How to write the heroic slogan of getting married in the countryside

In ancient times, marriage followed the rule of "parents' orders, matchmakers' words", so some young people didn't even know who the other party was before they got married, because they were all parents' favorites, so they could only accept it and could not resist it. But there is a saying among the people that "if you marry a woman who looks up, you won't marry a man who looks down", and people are convinced of it. What does this sentence mean?

Let's take a look at what an upward looking woman is. Generally speaking, a woman who looks up is the kind of woman who is full of domineering and walks and talks with her head held high. What kind of existence is a woman who looks up to the countryside? If it is explained in more popular terms, it is a bitch and a shrew. People think that if such a woman marries a family, the family can't jump around, and there are many contradictions. Originally in ancient times, it was a society where men were superior to women. Women's social status is not high, and they even advocate the concept of "morality without talent". But at that time, there were still many demands on women, such as taking care of their husbands, educating their children and being filial to their parents-in-law. But if it is a "woman who looks up", women who usually like to walk with their heads up are generally lively and careless, or have a strong personality. Fortunately, in today's era, the concept of "looking up to women" has long been out of date, and women's social status has also improved. In a family, men and women are equal.

Then what is a bowing man? It's the kind of man who doesn't dare to speak loudly and walks with his head down for fear of falling. It also refers to men who have no opinion of life. When they encounter something, they often just keep their heads down instead of trying to solve it. Therefore, the ancients did not advocate marrying their daughters to such men, because there was no man to rely on when things happened after marriage. Everything depends on yourself, and it is easy to be unhappy in the future. And marry a man who doesn't bow his head, which is also a basic cognition of women to men. One must hold one's head high when walking. If you walk with your head down, you can see that you have no sense of responsibility and no confidence in yourself. How do you support a family? Originally, men have to support their families in the future. How can they support their families when they live with their heads down? Who dares to marry such a man without sense of responsibility and responsibility? Whoever marries loses, whoever marries loses. Fortunately, this kind of bowing was rare in rural areas before, because rural men had to suffer hardships and exercise since childhood. However, this kind of man has increased in modern times, that is, people call him "Ma Baonan", which refers to a man who does nothing but lets his mother do everything under the care of his mother.

It is the common sense of rural people on the concept of marriage that you can't marry a woman who looks up and a man who looks down. But as long as the husband and wife live a life of mutual respect, even women who look up will be happy in marriage, and some men are willing to be men behind women.