Why is it so realistic now that my brother has no money and my brother looks down on it?

There are two possibilities for this to happen. First, my younger brother himself cannot be independent, has no ability, and lacks the qualities of self-esteem, self-improvement and self-confidence, and the will and morality to make progress. He can't afford it, and his brother looks down on it. Second, I don't recognize people because I am looking for money. I don't have brotherly affection, and I lack the mind to care and help. So the weak can only rely on their own efforts to get rid of poverty and become rich.