New slogan of the Civil Affairs Bureau: Is it true that marriage does not equal happiness?

It’s true, the Civil Affairs Bureau has changed its slogan: “Marriage is not necessarily happy, being single is not necessarily unhappy. You are born as one person, and you cannot be two people when you leave. Love is a luxury, and it is impossible to live without it. OK".

Yes, this slogan of the Civil Affairs Bureau is so well written. Marriage is not the whole of a person, but only a part of a person. In fact, what people ultimately want is stable emotions and good finances, and It’s not about whether someone loves you or not. If a person experiences a major event or a matter of life and death, it will always make you grow. Who can rely on whom? Only you can rely on yourself. Love and marriage are all nonsense. Of course, what I am referring to here is It is wrong love and wrong marriage. There is indeed good love and good marriage. What we are referring to here are those love and marriages that are superficial and completely destroy the three views.

Sometimes when I hear or see people around me talking about feelings or love, I feel so childish and ridiculous. If you have this time, use it for Isn’t it right on topic? Some people will say, what’s the point? What's the topic? Ha ha! I don’t even understand this, it’s really a stick, it’s about improving yourself, adding value to yourself, making yourself more and more valuable.

I saw this passage on Douyin: I will regret it even if I get married, and I will regret it if I don’t get married. How should I say this? If you meet the right person, getting married is a good choice, but if you find that you are not suitable after getting married, divorce is a better choice.

Don’t take marriage too seriously. Of course, most people are still very traditional. For example, it is natural for men to get married when they are college students, and for women to get married when they are college students. But that is just a marriage in a feudal society. The concept;

Modern people do not take it as a matter of course that men and women should marry. Instead, they let nature take its course, and some even go against it. Why should men and women marry? Yeah, as a college girl, you should get married. You can get married whenever you want, and you can’t get married if you don’t want to get married. I was born as a human being, and as a human being, I was not born to get married, but to get married as a human being.

Rules are made by people, and they can be broken. As long as you have your own sovereignty and your destiny is in your own hands, it is up to you to decide how you want to live.

However, again, if you have a suitable partner, it is best to have someone around you who shares the same joys and sorrows and is single-minded, so that when something happens, there will be someone there. You can discuss it and make up your mind. Especially when you are sick, you can have a loved one by your side. This is also where the warmest true love in the world is and the most beautiful moment in life.

Freedom of marriage is also an unchanging trend among modern people. When modern people talk about getting married at an age, they feel a bit weird. In what age are they still talking about this topic? Modern people talk about how much assets you have and how much you are worth. Of course, if these are compared with a healthy body, a healthy body is still the most important wealth in life. You see, if you don’t have A healthy body, no matter how many assets you have, no matter how high your net worth is, your life will still be zero, so! When people are increasing their value, they must protect their health.