Why do we celebrate the Double Ninth Festival? Why don't so many people in life celebrate the Double Ninth Festival?

Why do we celebrate the Double Ninth Festival? Why don't so many people in life celebrate the Double Ninth Festival? Because the Double Ninth Festival is a festival for the elderly, few people celebrate it. When people get old, they are inevitably a little lost, so they feel a little sunset. People don't want to celebrate the Double Ninth Festival for the elderly. I just don't want to tell myself that I'm old. Enter old age. Therefore, in order not to make the elderly sad, children will not celebrate the Double Ninth Festival. So the Double Ninth Festival is rarely celebrated. Companionship is the best filial piety. Older parents don't need material things. They need companionship and care. They are like children. They are eager for their children to be around, but they are afraid of affecting their careers. They are in a dilemma, so the children take the initiative to take on the responsibility of companionship!

Xin Qiji wrote in "Qingpingle" that "big children hoe beans and flow to the east, while middle children weave chicken cages. I like the death of children best. I lie on the stream and peel lotus flowers. " Although the poem does not directly describe their parents, it reflects from the side that it is because of their parents that all this seems so harmonious and warm. This is home, so dull, looking at the smiling faces of relatives is happiness. The most profitable business in the world is being a child. Say "dad" and "mom", and you can easily get two people to take care of your life. Those familiar scenes: when I was a child, I got together with my neighbors' friends after school, skipping rope and playing hide-and-seek ... and played in the dark until it disappeared. I also heard my anxious mother shouting everywhere, "Go home, have dinner." Home is the phone call from my mother.

When I grow up, the school is getting farther and farther away from home, but before the holiday every day, my mother will definitely ask me what I want to eat, and I can't wait to take my family with me when I leave. After the long-distance relationship, my brother and I go back once a year. Every time we return, we get on the return bus. All the familiar scenes seem to be possessed. Every chair, every room, every quilt, every book, every letter, every photo ... and every smile of parents and family, in a word, every bit of the past will fall. Time goes by and youth is gone. In a blink of an eye, my parents have been frosted. Now it's hard for me to imagine that they are deaf, toothless and gray, and they are still so sad. Today, when they sat face to face in a trance, my eyes were wet and my face was wet, but I tried not to make a sound. They will get old, their hands will often shake, and they often spill vegetable soup on their clothes when eating. At that time, please don't dislike them, be more patient with him, just like spilling vegetable soup on your clothes when you were a child.

I can't help asking myself, how often do you go home to visit your parents? Have they changed? "Women spend money at home, earn money at home, take care of others when they are young, and look at a man when they spend money at home. It is right to spend money on her family, but she owes her family all her life, but she doesn't necessarily touch her husband's family! " This is a passage on the internet, but it deeply pokes my heart. I am very happy that my mother can meet my father in the rest of my life. Even if I am not around, someone will tell her jokes when she is in pain, aging, illness, loneliness and loneliness, and we can also recall the story of our youth together. I believe that companionship is the best love. The deepest love is not to say love, to love a person, not to get much, but to make him happy and make him happy.