The story of Confucius borrowing an umbrella

I wonder how many people have read the story of Confucius borrowing an umbrella?

Confucius went out one day and it was going to rain, but he didn't bring an umbrella. It was suggested that he borrow it from Xia Zi.

Confucius said: No, Xia Zi is a stingy person. If I borrow it, he won't give it to me, and others will think that he doesn't respect the teacher. Give it to me. He must be very sad.

When dealing with people, we should know their shortcomings and advantages, and don't use their shortcomings to get along and test them, otherwise the friendship will not last long.

Generally speaking, I advise you not to test people's hearts, because you will get two results: 1, otherwise you will embarrass and hate each other; 2, otherwise you will let yourself down!

-I think Kong is too arbitrary!

How do you know there won't be a third, fourth or even more?

For example:

Why can't the other person hold an umbrella for you and two people walk together under the same umbrella? Is it an umbrella in the Spring and Autumn Period? Is it too small? Isn't it enough for two people to walk side by side? Haha;

4. What if the other person really wants to get close to you, but there has been no suitable opportunity to get close to you? Isn't this a good opportunity for him? I worry every day: my teacher is too famous-Confucius, thousands of disciples. How can I get the teacher's attention?

How about some hidden rules? Don't many postdoctoral tutors often do this: Do you want to graduate? If you want, you have to have some hidden rules. Men get the money, women get the body, you know! But I'm not a woman and I have no money … what should I do? what can I do? depressed ...

I'm worried, it's raining!

It happened that the teacher didn't bring an umbrella today, and the golden opportunity came! Oye waits for no man!

As a result, he confidently said, "Please accept it, teacher!" ! I like walking in the rain. Don't worry about me. Serving teachers is my pride. Ha ha ha ha, I do! "

So, he will give you his umbrella and let himself enjoy himself in the rain. The important thing is to get a place in the teacher's mind! Well, a willing son can teach you!

Ha, ha, ha, I think I can go to the live recording program of Seven Overlords! Get on that long-awaited stage! If you are broad-minded, there will be the fifth, sixth or even seventh, eighth and ninth situations.

Therefore, I think: people's hearts still need to be tested!

Because the present society is too realistic and impetuous, it has turned people into that … and lost the virtue passed down by the Chinese nation in the past!

It's not even like our post-80 s generation, beautiful and simple when I was a child!

What were we like 20 years ago?

1 Friendly, helpful, warm-hearted and timely;

2, not so material and realistic;

3, it is true that people don't have to wear masks when they get along with each other;

4. Be polite, educated and respect others;

5. Unite and strive for the four modernizations;

6, but the whole social atmosphere is thriving;

7. People are not so selfish and indifferent;

8. Treat each other with sincerity;

He keeps his word and speaks good faith ... although there are a few bad people, most of them are good people!

But why are people like this now? -selfish, indifferent, as long as it is helpful to yourself, even if it is useless, but as long as people have money and power, good family conditions, good work units, rich second generation and rich resources, they will start to curry favor with, flatter and flatter as much as possible, and try to take the initiative to communicate!

On the contrary, those who have no money, ordinary family conditions and ordinary jobs will not do too many things for you, such as indifference, disgust, not handling, pretending to turn a blind eye, ignoring, automatically shielding, selective silence, alienation, pretending to be nice to others and pretending to be dead, zombie fans!

Even those students who grew up in elementary school, junior high school and high school, such as friendship, innocence and happiness, have forgotten all those beautiful things, and only value the gain and loss of interests and the maximization of interests, and only value whether the other party can help you!

Maybe you've been buttering up for a long time, and you don't care at all. In the end, you just worked in vain, just spent a month in front of the mirror.

Therefore, today's society really needs to test people's hearts in some things, because only in this way can we distinguish the so-called "friends" around you!

So that you can change your original "psychedelic cognition" and "the way to get along with them" in the future!

Feelings that can stand the test are the most precious and cherished feelings, whether it is love, friendship, affection or other feelings.

In fact, over the years, at different times and at different stages, there will always be classmates or friends around me asking me: What is a friend? Even ask: what is a true friend? Such a topic.

I still remember a few years ago, at the dinner table where a primary school classmate thanked me for treating me after marriage, I was deeply asked "such a philosophical question"!

I remember telling him clearly,

"My point of view has not changed for more than ten years! That is-friends, only look at you in things! See you on the money! Only in this way can you know who your friends are and who your real friends are!

The usual rhetoric, saying that we are friends and you are my best brother ... and so on, has no reference value! It will only make your heart warm, and your heart will be warm.

But only when it comes to things and money, you can see it at a glance! "

Hehe, this is the true meaning summed up by life experience!

Keigo Higashino said: There are two things in the world that you can't look directly at. One is the sun, and the other is the human heart.

I added: looking directly at the sun hurts your eyes; Look straight at people's hearts and hurt people. But I have always been a fool who is willing to test human nature, because I am a very serious and special person, because I am a fool who likes to get to the bottom of it.

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