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The etiquette of human civilization is to maintain normal social life, which needs people to abide by with the lowest morality. Through long-term life and mutual communication, it gradually formed a person, fixed in customs and traditions. For a person, etiquette is the external expression of a person's ideological and moral quality, cultural accomplishment and communicative ability, and etiquette is the reflection of a country's social civilization, morality and lifestyle. Note that etiquette education has become an important part of moral practice. The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content, there are appearance, words and deeds, expressions, clothes, conversation, interpersonal communication and so on. Personal etiquette, public etiquette, hotel and guest etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, cultural exchange and other objects. In the process that the behavior in interpersonal communication is called politeness principle, the expression of speech act etiquette is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, we should pay attention to etiquette, so that people can bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds on the principle of "respecting others, self-discipline, moderation and honesty". Etiquette, etiquette and politeness are rich and varied, but they have their own rules, and their basic etiquette principles are: first, the principle of respecting others; Second, the principle of self-discipline, that is, self-denial, seriousness, initiative, voluntariness, courtesy, self-control, introspection, self-demand, self-control, self-control, arrogance, and duplicity in the process of communication; Third, the principle of proportion, moderately grasp the appropriate scale; Fourth, the principle of good faith, honesty-oriented, treat people sincerely, do not take part in accidental amusement, and match words with deeds. Personal etiquette (1) instrument refers to a person's face, and a person's spirit is embodied in the appearance. A person's hygiene habits, dignified clothes and generous appearance are closely related to the formation and maintenance. 1, Hygiene: Beauty is the key to cleanliness and beauty, which is the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how good the appearance is, no matter how luxurious the clothes are, if they are dirty and smelly, they will definitely destroy a person's beauty. Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits. Wash your face and feet in the morning and evening, brush your teeth with food logistics, wash your hair and bathe frequently, comb your hair frequently, and pay attention to dressing change. Instead of "cleaning up personal hygiene" in front of people. For example, picking teeth, picking nostrils, digging ear wax, manicure, cleaning dirt and so on. These behaviors should avoid others, otherwise it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. You should keep a certain distance from others, don't be too loud and don't soak up people. 2 Fashion: Fashion reflects a person's cultural quality level and elegant and vulgar aesthetic taste. Specifically speaking, it is natural and decent, harmonious and generous, and must abide by certain norms or common law principles. Clothing should not only adapt to its own specific conditions, but also bear in mind that in the objective environment, people's dressing occasions, that is, the time of makeup and the position and use of the three elements, should be given priority, and efforts should be made to coordinate all clothing with the time, place and purpose of wearing. (2) As an art, conversation is also an important part of personal etiquette. 1, courtesy: honest and kind; Sound size is appropriate, calm and stable; Respect others. 2. Terminology: honorifics, words expressing respect and courtesy. Such as "please", "thank you", "sorry" and "you" in the second person. The first meeting was "Long News". Long time no see. Please criticize it as "suggestion". Trouble others to say "I'm sorry" and ask for convenience to say "I'm sorry"; The trustee acts as a "please", so we should try our best to keep it. Nowadays, the habit of using honorifics and advocating politeness is ten words:. "Hello", "please", "thank you", "sorry" and "goodbye" embody the basic words of cross civilization. In (C) 1, the formal language of etiquette and manners, gesture conversation: If the posture of conversation often reflects a person's personality, culture and civilized quality, then when talking, both sides should first face each other and listen to each other's opinions instead of looking around and reading newspapers. I have a tired face and yawned in my impression, otherwise it will give people the feeling of being absent-minded, arrogant and rude. 2. Standing posture: Standing posture is the most basic, it is a static and permanent beautiful institution, which needs polishing. Vertical, concentrated on the two front feet, chest out, abdomen in, head up, shoulders relaxed. Relax or cross your arms at the height of your body and eyes and smile. Don't stand with your neck crooked, your waist crooked, your legs bent, etc. In some formal occasions, it is not suitable to put your hand in his pocket or cross your chest, rather than a subconscious little gesture. This not only shows caution, but also gives people a feeling of lack of self-confidence and solemnity. 