Should we pay attention to the sense of ceremony in our life? Why?

The sense of ceremony is to make one day different from other days and one moment different from other moments.

I saw a question "Why should people have a sense of ceremony" in Zhihu.

There is a well-received answer: the sense of ceremony marks the spiritual connotation behind every ordinary day and action.

"The Little Prince" said: The sense of ceremony is to make one day different from other days, and to make a moment different from others.

I always think that the sense of ceremony is solemn and meaningful to us, and it is enough to make ordinary days shine.

There is a passage in the American drama Desperate Housewives:

The reason why many people's lives are dull and boring is actually a lack of sense of ceremony.

In the movie Breakfast at Tiffany's, Hepburn likes to wear a black dress and dress up gracefully and exquisitely. Eat breakfast gently and calmly in front of Tiffany's window.

She enjoys every day, every morning and every moment. She has commendable bread and hot coffee in her hand, just like a feast.

I have a colleague with me. Over the years, every time it comes to an anniversary or birthday, she will definitely see a big bunch of flowers on the table when she goes to work.

She smiles happily every time. You don't have to guess that this is her husband's smile, because this is their exclusive romance.

She told me that the sense of ceremony in love is very important, which is the secret of their ten-year stable relationship.

The sense of ceremony shows the degree of attention and concern for each other.

For love, the sense of ceremony is respect.

Haruki Murakami said: Without this little bit of luck, life is just a dry desert.

The purpose of a sense of ceremony is to make you feel that you are living. And those who bring you a sense of ceremony are often people who love you.

I have seen the moment when champagne is sprayed during the celebration, and I have also seen the ring I wear when I propose successfully; I have seen hugs and love letters.

I find that people who really love you and want you to understand their feelings will definitely express their love.

I saw a passage some time ago and couldn't help crying:

The moment a lover leaves usually does not make people feel sad. What really makes you feel sad is the half-box of milk opened in the refrigerator, the green basket slightly dragged by the wind on the windowsill, the quilt quietly folded on the bed, and the noise made by the washing machine late at night.

It is not until a certain moment that we realize how much we miss someone. In that special scene, or in an environment with a strong sense of ceremony, each of us will become soft inside.

Recently, the very popular movie "Journey to the Dream Ring" made the world know about the Day of the Dead in Mexico, and also made us rethink the distance between life and death, as well as the value and significance of the ceremony.

We are beginning to realize that a sense of ritual can make us feel awe of what we care about, and it can awaken our respect for life.

If there is no sense of ceremony in life, it will weaken each other's thoughts.

As long as the ceremony continues, it will never be forgotten.

In Luoyang, a 70-year-old man planted a hundred acres of peach blossom forest after his wife died. Just because my wife said before she died that she liked peach blossoms.

Planting a flower mountain for you is the best sense of ceremony.

At the concert in Jay Chou last year, a boy proposed successfully. At that time, he jumped with excitement. Unfortunately, they still couldn't hold the wedding because the girl died in a car accident.

This year, he came alone and cried like a child under the stage.

Listening to the songs we heard together at that time just missed the best sense of ceremony.

Seven years ago, Yamada Kazuo's wife was diagnosed with cancer, and after her death.

The husband and wife found a small team that made bread with their wives before, reopened the bakery, and distributed the extra bread to homeless people on the street and at the station like their wives.

To continue your dream is to miss the best sense of ceremony.

Chen Xiukang, a 70-year-old man, wrote a memoir of10.5 million words after his wife's death, so as to continue to miss his wife and write down the beauty of each other when they were young.

When you are away, I miss you in words, which is the best sense of ceremony in love.

Since 2007, there has always been a white-haired old woman in the London underground station.

She always sits on the bench on the platform, quietly watching the vehicles come into the station, but never takes it.

In fact, she just wanted to hear the phrase "attention gap" when the car pulled into the station, which was recorded before her husband died and the first sentence he saw her.

Listening to your voice, for me, is the best sense of ceremony in love.

In the movie Teachers and Stray Cats, the old headmaster's wife died, leaving only a stray cat.

Despite the constant friction with the cat, until one day, the cat disappeared.

Only then did he realize that he entrusted the cat with his thoughts about his wife. To this end, he began to look for cats crazily.

After you left, I loved the cat as much as I loved you. This is the best sense of ceremony in love.

Everyone's ceremony is different for those who have loved, but love is the same.

Everyone misses each other in their own way. Although they can't meet, they always try their best to hug those who miss them.

Behind every sense of ceremony is an expression of love.

Missing is the best ceremony in love, which makes all places warm.

You must hug those people you miss very much, and remember to see those people you have dreamed of many times when you wake up.

If you are far away, let the flowers on the other side take your place and give them a hug.

Love is separated by mountains and seas, and mountains and seas can also be flat. Your thoughts will surely come with your ceremony.

Some love will never be forgotten. As Zhang Xiaoxian said in Nostalgia for the Past:

I just think of you in many, many small moments. For example, a movie, a song, a lyric, a road and countless moments to close your eyes.

I miss you. I want to hug you.

Such an encounter is the best expression for the living and the dead.