What do you think of the sentence "Both parents are evil"?

On the way to the Yellow River, when I came ashore, I saw a village with "No drowning, abandonment and abuse of baby girls" painted on the wall.

I didn't dare to touch the following story. Just seeing this line, my heart trembled. I dare not go deep into it. I am afraid that behind these slogans, we can't bear the weight of life.

Yuwen, who works in Wuhai Civil Affairs Bureau, told me that many foreign couples who come to China to adopt children don't mind that the other person is a baby girl, and they don't mind that their children are physically disabled. Actually, it's not that I don't mind, but it's not that easy to find a healthy abandoned baby.

What kind of parents drown, give up and abuse their daughters? Isn't home a place full of love and happiness for children and adults? Who can replace their parents and their children in this world?

But this slogan shows naked that there are also ignorant, vicious and cruel parents in this world. Think about it, too. There are so many selfish, tyrannical people in society who treat law and morality like dirt. As parents, can these people suddenly become better?

The character and morality that accompany a person's growth should not suddenly disappear during pregnancy in October. So, how will their behavior be shown to their children after their children are born? Are they as ambitious as other parents and can't accept any disobedience from their children? Will any of them have to give birth to a son and a daughter before giving up?

Like many parents who smoke, they teach their children not to smoke with a cigarette in their mouth; Urge children to study hard while playing mahjong; I haven't read a few books, and I say every day that my child will be admitted to 985 University ... If you are a pool of mud, you have no right to hate iron for not turning into steel.

Educating children is a very professional skill. Therefore, many civilized countries have high requirements for kindergarten teachers. Many industries in society need professional qualifications, so we have to take this certificate and that certificate. Only when you are a parent, you don't need any exams. You can kill and set fire, rob and rape, kill and set fire, and automatically become a parent when you have children.

In this environment, it is natural for unqualified parents to appear. Coupled with the specific domestic environment, "children" become a limited resource, and some can only leave what they want most, such as "sons" or "promising children".

Most parents give their best to their children, and slowly, the standard of raising a child is formed. Kindergartens should attend interest classes, primary schools should open cram schools, middle schools should go to summer camps abroad, universities should study in Europe and America, other children have them, and our children can't be short of them. All family members should surround the only child.

Such standards have led to the collapse of many families. The shortage of "children" has invested all their resources, so many parents gradually regard raising children as an investment. I stare at the stock market and buy tens of thousands of stocks every day. This "child" who has invested heavily and belongs to me can't help staring at it every day.

I must control the behavior of all children. Children must listen to me and be grateful. This is the natural idea of many parents.

"The question is how do you exist in society as a parent. Have you kept up with the rhythm of society? Are you sure you're right? People love their children, which is determined by biological DNA. Loving me does not prove how great you are. As a parent, apart from giving birth to me and raising me, if you do other things that make me grateful, I should naturally be grateful. But you can't force me to be grateful because I gave birth to me and did my parents' duty. " This is the voice of many young people, and I agree with it.

The special domestic environment and rapid economic development lead to a greater cultural gap between us than any other country. Whether as parents or children, they are faced with no small challenge.

In fact, education begins not with children, but with parents. When asking children to study hard, ask yourself first, how many books have you read this year?

People always emphasize that children should listen to themselves instead of guiding them to think independently. In the end, children will think that their mother is the Virgin Mary and their father is God, thus losing the ability to distinguish right from wrong.

As parents, we should read more books, think more, often think about our childhood mentality and try to communicate with our children.

If you only ask for children, but don't ask for yourself, or even find ways to torture and persecute children, such parents can't emphasize it too much.