How does a long-distance relationship provide "effective care" to make you sweet?

When it comes to long-distance love, lovers who finally get married are full of happy and sweet memories.

The feeling of "I live at the head of the Yangtze River, you live at the tail of the Yangtze River, I miss you every day, and I drink the Yangtze River water" is full of melancholy, sadness and romance, which may be unforgettable in my life.

However, for long-distance lovers who broke up in good faith or broke up in a bad mood, nothing can be a permanent pain in their hearts except painful and sad memories.

Despite all kinds of helplessness, it can't compete with "the farthest distance in the world", and it can't stand the long test of time or loyalty.

Next, we will discuss how to protect long-distance love from several aspects.

Strategically despise distance, tactically value distance.

Distance produces beauty, and of course it may also be "red apricot" and mistress. On the one hand, don't lose confidence in long-distance relationships just because you are far away.

You can taste the joy of reunion, the long-lost passion, and the sweetness of lovers in the same city falling in love in ruoai.cn without knowing how to make friends.

It is difficult to be very much in love all day, but I have more time and space to live, study and think independently. At the same time, you can better maintain your personality and not lose it in your daily love.

Love is to stick to the semi-sugar doctrine, experience the sweetness of love if there is nothing, and understand the true meaning of bittersweet love.

Of course, Xiao Ai always believed in his own law of sweetness conservation-the total sweetness of love is certain. Enjoy more in the early stage, and pay more in the later stage. Pay a little more in the early stage, and then you will surely get happiness and sweetness tomorrow.

Therefore, the distance in front of us is only a limited segment in a long love. From a strategic point of view and in the long run, this is insignificant and nothing to fear. You should love what you love in a down-to-earth way.

On the other hand, don't think that pure love is superior to everything, regardless of distance.

Thousands of miles apart, what is more needed is care, care and understanding, and we should keep in touch every day, even if it is a WeChat or a text message.

When you can communicate by phone or video, don't send blind dates and make friends, and then go to ruoai.cn, because the message is emotionless, dull and empty, and occasionally it will cause misunderstanding. He or she is more eager to hear your voice and see your smiling face.

A "I love you", a loving face, is enough to make his (her) heart instantly soft and full of love.

What is more important and commendable is that on the important anniversary, you carefully prepared and galloped thousands of miles just to give him (her) a sudden surprise.

If conditions permit, it is best to meet once a month. Even if it is only a weekend, walking on campus together, shopping together and boring all day together will make him (her) dizzy and unforgettable for a long time.

Insist on independence

Tell a story about a student. After graduating from college, the man C went to work in City B, and the woman A was a few years younger. They fell in love during graduation season. That year, he was a senior and she was a freshman. She is passionate, but extremely short-lived.

We were close yesterday, but today we are thousands of miles apart. I feel very disappointed.

In order to stick to this rare love, the two made an appointment to work together, do their own things well in the time of waiting alone, so that the lonely days can be enriched by hard work, and the purpose of hard work is to have a place in their own future in the fiercely competitive life in Beipiao.

If so, with the encouragement of each other day and night, supported by the great power of love, A successfully graduated and passed the postgraduate exam, gradually turning herself into a dream state.

As Dr. John Gray said in the best-selling book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, "For a woman, the improvement of self-awareness and the realization of self-worth come more from emotional satisfaction".

A has made a gorgeous turn, which is not unrelated to C's insistence on guidance, encouragement and care.

At the same time, C doesn't want to be left behind. He studies professional knowledge harder than the people around him, and studies for an on-the-job master's degree to actively improve himself. He also used crazy overtime and business trips to constantly consolidate the economic foundation.

It is precisely because they have the same goal and long-term plan that they are independent of each other, transmit positive energy to each other, turn the pain of lovesickness into the motivation to study hard and work hard, and occupy all possible "desertion" time with unremitting efforts.

It is logical to get a fairly good offer in B city after graduating from master's degree, and C's efforts for several years also have a little economic foundation. Two children who came out of poor families bought a house in city B through their own efforts and formally entered the marriage hall last year.

At the end of seven years of long-distance love, A also realized her original dream of marrying her beloved as soon as she graduated.

Seven years of itching, not to mention long-distance love.

