When people reach middle age, what is actually more important than face?

I met Amei, and she greeted me warmly and asked me if there were any suitable clothes. I really can't imagine ah mui quitting her job and starting a stall. She used to work as an office clerk in a factory. Wear famous brands among senior people every day. Behind the fascinating life is an unstoppable life. Ah Mui only earns more than 2,000 yuan a month and can only support herself. By setting up stalls, Ah Mei earns eight or nine thousand yuan a month. Although I have lost face, I live a very stable life. At that moment, my nose was sore, and no one was short of money in middle age.

If you don't want to make money, who will take care of the elderly and children, and who will pay off the mortgage and car loan? Money supports the face of middle-aged people. When you are rich, you will be respected even if you farm at home. When you lose face and are willing to do anything modest, it means that you are entering middle age. Compare your youth with your middle age, and you will know how stingy middle-aged people are. Seeing the new clothes in the mall, I had to try to buy them. I dress better than others, and the style of clothes is relatively novel. In this way, I can compare myself with the people around me. I really have face.

When choosing clothes, do you have to confirm with the waiter that they are new clothes? When you see the slogan of a big sale hanging in the mall, you must go and have a look. Even the clothes you sell must be bargained. It doesn't matter when the clothes were made. When I get together with friends, I try to drink and like to go to high-end places. With the help of alcohol, he boasted about himself and talked about his ideals crazily. Even if they don't have much money in their pockets, they will try to pay the bills. Pay for yourself and be kind to yourself, so that you can save face. I don't like more and more social activities. My circle of friends is getting smaller and smaller. Sometimes, some friends get together and they can accept places like food stalls. When I paid the bill, I began to care about it. Either take turns to be the host, or decide who is the host in advance.

Middle-aged people save money to buy clothes and pay tuition for their children. I plan some money to pay my parents' living expenses every month. Of course, he is still worried. If his parents are ill, no matter where he spends money, he will seriously consider how much he will spend this month and how to plan his savings. The waiter gave you a good expression and said a lot of nice things. But in the end, you chose "unfeeling". Hard life has taught you thrift and diligence. You always think that this money is in your pocket and is the most practical. Looking at the dazzling array of goods, you will secretly swear: "When I have money, I will buy it back. I want to buy something better."

Only by reducing the desire for life to the lowest point and earning a lot of money can life really get better. In order to save face, you once showed your most charming side. After borrowing someone else's car, I have to prove everywhere that I have a car. Now you can afford a limousine, but you are used to riding an electric donkey and even squeezing buses. Buy only the right products, don't buy expensive products, or be too lazy to buy any products. If you have something at home, you will live a good life. You can save your face and live your own life. When you reach middle age, you will take good care of your wallet. Take off your mask and be yourself, and you will have the most faces.