3. Sitting: Sitting is a static and dignified beauty, giving people a gentle, steady and generous natural beauty. The correct posture should be: ... straight back, relaxed shoulders, and women should put their knees together; Men's knees can be separated in some parts, but not too big, generally not more than shoulder width. Put your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of your chair. On formal occasions, when sitting, you should be gentle, dignified and steady from your seat, and don't sit in MengMeng, because there will be messy tables and chairs and an awkward atmosphere. What posture, the upper body must be straight, just like the ancients said, "sit like a clock." If you insist on this, it is a beautiful nature to change your position anyway. Author: Filial piety also needs civilization. Reply to this speech at 03:39 on June 23rd, 2007-. They are: lightness, steadiness, holding your chest high, raising your head and relaxing your shoulders, looking straight at your eyes, smiling, and natural arms. Shake hands: an important way to shake hands to communicate ideas, feelings and enhance friendship. When shaking hands with people, keep your eyes on each other, smile, look around, and don't wear hats and gloves to shake hands with people. Under normal circumstances, the handshake time should not exceed 3 seconds, and you must stand and shake hands to show it. Respect for others, polite handshake also pays attention to a certain order: at ordinary times, we pay attention to "honour person's decision", that is, when the president, elder, married, with a higher position, male, young, unmarried and lower position reach out, they can all reach out and respond. If a person wants to shake hands with many people, such a polite order is: young elders first, guests first, superiors first, subordinates first, ladies first. 2. Bow: Bow, which means string bow, is a way that polite people admire. Before bowing, his eyes stared at each other to show respect and sincerity. You must stand at attention, bow, take off your hat and be solemn. You must not eat in your mouth, nor salute or bow to his mouth. There is nothing to say. 3. Greeting: Greeting is a silent greeting etiquette, which is commonly used among acquaintances in social occasions. In social situations, people often wave, bow their heads and compliment their hats to show friendliness. Third, public etiquette (a) public places 1, theater specific etiquette: the audience should be in place as soon as possible. If he is in the middle seat, the passenger should be polite and have a map. Please do it yourself. It is impolite not to let you face the buttocks and faces of people who pass by in a relatively straight seat. It should be pointed out that the clothes are neat, even if the weather is hot, it is unsightly to be naked. You can't talk loudly, laugh or make noise in the cinema, and there is no theater or snack bar to eat and drink. The audience should leave in an orderly way if they don't postpone the performance. 2. Libraries and reading rooms: Libraries and reading rooms are public places for study. (1) Pay attention to cleanliness and follow the rules. You can't enter the stadium wearing a T-shirt and slippers. When sitting, it is not a place for others to stand. Check the directory card. Don't turn the card over or tear it off, or cross the brush and pen when daubing it. (2) Keep quiet and sanitary. When walking lightly, don't talk loudly and don't eat food that sounds like nuts. (3) Libraries, reading books, desks and chairs all belong to public property, so we should take care of them, and we can't depict and destroy them at will. (2) 1 Travel etiquette, riding: strictly abide by traffic rules. Don't run red lights when riding, don't chase each other or race in twists and turns, don't open an umbrella and don't wear a cycle. Understand the old, the weak, the sick and the disabled, and take the initiative to be polite. 2. Trains and ships: In the waiting room and waiting room, keep quiet and don't make any noise. When you get on the bus, line up when you get on the bus. Don't guess the crowd. In the car, such as the boat, don't spit everywhere, don't throw paper scraps, and don't let children defecate. 3. Bus: Women, children, the elderly and patients are considerate and courteous when the bus queues at the station. Don't grab the car seat, but don't put anything on other people's seats. And meet the needs of old, sick, disabled and pregnant passengers who should take the initiative to hold baby seats. (3) Travel Etiquette 1, Sightseeing: Let tourists take good care of the public property in the tourist area. Public buildings, facilities, cultural monuments, even flowers and trees, can not be destroyed at will; Graffiti, depict and work hard on columns, walls, monuments and other buildings; No spitting, urinating, polluting the environment; Don't put benches and sundries. 2, hotel accommodation: visitors should not make noise in any guest house in the room, so as not to affect other guests. Polite waiters are needed, and their services will be greatly appreciated. 3, hotel catering: respect the work of employees, waiters should be polite, waiters should be patient when busy, don't shout or knock on the table, knock on the bowl. Mistakes in the work of well-meaning employees should not be sarcasm or satire. Fourth, the school etiquette school, teaching is a special place, etiquette is an important part of moral education and aesthetic education. (A) is the theme of etiquette work for middle school students, so the etiquette knowledge that students should have is an important part of etiquette in school education. Students in class, in activities, in this process, teachers and students must abide by certain rituals. Author: Filial piety also needs civilization. Reply to this speech at 03:39 on June 23rd, 2007-. Class (1): When the bell rings, students should sit in the classroom and wait for the teacher. When the teacher announces class, the whole class should stand up in time. The greeting teacher is Miss Dali, just sit down. Students should go to school on time. If there are special problems, as a last resort, teachers should get permission before entering the classroom. (2) Attendance: Listen to the teacher carefully in class, highlight key points, think independently, and take notes on important contents. When the teacher asks questions, you should raise your hand first, become a teacher, and call your name before you stand up. Stand at attention in speech and body, with beautiful posture and loud voice, and use Mandarin. (3) Class: The teacher hasn't announced the bell. If students are in class, they should be at ease in speaking. Don't pick a book or table tennis table at random and make a noise. This is disrespectful to the teacher. When class is over, all the students stand still and say "goodbye" to each other. After the teacher left the classroom, the students did not leave. 