearn for any good temperament, this deep-rooted extreme is always easy to get out of control, which makes them feel inexplicably unhappy in society. The extremes of Capricorn are contradictory. They love and hate. They always jump at both ends and can't find the balance in the middle. Therefore, Capricorn will be confused about his emotions, so he will continue to show indifference in this violent psychological state, otherwise he will have no way to think. "What the hell are you thinking? Which side are you on? " Under this indifferent disguise, Capricorn is repeatedly sorting out his various contradictory emotions and thoughts, which has become a thoughtful thing in the eyes of the world. Presumably Capricorn sometimes envies Scorpio and Libra: one party's love and hate have a direction (either love or hate), and the other party's love and hate are completely harmonious (either love or hate).

You should let Capricorn around you analyze a person's strengths and weaknesses. If he wants to talk, then you will find that the advantages and disadvantages of this person are invisible. You find that he may analyze other people's words and deeds and use his sixth sense. Do you admire Capricorn's amazing ability to analyze others, while secretly sweating, and think Capricorn should analyze others like this? ! A little wily. If he doesn't want to talk, you will find that he seems indifferent to anyone and everything. If he is in a high mood, you may see two other images: he may be mean and he may be approving. Capricorn is a very sensitive constellation. He can see through a person through a small matter, and he also knows what is good and what is suitable for society. At the same time, Capricorn is a constellation that loves self-doubt. When others show good temperament, he will immediately abandon the analysis of others' shortcomings. So Capricorn is actually very easy to be deceived and hurt. Because they are naturally sensitive, it is easy to realize that they have been cheated. At this time, their extreme personality began to play a role again: seeing others show a good side, their trust in others is absolute and unadulterated; When they find out even a trivial deception, they won't believe it any more.

Few people associate with others from absolute trust, but Capricorn is. It doesn't sound like Capricorn's thorough analysis of human nature every day, but it is. Capricorn always easily defines a stranger who has never been in contact with before as a good person, and he will believe whatever others say. And once they make a good impression on others, it's hard to get rid of them. It's easy to be moved, and it's the most rewarding impulse: if you help him unconditionally once, he may appear quietly, but secretly want to take care of you for a lifetime. They always take their responsibilities too seriously. Once they help, they will do their best even if they are desperate and can't tolerate other people's dissatisfaction. So although it is difficult to ask them to do things, once they agree, they can rest assured!

This seems to be a saint from Taoyuan. But he's not. He is just used to hurting himself! Going to extremes in everything is his achilles heel. They have to live to be at least 50 years old to learn the phrase "when dealing with people, they should change from doubt to trust, and don't pursue absoluteness excessively". They only use it occasionally. Although they took it out when they were only ten years old, they often warned others. Their trust is too pure, their love is too pure, and their contribution is too precious. Because of this, their eyes began to become particularly keen and cautious. Betrayal and deception of a trivial matter cannot escape those bright eyes. They feel overwhelming disappointment, blow and shock when they look at it, and criticize all human nature. It was a trivial matter, but they stabbed them in the heart. They won't say anything, but they begin to doubt whether their efforts are worth it. However, he is so easy to forgive, it is the real kind of forgiveness, and all the injuries seem to be forgotten. Then, one more thing, stab me in the heart and forgive me. Once they decide to give their feelings, they are always too excited, usually easy to let go but difficult to accept. However, later, one thing after another, one knife after another ... (As for how many times he can bear injuries, it depends on how long and how deep your feelings have been cultivated. Finally, once, all his wounds burst together, and all the memories of the injury suddenly came back to life-and before that, his contribution to you was out of the box, although he had been trapped in the contradiction of love and hate for you. He felt humiliated, used, fooled and cheated, and then all his emotions would disappear. Your old feelings have disappeared, and he is tired of thinking about you. Many people who finally reach this state with Capricorn often wonder: why did he put up with so many things and say nothing, but finally suddenly became so rude on a small matter? Capricorn won't tell you that he was crushed to death by the last straw. He is likely to be very silent in the end, because he no longer feels that everything he says is meaningful, there is no room for change in what has been decided, and there is no need to explain it to someone who has nothing to do with him.

Don't hurt Capricorn, this is my suggestion. They can't stand a little cheating and betrayal. If you can be honest with him, he can leave his soul in your custody. He is fearless and definitely the most worthy friend. Those who say Capricorn is indifferent, selfish and practical, please recall, don't let go of a little detail, have you been indifferent and selfish to Capricorn? As long as you think about it, stop complaining. Your movements, eyes, words and expressions have made them see clearly. They have rejected you in their hearts as a person who doesn't want to treat him sincerely. You don't deserve their 100% emotion. Share feelings, he will never. So Capricorn may become sophisticated, but it will never be smooth sailing.

Will Capricorn retaliate? Very few. Although he often feels hurt, he seldom really remembers it. Unless you really break through his bottom line, it is difficult to arouse his desire to take the initiative to retaliate against you. More often, they just passively confront each other and become indifferent to everything about you. But-if he really decides to get back at you, he must feel sorry for you. Everything will go with him. He silently looks for your fatal wound and does not hesitate to use any means to achieve his goal. If you are still fine, it's just that he is not sure that he can kill you with a stick and is waiting for the opportunity to accumulate strength. This pessimistic constellation will always look back for 800 years, convinced that it is time for revenge, so he will ignore all this as much as possible, and once he starts to retaliate, he will definitely uproot the grass and do everything he can, and will never give you a chance to retaliate against him again. So where's his bottom line? It is usually buried very deep, below 10 thousand meters. Because he always fantasizes that he is a good man with good intentions. Therefore, people who have experienced it cannot be said to be lucky.

....................................................................................................................................................... ........................... They are so old-fashioned and so eager for freedom, they are so indifferent to fame and fortune, they are so absolutely trusting and so suspicious, they are so loyal and so broken, they are so romantic and gentle and so incomprehensible, they are so fast-changing and so unchanging. Their constellation is Capricorn.

Capricorn has no intermediate state. It is their destiny that they have to endure conflicts between various contradictions and extremes in their hearts all their lives and cannot express themselves clearly and absolutely. Is it good or evil? Is it good or evil? He is destined to feel misunderstanding, loneliness, vacillation and confusion. He is destined to become more and more silent. Every moment of tears is a gentle hug to yourself. Just like Kuafu, who is chasing the sun, he spent his whole life looking for a person who can exhaust all his good or evil, so that people no longer struggle in the choice, but end up fruitless.

However, I think that when I come to the end of my life and Capricorn looks back, I must be smiling: all good and evil are mine, and my conscience is still clear and fresh along the way. I'm Capricorn. You don't need to understand.