What habits are civilized manners?

Civilized terms: 1. Hello! 2. Please sit down! 3. Excuse me! 4. Please wait! 5. Sorry! 6. Please forgive me! 7. I'm sorry! 8, it doesn't matter! 9. You're welcome! 1. Thank you! 11. Please don't worry! 12. Sorry to have kept you waiting. 13. Go ahead! 14. What can I do for you? 15. Please show me your ×× Certificate. 16. I will try my best to help you. Serving you is what I should do. 18. Please feel free to ask if you don't understand. 19. Please go through the formalities of social insurance registration and payment declaration according to regulations. 2. Please truthfully declare the payment base. 21. Please sign the repayment plan. 22. Please provide the correct account number of your company. 23. Please cooperate with us in the payment work. 24. Please issue the reconciliation list in time.

Personal etiquette in this paragraph

(1) Instrument

Instrument refers to a person's appearance, which is the outward manifestation of a person's mental outlook. A person's hygiene and cultivation habits. Clothing is closely related to image and dignified and generous appearance. 1. Hygiene: Hygiene is the key to the beauty of appearance and the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how beautiful you look and how luxurious your clothes are, if you are covered with dirt and smell all over, it will inevitably destroy a person's virtue. Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits, such as going to sleep, getting up, washing your face and feet, brushing your teeth at breakfast and dinner, washing your hair and taking a bath frequently, and paying attention to personal hygiene such as grooming, changing clothes and washing your hands frequently. Don't clean your personal hygiene in front of people. For example, picking teeth, picking nostrils, digging ear wax, manicure, rubbing dirt, etc., these behaviors should be avoided by others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. When talking with people, you should keep a certain distance, the voice is too loud and it will splash on the population. 2. Clothing: Clothing reflects a person's cultural quality and aesthetic taste. Specifically, it should not only be natural, decent, harmonious and generous, but also abide by some established norms or principles. Clothing should not only adapt to its own specific conditions, but also always pay attention to the dress requirements of the objective environment and occasions, that is, time, place and purpose should be given priority in dressing, and efforts should be made to keep in harmony with time, place and purpose in all aspects of dressing.

(2) Speech

Speech, as an art, is also an important part of personal etiquette. 1. Politeness: The attitude should be sincere and cordial; The sound size should be appropriate, and the tone should be peaceful and calm; Respect others. 2. Terms: honorifics, words expressing respect and courtesy. Such as "please", "thank you" and "sorry" in daily use, and the word "you" in the second person. The first meeting is "long heard"; I haven't seen you for a long time; Please be criticized as "teaching"; Trouble others to call it "disturbing"; Asking for convenience is "borrowing light"; Entrust people to do things as "please" and so on. Efforts should be made to form the habit of using honorifics. At present, the polite expressions advocated in our country are ten words: "hello", "please", "thank you", "sorry" and "goodbye". These ten words embody the basic language form of speaking civilization.

(3) manners

1. Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized quality. Therefore, when talking, first of all, the two sides should look at each other and listen to each other, and they should not look around, read books and newspapers, look tired and yawn. Otherwise, it will give people the impression of being absent-minded, arrogant and unreasonable. 2, standing posture: standing is the most basic posture of people, is a static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, the center of gravity should be placed on the palms of the two front feet, chest out, abdomen in, jaw in, head up and shoulders relaxed. Arms droop naturally or cross in front of the body, eyes are straight and smiling. When standing, don't bend your neck, waist and legs. In some formal occasions, it is not advisable to put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your chest, and don't make some small moves subconsciously. This will not only appear stiff, give people a sense of lack of self-confidence, but also lose the dignity of manners. 3, sitting posture: sitting, is also a static shape. Dignified and graceful sitting will give people an elegant, steady and natural aesthetic feeling. The correct sitting posture should be: straight back and relaxed shoulders. Women should put their knees together; Male knees can be separated, but not too big, generally not more than shoulder width. Put your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of your chair. On formal occasions, you should be gentle and gentle when seated, dignified and steady when you get up, and you should not sit up and down suddenly, which will make the tables and chairs rattle and create an embarrassing atmosphere. No matter what sitting posture, the upper body should be kept straight, as the ancients said, "sitting like a clock." If you insist on this, then no matter how you change your posture, it will be beautiful and natural.

