Thoughts on "Step Forward"

How do you feel after tasting a famous book? It's time to calm down and write a review. Want to know how to write your thoughts after reading? The following are my comments on "Step Forward" (usually 7 articles) for reference only. Welcome to reading.

After watching Step Forward, I feel 1. When we are tired, we can bear it. When we are tired, we need to drink a bowl of chicken soup to motivate ourselves. The following text is taken from "Step Forward". I hope all women can bravely step forward and foresee their unknown selves.

What would you do if you were fearless? Those worries and secularism hold women back, and they are even more cautious in the workplace, hoping to break those shackles and be an independent and critical self.

I hope that when you are eager to be a leader, you can release your potential without reservation.

Most importantly, I hope you can believe in yourself and record your achievements. Women's self-doubt is stronger than that of men, which is a common phenomenon among women. Be confident and pretend to be confident when you are not confident. Success is due to self-confidence. Believing in your own value is the key to realizing your potential.

This is your time. You can help people build a more equal society. Everyone can sit at the table and let others hear their voices. Generations of women are cheering for you.

Your life course is not determined by what seems safe and easy to do, but by what is challenging and difficult. After hard work, you have passed the course that you failed at first. Through unremitting efforts, you have learned skills from jobs that you seem to be not good at. When you feel lonely or stressed, you can summon up the courage to ask others for help.

What problems I can help corporate executives solve is more important than what advantages you have.

Dare to challenge yourself, accept dedication, choose to grow, learn quickly at work and get results.

Your work performance is far more effective than the best negotiation skills in promoting salary increase. Making yourself irreplaceable in the company is the best bargaining chip for salary increase.

Focus on the key points, only focus on the really important work, work efficiently, and reduce unnecessary meetings.

Report to the supervisor every week and ask for his feedback. This is a good way for your personal growth.

Starting from setting a high goal, we should be ambitious, seize any opportunity, create opportunities, show our leadership and take a brave step forward.

After reading "Step Forward", I read "Step Forward" written by Cheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook. As a Facebook, Sandberg uses her own examples and statistics to guide women in the workplace through their own growth trajectory.

I have always hated self-help books. I didn't expect much before reading this book. However, after reading the previous chapters, I saw that the author deeply analyzed the root causes of gender inequality and solved the secret of women's success. I am very inspired, and I have a tendency to meet and hate each other. The title of the second chapter of this book is "Sitting at a Desk", with four simple words, which show women's insecurity in the workplace. In response to this insecurity, Sandberg proposed to "pretend to be confident", which really made people shine. If you think about it carefully, this is really a wonderful plan. This trick was discovered by Sandberg when he was teaching aerobics in the 1980s. Doing aerobic exercise requires smiling all the time. Sometimes it is natural to smile, but sometimes when you are in a bad mood, you have to pretend to smile. Sandberg often feels much happier after forcing himself to smile for an hour. When women in the workplace are praised for their good grades, they often feel that they are not worthy of recognition. Under the influence of China's traditional concept of women, they will think that those praises are cheated and that their success is only due to luck. At this time, women in the workplace should pretend to be confident and cheer themselves up with psychological hints, thus stimulating self-confidence and then evolving into real self-confidence.

According to an internal report of Hewlett-Packard Company, women will openly apply for positions only when they think they are 100% qualified, while men will respond to job invitations only when they think they are 60% qualified. This reveals that when women are promoted or competent for important jobs, they are too worried about their inability to undertake new tasks, too cautious to accept risks and too lazy to challenge themselves. To this end, Sandberg wrote in the book: "Women need to change their thinking, instead of always saying' I'm not ready', they should think' I want to do it, and I can learn while doing it'". I think Sandberg's words are not only written for working women, but also inspiring to everyone. When we encounter challenges, we always artificially set limits for ourselves and dare not accept them, but we don't know that it's now or never, as Alice Walker, a talented black woman writer, said: "The most common way to give up your strength is to think that you have no strength." I think the next time I meet an opportunity, I will bravely say to myself, "I can do it, at least I can learn by doing."

Everyone has his own dream, and we are all running for it. As a newcomer in the workplace, I'm glad I met this book. Sandberg encouraged women to pursue their goals bravely with simple language, and put forward practical suggestions sincerely and frankly, which helped me clear up my confusion and gave me enough courage to stick to my choice. Once upon a time, I also flinched because of timidity, hesitated because of difficulties, and gave up because of bumps. It was Sandberg who gave me strength, benefited me a lot and set sail. Step forward, I can do it, because this is a gesture, but also an attitude.

After reading "Step Forward" 3 and "Step Forward" by Cheryl Sandberg, I feel that my original idea has been greatly impacted. Many opinions or facts stated in the book are everywhere around me, but I have never turned a blind eye. Sometimes I hesitate to take a step forward and even fear to step back.