2 fashion instrument: the basic requirement is to wear: appropriate; Timely; Clean; Generosity; Pay attention to the occasion. 3, more respect for etiquette: students should take the initiative to salute the teacher when they go up and down the stairs or meet the teacher on campus. When students come to the teacher's office, they should knock at the door before they can go in. In the place where teachers work and live, they don't just go through the teacher's things. The appearance and clothes of students and teachers should not point to comments, but should respect the habits and personality of teachers. 4. Student Etiquette: The profound friendship between students is the driving force for a United and friendly life. It should be noted that in the etiquette of students, it is the basic requirement for a good relationship between you and your classmates. Now students can call each other by their first names, but they can't use rude language such as "hello" and "hey". When students ask questions, you must use polite expressions such as "please", "thank you" and "you". When borrowing school and daily necessities, then you should ask for permission and return them after use, and express your gratitude. Students' misfortune, accidental failure and temporary learning backwardness should not be laughed at, ridiculed or discriminated against, but should be given enthusiastic help. Students' appearance, posture and clothes should not be subjective, and students should not be insulted by nicknames. They are definitely not classmates who laugh at physical defects. We must carefully discredit the issues of respect and self-esteem. Students should not talk about taboo topics, not just students. 5. Meeting etiquette: parties are usually held in schools. Usually held in the playground or auditorium, due to the large number of participants and formal occasions, etiquette meetings should pay special attention. Flag-raising ceremony: The national flag is a symbol of a country, and it is a way of patriotism education for teenagers who raise and lower the national flag. Flag-raising ceremonies are held regularly in primary schools, middle schools and universities. When the sign is used, all students should line up neatly, face the national flag and stand in salute. When raising the national flag and playing the national anthem, stand at attention, wear a hat and salute until the sign is completed. Flagpole is a serious and solemn activity. We must keep quiet and avoid freedom, laughing or looking around. Solemnly, when the five-star red flag Ran Ran rises, all people should pay attention to it. 6. Polite campus in public places: consciously keep the campus clean, and do not litter the classrooms, corridors and playgrounds, spit or litter. When there are no blackboards, tables, chairs, graffiti, graffiti or misplacing on the wall, take good care of public property, flowers and trees and save water and electricity. Consciously bicycle carport or at the designated place, do not stop and put it anywhere, and there is no traffic jam at school. Be thoughtful in the canteen, queue up in a crowded and chaotic way, cherish the food and don't throw away the leftovers. (2) Teacher Etiquette Teachers are the work of the school, not only the disseminators of scientific and cultural knowledge, but also the theme of students' ideological and moral education. In terms of knowledge, one's words and deeds and manners have a subtle influence on students' communication with teachers, thus playing a certain role in students' behavior. Therefore, teachers must attach importance to students' impressions and make themselves an excellent student who can be imitated in all aspects. 1, teacher's behavior: A person's temperament and self-confidence can often be shown from his posture protection. Shaping people's souls As an engineer of teachers, we should also pay attention to our behavior and manners in various occasions, so as to be generous, decent, natural and true. (1) Eyes: When the teacher speaks on the podium, his eyes should be soft and warm, giving people the feeling of quiet, convenient transportation and independence. When a student's voice is interrupted by a mistake, or something unexpected happens to interrupt your speech, you can't cast a contemptuous or disdainful look at the student's mind, which will damage your image. Author: Filial piety also needs civilization. Reply to this speech at 03:39 on June 23rd, 2007-. When giving lectures standing up, stand up straight and naturally, and don't shrug, raise your head or pass by. When it is necessary to walk around the podium, the steps should not be too big or too fast. (3) Gestures: Teachers generally need appropriate gestures to enhance the effect of the speech. Gestures should be appropriate, natural, appropriate and relevant. It is forbidden to give lectures or do other excessive acts on the tap water platform. 2. Teacher talk: Teachers' main task is inseparable from language. So as a teacher, we should pay attention to the expression of etiquette language. (1) Accurate expression: Offering every course in school is a rigorous and scientific knowledge. Teachers and professors should strictly abide by discipline requirements and not be vulgar. (2) The amount should be appropriate: lectures are not shouting slogans, and the voice should not be too loud, otherwise students will feel hoarse. If the voice is too low to hear, it will also affect the teaching effect. (3) The language should be concise: grasp the center of the lecture, don't talk nonsense and superfluous words, and give students a clean feeling. (4) When giving lectures, you can insert some humor and humor in time to enliven the classroom atmosphere and improve students' interest in learning. 