Although it contains ups and downs, full of laughter and tears, but we have our own initial dreams, do not forget your active mind, love each other without losing yourself. A positive attitude makes each other learn to grow independently, and also makes their love more vital.

Taking into account future planning and current development makes their long-distance love more rational, and the love that has been together for a long time also makes the other party cherish and cherish it more.

Do it yourself and have plenty of food and clothing.

Or continue the story of C and A-no matter how vigorous the love is, it will be dull in the end.

Long-distance lovers have to go through a long period of dull and lonely days.

In order to add something to love, C and A spend a lot of time.

On C's birthday, A came all the way to send a photo with his own words on it.

A is reviewing the most difficult climbing stage. C records a small video full of love and encouragement every once in a while and sends it to A, giving her "chicken blood" again and again;

When C was angered by willfulness, A secretly and guiltily abandoned blind date and made friends, and went to Ruo Ai. Com's ruoai.cn SMS phone, using the most traditional way of writing letters, he wrote three pages of stationery at a stroke and sent away Acacia.

In order to let A travel to the place he has been longing for for for a long time, C spent a whole month, making a good strategy, choosing A's favorite hotels, routes and delicious food along the way, and traveling together? Sweet memories abound.

As mentioned above, dribs and drabs seem inconspicuous, but in fact they are all made by heart. In the process of making with heart, they are full of love. Although less expensive, less amazing, but as long as you put your heart into it, you will be more moved and more happy.

And these happy moments will be unforgettable because of special gifts.

Here, Xiao Ai reminds me that for a girl, even if she says she doesn't care about various festivals and anniversaries, it doesn't mean you can completely ignore them.

Still need more snacks, grasp these trivial details and the key to the problem, in order to make your woman more satisfied.

Learn to love in a long-distance relationship

First, learn to trust each other.

Long time apart, long distance, unable to communicate face to face. When not communicating, always imagine what he or she is doing.

Seeing friends gathering in the circle of friends sent by the other party, even some members of the opposite sex with high values, will be suspicious;

Suddenly busy for a period of time, the frequency of contact with him (her) decreases, which will produce unlimited imagination space;

I feel sad when I think of his (her) sentimental past?

Suspicion is the strongest poison to kill a long-distance relationship.

Since love, please trust.

Love is like sand. If you hold it too tightly, it will slip through your fingers.

If you really change your mind, ten times your doubts are hard to recover and remedy. Just choose to be calm and trust, and keep the necessary vigilance.

Unless the other person is really stubborn and full of bad deeds, of course, if so, you won't last long.

Secondly, we should learn to cultivate hobbies.

Separate the two places, put aside love, and have the same language that can't be tolerated for many years? Turn around? Smash? Dinner? Scar? Let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go A man? Men? /span>。

If you like movies, you can watch the same movie and exchange feelings and express your feelings after watching it.

Like reading, recommend a good book you have read recently to each other, which can not only broaden your knowledge, but also exchange feelings;

Like sports and fitness, use the same sports software and use data and leaderboards to motivate each other;

Like entertainment, pay attention to the same star, comment on anecdotes and share the happiness of gossip;

Do you like online games or mobile games, play monsters online together, upgrade together, and work together in the virtual world? With the interest in * * * *, you don't have to worry about getting through the phone, and even lay the foundation for a more leisurely life and getting along with each other after getting married in the future.

Learn to be kind to each other again.

In the world of flowers, temptation is everywhere. Long-distance love is to resist temptation, loneliness, poverty, soul and test.

Don't cross the minefield with luck. Perhaps the excitement of rolled sheets overnight may lead to the screaming of nail rolling overnight.

Be kind not only to this hard-won feeling, but also to each other, just waiting for each other.

Put your mind on caring for your lover, on learning and progress, on hard work and on a positive attitude towards life.

As long as you can really persist, make unremitting efforts and continue to pay, there is reason to believe that long-distance love will eventually be happy.

Shakespeare said, "A thousand people have a thousand Hamlets in their eyes". In fact, people who have experienced long-distance love have their own opinions, and there are countless secrets, books and skills about long-distance love on the Internet.

If you are confused about your long-distance relationship, you can continue to pay attention to Ruoai.com, hoping to help you sort out your long-distance thoughts, and hope that people in long-distance relationships will be kind to their other half.