Why not complain to others easily?

Nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory. Schopenhauer once said that life is a pile of desires. If you can't satisfy your desire, it will be painful, and if you satisfy it, it will be boring. Life is like a pendulum, swinging between pain and boredom. If you want to complain, you can't stop complaining Always think of one or two, not eight or nine, and life will be better.

"A person is sick to death downstairs, and the family next door is singing the phonograph, opposite to get the children. There are two people upstairs laughing wildly; There was also the sound of playing cards. A woman was crying for her dead mother on a boat in the river. The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected. I just think they are noisy. "

When you complain, others may not feel the same way. No one can really understand you except yourself in this life. No one can understand all the joys and sorrows in your life story. People, living in this world, must taste the bitterness in life, and the fatigue in life must pay for it. Time is the best medicine for everything. When you get through someone, the pain you can get through and the fatigue you suffer will eventually usher in sweetness.

There is no eternal darkness in life. Those who share weal and woe have really suffered enough in the early stage, so they deserve the sweetness of the later life. The greatness of life is precious because of experience. The calmness and lightness of life can only be distinguished by twists and turns.

In essence, we all live in our own lives, and no one can completely save anyone. Complaining can't save people, but it may destroy them.

How does showing others your most vulnerable side help your situation? If the other person has the ability to help you, it is also the ability of others. When the butterfly pupates, its wings will shrink seriously and lose their vitality, so when it comes out of cocoon, it must go through a painful struggle to make the body fluids flow to the wings, so that the two wings can fly effectively in the air.

A man can't stand it He found a sharp thorn and gently poked a hole in the cocoon and pupa to help it out. After a while, it slowly poked its head out from the inside, and finally a little bit of the whole body was easily exposed. He was complacent about helping a weak life, and then he seemed to feel something was wrong. A closer look reveals that its body is very bloated and its wings are extremely atrophied and weak.

Only then did he realize that he had done a good deed. I saw that butterfly not only couldn't fly in the air, but also showed its complete beauty. Instead, he crawled painfully for a while and died. How to sharpen a strong will without experiencing pain and suffering? Others' is others' after all. If the other person is unable to help you, it is useless to talk more, which will only cause trouble to others. If another person you meet is up to no good, you have to add a joke.

You can talk when you encounter difficulties, but you can't always complain!