What impressed me most about the whole book is to face up to gender discrimination. I always thought that gender discrimination only existed in some backward mountainous areas or in the minds of the previous generation. In this small southern town where I live, although there is gender discrimination, it is not serious, at least it does not interfere with my life. While Cheryl lives in the United States, which is famous for her human rights, there should be little or no such discrimination. It was not until I finished reading this book that I suddenly realized that I had always turned a blind eye to many phenomena of sexism, never thought about it, and even unconsciously practiced sexism. For example, I never feel that there are too few women seats in every election. On the contrary, I think it is too radical for others to look down on a woman's business. I also often evaluate the women here as "hardworking, kind and respectable" for others. ...

As Cheryl said, many women "accept the status quo of women's low status from the heart". They will not question men, but "will question the degree of professional commitment, enterprise and leadership of same-sex work partners." These ideas are the result of education and indoctrination in all aspects of society. Although most people don't think that women are necessarily worse than men, almost everyone will admit that women are worse than men in many ways.

Cheryl suggested in her book that women should find a real life partner. A real life partner should not only have the same hobbies, but also be able to share everything in daily life with you, including doing housework and taking care of children. In real life, both parties should regard each other as "good partners on an equal footing with themselves".

In the family, whenever something happens, women always sacrifice, and what is more tragic is that women are willing to sacrifice! This shows that gender discrimination is deeply rooted, and even women themselves accept and agree!

After reading this book, I admire Cheryl's awakening in gender and her efforts from it. I think I will face up to the sexism in my life and abandon those old ideas in the future, hoping that real gender equality will come soon.

Cheryl believes that apart from being housewives and stay-at-home mothers, as professional women, we also need to be proactive. Everyone should go forward bravely after setting goals. Cheryl suggested that women should set two goals at the same time: a long-term dream and a short-term goal of "eight months". Once the goal is set, we should bravely move towards it and not be afraid of risks, because "the price of pursuing stability is the reduction of growth opportunities" and "women need to be more open to career risks." We should "accept risks, choose to grow, challenge ourselves, and take the initiative to strive for a higher position when it is time for promotion." This is often beyond the reach of many women. Limited by the concept of gender, women are full of worries and hesitation, and often miss the opportunity after repeated consideration.

So next time, when the opportunity comes, we need to remember Cheryl's advice: do what you really want to do, take a step forward, be proactive and always make progress.

Reflections on "Step Forward" 4 I just finished reading the book "Step Forward" today. This book is the work of Cheryl Sandberg, the current chief operating officer of facebook. She is the first female member of Facebook's board of directors and one of the top 50 "most influential" business elites in Forbes list.

She is mark zuckerberg's right-hand man and has a natural talent for management. She is the highest paid female executive in the United States and is called the most influential woman in Silicon Valley by the American media.

In this book, Cheryl Sandberg shows us the phenomenon and reasons of gender inequality in frank and interesting language, unlocks the password of women's success, and inspires countless women to bravely move forward, accept challenges and realize themselves!

From this book, I learned that when we are not confident in life, we can pretend to be confident, force a smile, ignore social views and recognize ourselves. Tell yourself that not everyone is popular, don't be too hard on yourself, adjust your mentality, don't say I'm not ready, think I want to do it. I can study and do without fear. One step forward is freedom, and the next step is bondage. I always believe that there are scenery waiting for you ahead.

Sandberg's motto "Completion is better than perfection" left a deep impression on me and inspired me greatly. There are many things in life that are put on hold by perfection, because they feel that they can't be perfect and don't try, because they feel that they are not as good as others and give up the beginning, and never try to finish before talking about perfection. Sometimes we bite the bullet and do something that we finally feel satisfied with.

For a long time, I have been thinking about reading more books. First, I don't have time (purely an excuse). Second, I feel old (or an excuse). It's no use studying. Third, I don't think I can be a writer or a celebrity. What's the use of reading? So I've just stayed at the level of thinking and didn't really do it. Since I made it for myself last week, I read two books a week, and I feel the effect is good. I read Wuthering Heights and Self-control. Reading books, drawing so-called maps, writing and sharing are all quite substantial. I also watched "Step Forward" this week, and I am going to read the second book "Imperfection is perfection". I only ask myself to complete it, not to be perfect. I can understand this book as much as possible. Never be too hard on yourself. Doing is better than not doing, and completion is better than perfection.

After reading "Step Forward" 5, I felt that at the stage of epidemic situation and wanting to improve myself more, I had my own arrangement when I met the book "Step Forward", and the word "Step Forward" had a faint power.

I read an article that with the extension of human life span, we actually have two middle-aged periods, one is thirty or forty years old and the other is sixty or seventy years old. We not only want to prolong life, but also need a better quality of life. Therefore, when the first middle age comes, we need to plan and prepare for our career, interests and life for the rest of our lives.

The author Cheryl Sandberg said that in the Facebook office, she was particularly moved by several slogans, "Completion is better than perfection" and "What would you do if you had no fear?" Opportunity favors those who dare to take risks. She encourages women to pursue their dreams and life goals, and also encourages and supports women to be proactive and become leaders in their own professional fields.