Meeting etiquette

Handshake ceremony

Handshake is an important way to communicate thoughts, feelings and enhance friendship. When shaking hands with others, look at each other with a smile, don't be absent-minded, look around, and don't wear a hat and gloves to shake hands with others. Under normal circumstances, the handshake time should not exceed 3 seconds, and you must stand and shake hands to show respect and courtesy to others. Shake hands also pays attention to a certain order: generally, it pays attention to "the honour person decides", that is, after the lady, the elder, the married person and the person with a high position reach out, the man, the younger generation, the unmarried person and the person with a low position can reach out and respond. If a person wants to shake hands with many people, then the polite order is: first superior, then subordinate, first elder, then junior, first master.

bow

bow, which means bending over to salute, is a courtesy way to admire others. When bowing, you must stand at attention, take off your hat, salute, or say nice things while bowing. Look at each other before bowing to show sincerity of respect.

Greeting

Greeting is a silent greeting etiquette, which is often used to greet people of different races. In social occasions, people often wave, bow and take off their hats to express their friendliness.

Editing the etiquette of public places in this paragraph

(1) Etiquette of specific public places

Cinema

Audiences should be seated as early as possible. If their seats are in the middle, they should politely signal to those who have already been seated to let them pass; It's rude to give your seat to the front, and don't let your hips face others' faces. You should pay attention to dressing neatly, even if it's hot and bare-chested, it's unsightly. Don't make a hullabaloo about in the theater, laugh and make noise, and don't treat the theater as a snack bar. After the performance, the audience should leave in an orderly way, and don't push and shove.

Library and reading room

Library and reading room are public study places. ① Pay attention to neatness and obey the rules. You can't wear sweatshirts and drag shoes in. When sitting, don't reserve a seat for others. When consulting the catalogue card, don't turn it upside down or tear it, or scribble on it with a pen. ② Keep quiet and sanitary. It is impolite to walk lightly, not to talk loudly and not to eat food with sound or shells. (3) of the library, reading room books, chairs, benches and so on belong to the public property, also should pay attention to care, don't arbitrarily depict, destruction. (2) Riding etiquette 1. Riding a bicycle: strictly abide by the traffic rules. Don't run a red light, don't hold an umbrella when riding, don't chase each other or race in twists and turns, and don't take people by bike. When the old, the weak, the sick and the disabled are slow to move, they should give understanding and take the initiative to be polite. 2, by train, ship: in the waiting room, waiting room, to keep quiet, don't shout. Line up in turn when getting on the bus and boarding the ship, and don't jostle and bump. In carriages and ships, don't spit everywhere, don't throw scraps of paper around, and don't let children urinate everywhere. 3. Take the bus: when the bus arrives at the station, it should queue up in turn, and take care of women, children, the elderly and the sick and disabled. Don't grab the seat after getting on the bus, let alone put things on the seat to occupy the seat for others. Passengers who are old, weak, sick, pregnant and holding babies should take the initiative to give up their seats. (3) Tourism etiquette 1. Sightseeing: All tourists should take good care of the public property in the tourist area. Public buildings, facilities, cultural relics and historic sites, even flowers and trees, cannot be destroyed at will; Don't scribble, scribble or carve on columns, walls, monuments and other buildings; Do not spit, urinate or pollute the environment; Don't litter the peel, paper scraps and sundries. 2. Hotel Accommodation: Passengers staying in any hotel should not talk loudly in the room, so as not to affect other guests. Be polite to the waiters and thank them for their services. 3. Dining in a restaurant: respect the work of the waiter, be humble and polite to the waiter, and wait patiently when the waiter is too busy, and don't knock on the table or bowl or shout. For the waiter's mistakes in work, we should put forward them in good faith, and we should not be sarcastic and sarcastic.