What should blind date talk about when they meet for the first time? Do you want to talk more or less?

People often have strong self-confidence, which will be manifested in your measured self-mockery and will be felt by the other party. In addition, it doesn't hurt to start from yourself, even if you don't have a good proper limit, you can make the other person's attention more naturally on you.

Boldly evaluate most of the planned blind dates of the other party. Before meeting, they have mastered the basic information of each other, such as education, work, personality, family composition and so on. When I meet a conscientious parent or matchmaker, I even count a few moles on the other person's face from the photo. Therefore, the most important purpose of blind date is "whether it is pleasing to the eye". The standard of pleasing to the eye seems simple, but it is mysterious and unpredictable. Fortunately, men and women have the most basic curiosity. What does this blind date think of himself, whether it is love at first sight or not? So you should make use of each other's curiosity and speak your comments boldly and to the point at the first time. This is much more nutritious than a lengthy self-introduction and not knowing the so-called topic. It not only looks natural and graceful, but also expresses your sincerity, which can attract the great attention of the other party at the first time. If she is really good-looking, you can say, "Nice to meet you. You are beautiful. " Remember to be sincere. If she looks average, there is no need to lead her to the United States. You can evaluate her temperament or dress or something.

When dating, some people are used to holding themselves in the clouds and talking about how capable they are and how many people pursue them, thinking that this can attract each other, but they don't know that this is a sign of guilty conscience. Once the discerning eye sees through it, the taste of falling from the clouds to the bottom of the valley can be unpleasant. A truly confident person is good at self-mockery. Boasting often makes the other person think "so much", while self-mockery makes the other person feel "not so bad". This sensory difference can determine the other party's scoring standard for you. On the other hand, people who are good at self-mockery often have strong self-confidence, which will certainly be shown in your measured self-mockery and will also be felt by the other party. In addition, it doesn't hurt to start from yourself, even if you don't have a good proper limit, you can make the other person's attention more naturally on you. Zhao Benshan said to Song Dandan, "I'll tell you a joke and then open the awkward situation." Appropriate jokes and humor are always a good weapon to open an embarrassing situation. Blind date is a play. Even if there may not be an ending, at least we should make the blind date as enjoyable as possible and make it a comedy instead of a boring drama. But humor is easier said than done. How to grasp the scale is the biggest problem, and it is not good to turn it into lip service. Specific boring personal data should be understood clearly before two people meet. When dating, you don't have to struggle like an interview. At this time, you should show your personality characteristics, hobbies, what you have seen and heard. In short, you should act like a real person.

1, interesting things about work-saying these can show that you love your job. 2. Travel experience-If you have places you have all been to and similar experiences, it is naturally the most appropriate topic. 3, the latest movie-gossip will always seem a bit girly, but the latest movie is undoubtedly much better. 4, hometown customs-people who love their hometown always give people a reliable, stable and affectionate feeling. 5. Longevity for life-talk about the state of life you most yearn for, and paint a future for each other that you will work hard for. 6, personal interests-when dating, you can understand each other's interests. This is a very important topic for the future, which is easy to cause laughter. Pay attention to grasp the scale. 7, childhood anecdotes-people who have no anecdotes in childhood will not affect your glorious image, but will also make people feel that you are kind and lovely.