3. Discuss with students: (1) Give notice in advance and get ready. It is polite and respectful to provide the best conversation greetings with advanced students, so that students are psychologically prepared. (2) Say hello to him and create an equal atmosphere. The right behavior, the behavior there. Speak in a calm tone, be patient, have a high capacity, don't refute, and show good moral cultivation. (3) It is fair and reasonable to distinguish occasions. In talking with people, the object and content of the conversation are consistent with the teacher. Do not exaggerate, deliberately exaggerate the facts, do not hearsay or unite to spread unfavorable things. V. Official Etiquette (1) It is a kind of etiquette to visit the superior who is wearing the instrument before. In order to explain the work of listening to the leader, remember; Leaders know the situation and answer truthfully; Such as the comfort of the leader, express my sincere thanks. The leader left and got up to see him off. The other party said "goodbye". Subordinate visits, warm and friendly reception. Very popular with tourists, but the reflection of the question, listen carefully, sometimes can not answer a polite answer. After the visit, get up and see me off. (II) Telephone Etiquette Basic requirements for the telephone front desk: (1) When the telephone rings, pick up the phone yourself at the first time, and then ask other callers about their intentions. (2) When communicating by telephone, carefully understand each other's intentions, and repeat and echo each other's conversation as necessary to show positive feedback to each other. (3) should be equipped with telephone records, important phone calls should be recorded. (4) After the phone call is over, go to the other party and then talk. Goodbye is the end of the conclusion. Put down the receiver, and then put it down gently to show respect for each other. (c) When the guests of the ceremony are introduced to the leaders met by the office, they are usually introduced by the staff of the office. Guide the guests to the office staff. Walk a few steps away from the guests to avoid tourists coming back. When meeting guests and accompanying leaders, don't wander around casually, but speak some appropriate random words or explanations from relevant units. Before entering the office, the leader should knock gently and get permission before entering. When knocking at the door, he must not venture in. The application of finger joints and beats cannot be forced. After entering the room, the leader should nod first, then introduce the leader of the guest, pay attention to the wording of the introduction, use the palm of your hand, and don't point your finger at each other. Generally speaking, the order of speech is low, and young people are introduced to higher-ranking and older people. Introduce to gay men; If several guests visit at the same time, they should be introduced in the order of their work level. Introduction: Go out of the room naturally, generously and keep a good posture. After you are born, you should close the door gently. Office workers (4) drive on the road, accompany the leaders and guests when they go out (1), so as to help their leaders and the first guests. (2) Open the door actively and sit firmly in the hands of leaders and guests after closing the door. Usually the driving door is on the right. First, respect, you should open the door on the right first to avoid closing the door too hard. (3) A very special car seat. In China, the left side is generally the lower right side. When the accompanying guest sits on the guest's left. Author: Filial piety also needs civilization. Reply to this speech at 03:39 on June 23rd, 2007-. The basic requirement of etiquette is to respect others. So when you pass it by hand, you show respect for each other. For example, submitting business cards: the two sides often exchange business cards after being introduced. When submitting a business card, hand it in respectfully with both hands and respond positively to other business cards. When accepting other people's business cards, hold them respectfully with both hands. After carefully reading or consciously reading the contents of the card, you can't put Kolor in your pocket or throw it around. General Etiquette (VI) Meeting Etiquette When meeting, there are mainly the following points: (1) The purpose of the meeting should be stated in the announcement. (2) notice the meeting. The meeting notice must indicate the time, place and theme of meeting the participants. In order to promote the release of the notice within a certain period of time and to prepare the participants. (3) Arrange the meeting place. The size of the venue depends on the number and content of participants. If the site is difficult to find, signposts should be installed near the site for guidance. (4) The meeting time should be compact. In the "marathon" long meeting, I often make long reports on it, but it is less than whispering and yawning. Therefore, the meeting should be regarded as a very important ceremony, which should be "short and to the point" and make effective use of time to discuss substantive issues. (5) etiquette. For any number of large or medium-sized meetings, participants should make pickup trucks. Usually it should be dealt with in detail by pre-meeting groups and questions. 