Sleep in bridge opening and don't go home. Hunan men have been wandering in Foshan for 20 years and are extremely indifferent to their families. Why?

It is said that home is a warm harbor, but the bridge that runs away from home is constantly being staged. Most people have problems with their families, which they can't solve by themselves. Running away from home is their ultimate choice.

There is a man who has run away from home for 20 years in Foshan. With the help of volunteers, he was finally reunited with his family before the Spring Festival. How did he come here in these 20 years? Why would he rather wander than go home?

Hunan men have been wandering in Foshan for 20 years

This person's name is Luo, and he comes from Hengyang, Hunan. In the face of his father and sister whom he had not seen for twenty years, Luo's face was full of indifference. Even though his elderly father was crying, Luo remained unmoved and didn't even have the will to speak.

Late at night on the 29th of last month, volunteers found a tramp at the bottom of Foshan Bridge. He is Luo.

At that time, the volunteers were ready to send him home, but Luo didn't cooperate. They went to great lengths to learn that Luo was from Hengdong County, Hengyang.

After unremitting efforts, the volunteers finally got in touch with Hengdong and found Luo's family on February 4 with local assistance.

It is understood that Luo left home because he had a conflict with his family. The trip lasted for 20 years, and the time of breaking off diplomatic relations was 15 years. What is the specific contradiction, but Luo does not want to say more.

Sleep in bridge opening instead of going home.

After Luo left, the family also called the police and looked for it themselves, but there was no news. His mother also passed away with regret three years ago.

After getting the news of Luo, the family drove from Hunan to Foshan overnight, but the reunion after 20 years was not as smooth as expected. When the volunteers took them to the bottom of the bridge, Luo had disappeared.

Indifferent to family members who are looking for relatives.

In desperation, volunteers had to take their families to report the case. With the help of the police, the volunteers learned that Luo was last seen near Dunbu village.

They immediately rushed to Dunbu village to look for it, and finally found Luo Dong Zhong sitting on a stone bench in a small park in the village.

Perhaps because a knot has not been opened, Luo has a resistance to his distant family and is obviously unwilling to go home with his family.

The volunteers were a little surprised to see this situation, so they had to patiently persuade him: "How hard it is for them to come to you so far. Your father is over 70 years old. Let bygones be bygones. Let's start over and be good people, shall we? " Never go this way again! "

Faced with everyone's persuasion and tears from relatives, Luo finally agreed to go home.

Whose fault is this?

If there were no intractable contradictions, Luo would not have been wandering for 20 years. Twenty years later, he is still indifferent to seeing his relatives again. If it weren't for a heart of stone, he was hurt too deeply by his family.

However, the life of a tramp is not easy. Being hungry and full, living in bridge opening and being discriminated against are beyond the capacity of ordinary people. No one knows what he experienced at home. He would rather sleep on the street than go home.

If the fundamental problem is not solved, it is useless to be "persuaded" to go home by a large group of people this time, and he may run away from home again.

Most children run away from home because of their parents' long-term eccentricity, strength, cynicism and other soft violence, and few are beaten away from home.

Unfortunately, these parents don't realize their problems at all. They think these are the art of language, and the purpose is "for your own good"! As everyone knows, long-term mental depression and even abuse can't play any positive role, but will only push the child to a dead end.

I hope all parents can put down their airs, give their children equal opportunities and channels for communication, and give them advice, but don't point fingers.