All along, I like to pay attention to the outstanding, shining and self-living women of all ages, and I also like to pay attention to the women around me. In the development of the new era, more and more women show more brilliance as founders and leaders. Last August, Alibaba held the third Global Women Entrepreneurs Conference with the theme of "The World Created by Women". In the tide of the times, the strength of women should not be underestimated and deserves respect and appreciation. There are more and more women on the wealth list.

The world, working style and lifestyle are changing, and women are more able to resist setbacks and challenges and accept and adapt to changes more easily. Many female friends around me, on the one hand, have thriving careers, on the other hand, their families are also very smart and warm. Even during the epidemic, they can tide over the difficulties and generate income for the family economy.

As one of the goals of the United Nations sustainable development 17, Ma Yun believes that gender equality is one of the most important topics for human development and survival in this century. The beauty of life and society needs more women's participation.

In a restaurant last year, I heard a conversation between three people at the next table. The hostess asked the man softly, I have a meeting tomorrow weekend. Do you have any plans? The man readily replied: of course, with the baby. What a beautiful voice. I believe that in the future, women will have more room for development, and they don't need to worry too much about how to balance family, career and children. People's eyes will become more and more tolerant: the growth and development of women is her personal business, without the innuendo of other colors and the bondage of secular prejudice, she is her.

Taking a step forward is a kind of courage and an attitude. It can be a career change, academic improvement, mastery of a skill, persistent study of a hobby, good change of relationship management, change of home decoration environment ... If you have an idea in your heart, you can set out bravely and get closer to your vision bit by bit. Grandmothers, too, release and hear their inner voice, do it and realize it. Welcome more people to join the ranks of taking a step forward.

After watching "Step Forward", I have watched "Step Forward" for several days. I have always wanted to recommend this book for more people to read, but I have been poor in words and don't know how to recommend it.

Although Sandberg was born with a golden key, I don't think these people can easily get everything they have later. Behind every achievement, there are countless efforts and sweat. Anyway, I think people standing on high places can see things better, that's for sure.

What is feminism? After reading this book, I really hope there are more such women's rights advocates in China. In my opinion, feminism is a compliment. It symbolizes a woman. Don't give up the possibility of pursuing your dreams just because you are a woman. Don't rely on men just because you are a woman; Don't limit yourself and deny yourself just because you are a woman and haven't done many things …

Sandberg encouraged women to be brave and sit at the table; Encourage women to be brave. Don't deny yourself the possibility of career development because of marriage, family and children. If you change your way of thinking, everything can find a way out …

"In the face of difficulties, will we be fearless? Then, let go. "

"Lack of self-confidence will become a self-fulfilling prophecy."

There are many golden sentences and many examples of workplace and family life, which are worth learning.

Although many workplace executives or entrepreneurs around us are women, and their families and careers are doing well, there are still many women who have not bravely faced themselves and bravely stepped forward. I think, in such an era of rapid development, we all need more courage, firmness and determination.

After reading the book "Step Forward", "Step Forward" tells the story of the author and her companions, as women, what they have experienced and felt, and their lives. But how can it be as familiar as deja vu? It turns out that as women, although their life experiences are different, they are faced with similar situations and speak different languages in different countries from birth to entering the society. Family, society and even ourselves have intentionally or unintentionally set up some pits. Being in it, oblivious, silently bear.

What would you do without fear?

Facing your heart, are there any ideas that have not been realized, thinking too much and doing too little? Do you try your best to fight for it or leave room? As a woman, we should bravely pursue our goals, don't paint the ground as a prison, circle in a small circle, and stop and imprison our thoughts. Only when you grow up strong enough can you see the higher and farther scenery. You are braver if you hesitate. Xia Chan, a bug in spring, failed to live up to the impulse and dream that still exists in your heart decades later.

What is good development?

Generally speaking, it should be beneficial to people's growth. Can a monk who has been beaten for decades be like a beggar everywhere? Promote the development of personal potential, and don't be afraid of trouble, hardship and tossing. What we have experienced and heard will bring some different ideas.

"Climb the grid" instead of "climb the vertical ladder"

Climb the grid, even if you go backwards occasionally, there are many ways to climb it. Inertia needs to be resisted for a long time, and idiots who don't think hard are very comfortable. But even if we are not good at it, even if we have fears, it is always good to act.

Learn to ask for help.

Whether it's family, colleagues, friends or children, seek help from others as appropriate. Show weakness appropriately, let yourself have a rest and narrow the distance between people. Why not?

As described in the book, women often underestimate and despise themselves at work. Don't express yourself, just accept it. Compared with men, they are more cautious and have no sense of existence. In fact, women pay more.

The present status of women is the result of countless generations' efforts, and I hope it will get better and better in the near future. Take a step forward, the road is long, and you and I are both in it. (Zhuang Huan)