6 Daily communication etiquette (1) Dinner etiquette Dinner is one of the common forms of public communication activities, and the right to eat adds a lot of color to their friendship. Eat on time, freshen up before dinner, and try to be neat and generous. At the dinner party of qualifying, guests can follow the arrangement of the host. After sitting down, the host began to eat. Don't spend too much time taking classes. If it is not enough, you can take the exam again. If you bring food to your host, say "thank you". When you want to eat gracefully, just shut up and chew slowly. Don't make any noise or vomit. Don't talk with food in your mouth. When you cover your teeth and mouth with your hands or sanitary napkins. When the host gets up to propose a toast, he should stop eating a meal and listen. When clinking glasses, the host touches the guests. After a long time, everyone raises their glasses at the same time, not necessarily clinking glasses. Don't drink too much, this is a toast, but it is not difficult to persuade strong irrigation. (2) When performing the ball dance ceremony, the appearance should be neat and generous, try to eat less onions, garlic and vinegar with strong pungent smell, drink more white wine, and don't sweat or excrete on the dance floor. People with colds should not enter the dance floor. Still not the best dancer. Don't jump now, study and go to the dance floor. Generally speaking, men take the initiative to invite women to be polite; If it is a relationship between superiors and subordinates, both men and women should take the initiative to invite the superiors and subordinates to dance. Dance with dignity, keep your body straight, positive and steady, and avoid being frivolous and reckless; Men should be gentle and honest, not women whose ropes are too tight; When your partner's feet touch others or collide, apologize politely first, and elsewhere. I stopped dancing at the end of this song. The male partner should give his seat to the female partner, and thank the female partner for nodding. In addition, pay attention to manners, maintain order, dance, don't smoke, don't throw peels, don't laugh, don't make noise at will, and put an end to all impolite behaviors. (C) 1 Visiting etiquette, before visiting the nearby ceremony: the interviewee should call in advance for both public and private interviews. There are four main content links: (1) self-reported (name, company, position). (2) Ask the interviewee if he is at work (family) or if he has time. (3) Visit the content (pay a courtesy visit to what you visit or use) to make the other party ready. (4) Determine the specific time and place of the visit with the consent of the other party. Pay attention to avoid eating and rest, especially during nap time. Finally, express your appreciation for each other. 2. Visiting method: (1) On time. (2) Pay attention to art knocking at the door. Tap with your index finger, with moderate intensity, and tap three times at regular intervals, waiting for a reply. If there is no answer, you can knock a little hard three times. If you have the answer, then stand sideways and hide the right door frame, and then walk half a step forward when the door is open relative to the main door. (3) Don't let the owner of the seat not just sit down. If the host is an elderly person or a boss, they can't sit down first if the host doesn't sit down. After the main seat, say "thank you" and sit down politely. The host handed the cigarette and tea with both hands to express his gratitude. If the host doesn't smoke, he should restrain his desire and try not to smoke as much as possible to show his respect for the host. The shopkeeper offered fruit to the elderly or other guests again, and then waited for their arrival. Don't be too casual, even at your closest friend's house. (4) When talking to the boss, use polite language. (5) The call time will not be too long. When he got up to say goodbye and wanted to master it, he said "forgive me" and apologized. Go out, turn around and take the initiative to reach out and shake hands with your master. He said, "Please stay." After the shopkeeper came out by himself, he took a few steps and waved, "Goodbye." The international exchange of foreign etiquette and protocol services is a very important task, and many diplomatic activities are often carried out by various communication protocols. Generally speaking, all kinds of communication activities have certain international practices, and countries often have their own unique methods according to their own characteristics and habits. We should carry forward our fine traditions, pay attention to manners and etiquette besides etiquette in diplomatic relations, and we should also respect nationalities and their customs and learn from their different ways and manners, so that we can be truly humble and polite in foreign activities. 1. behavior: in foreign affairs, it is elegant, dignified and steady, sincere and natural, amiable and careless. When you are at the station, don't lean on the table or believe it. When sitting, sit up straight, don't shake your legs, don't look leisurely, and lesbians don't send your legs away; When walking, walk lightly, and you can speed up your steps in case of emergency, but don't run in a hurry; When you speak, don't make too many gestures, don't laugh loudly, and don't yell at people. 2. Conversation: When talking with foreigners, you should have a natural expression and express your dignity with an honest attitude and civilized language. Don't sit in front of others when they are talking alone. If something needs someone to talk to, someone should finish it. If you have an urgent conversation but want to leave, you should greet each other and apologize. When talking with foreigners, don't ask about their private lives, and respect each other's age, medical history, marital status, salary and clothing price. Talking with foreigners, the theme in the jubilant news music channel is the best choice, which we are interested in, such as sports events, cultural performances, movies, scenic spots, tourism and cooking snacks. This topic is refreshing and can be widely welcomed.