A poem about the sky-high bride price

1. Classic sentences about bride price. Since ancient times, marriage is a major event in life, and women need a bride price to get married. Bride money has become a tool to measure the happiness of marriage and the comparison between families in Chile, especially in rural areas, which is quite serious.

There are many sayings about the bride price, such as "one in a million", "31,800", "motionless, colorful green", "three pounds ringing", "three gold rings and one cigarette" and so on. The specific red envelope amount of "one millionth" is 1000 1. From the surface of the amount, the meaning of "one in a million" can be clearly seen, indicating that the daughter-in-law was selected from 10 thousand people and is also the most satisfactory one.

"Thirty-one thousand eight hundred" is delivered by three families together. "Don't move, color green", don't move refers to the car, don't move refers to the house.

All colors are green: 10000 5 yuan notes, plus 1000 hundred-dollar notes, it is 15000 yuan. As for "all colors are green", it is a 50 yuan paper money, and the bride price is 15000 yuan. "Three Jin Ring", three Jin is three Jin RMB, one hundred and one, one ring is a car.

"Three gold rings, three rings and one cigarette", three gold rings are gold rings, gold necklaces and gold earrings, three rings are three kilograms of hundred-dollar bills (about 1.5 million), and one cigarette refers to a car.

2. The recent topic composition "high price bride price" is mostly the "bad result" caused by blindly following the trend.

Although the "sky-high bride price" was not caused in one day, it is not impossible to effectively curb it. For most rural people, it is a great event in life to hold a grand wedding for their children.

But this does not mean that parents have no complaints about the "sky-high bride price". Take the immovable property as an example. Even in rural areas, "stationary" cars are cheap and expensive, and the choice is more flexible, which can be determined according to the individual's "pocket", but "stationary" real estate needs to be determined according to the market price, even if the area is small, it will cost hundreds of thousands, not to mention "colorful" and the like.

Many people are being pushed away by bad habits and customs. They are both victims and perpetrators, and fall into a vicious circle. Therefore, there must be a strong external force to completely eradicate the problem of sky-high bride price.

Local governments should be rightfully responsible, and relevant parties should take the main responsibility, take the initiative, guide and guide towns to formulate township rules and regulations according to local conditions, and enhance the grass-roots governance ability of this problem. Of course, the grass-roots government must pay attention to ways and means, not simple and rude, but "clever" to stick to the people's hearts and solve worries.

We should be good at mobilizing all forces, adapting to local conditions, gathering the wisdom of all parties and activating the initiative and enthusiasm of non-governmental organizations. For example, Tianbao Village, Zhangyi Town, Xihaigu District, Ningxia, once used the "Red and White Council" to supervise and persuade the village's big sports and weddings and funerals, which played a very good role.

3. Meihua wrote an 800-word composition with the "sky-high bride price", telling me to persevere in doing things, not afraid of difficulties, and to work hard for my own goals. This is also a classroom.

The classroom is where every student gains knowledge. Similarly, life can teach you many lessons in your study. I got a lot of inspiration in this life class-

In the middle of winter, in the snowy weather, a biting cold wind blows from time to time outside the window. I sat in the classroom, holding the review I just finished, thinking about yesterday.

Yesterday was a math exam, and the papers handed out were as cold as ice plugs just taken out of the refrigerator in my hands-6 points! I feel bad in my heart "* * * Why did you only take so many exams?" The teacher is a little flustered. "Besides, you haven't even done these questions. Can you do well in the exam? " "I-"I was just about to explain when I was drowned out by the teacher's snowstorm of scolding. After the teacher said, "I really don't know what to say about you," he sighed, ended his criticism of me and began to mark papers. During the lecture, I bowed my head silently and remained silent after class. ...

Finally, I looked up and found that the test paper was crumpled by me. I looked out of the window. What is that? A flower wrapped in snow suddenly caught my attention. I ran down the stairs in three steps, and one stumbled and fell on the snow in the back garden. I struggled to stand up and looked intently. That's a plum blossom! I stood up from the snow and looked at the goddess. I saw her proudly blooming in the grass, and her gentle lines and graceful figure of Leng Yan cooperated with the snowflakes floating around, making her a master in the world of ice and snow. I looked at other flowers and plants around me and found that they were all withered. Only the plum blossom is still there!

Cold snow falls on my head from time to time, but I seem to forget the cold, and my eyes always fall on the strange girl. How did she proudly open in the cold wind? How does she always insist on opening up? Meihua won't answer me, she will only try to keep talking. Yes, just work hard! Plum blossoms strive to resist the wind and snow and bloom themselves. Why can't we? I smiled, and I laughed very happily, very happily. The snow is getting smaller and smaller, and it seems to be melted by my excitement. The sunshine sprinkled on the fresh and dusty plum blossoms is particularly charming. After going to plum blossoms, we meet again, only smelling plum blossoms. Plum blossoms overcome the cold and make themselves more beautiful. The sword front comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold. Is this something I can't say? I fell into silence again, and this time the silence was very long, but unlike last time, my mood was not sadness, but full of excitement!

I brushed the snowflakes off my body and strode into the classroom. I picked up a pen, turned my mind into a sentence and wrote a review.

Yesterday's scene is still fresh in my mind. Once again, I opened the comments and looked at the poem "The sword edge comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold", which once again made me feel deeply.

Meihua told me to persevere in my work, not afraid of difficulties, and to work hard for my own goals. This is also the classroom. Let's go into nature together, explore and think deeply with eyes that are good at discovery! Because this is also a classroom.

4. What is the ultimate impact of the "sky-high bride price"? In recent days, the topic of sky-high bride price has caused heated discussion in the media and social networking sites. Marriage depends on sincere feelings, and the sky-high bride price makes love and marriage more like a transaction and loses sincerity. In some economically underdeveloped rural areas, hundreds of thousands of bride price gifts have brought great pressure to many families.

It is no accident that the phenomenon of sky-high bride price mostly occurs in underdeveloped rural areas. When I went to the countryside for an interview, I found that many old people were worried about their children marrying their daughters. Some rural families have to pay a high bride price to marry their daughters, and some rural families have money to marry their sons only if they marry their daughters and get a high bride price. Why does it always cost money to marry a daughter-in-law On the surface, the customs are bad, but on the deeper level, there are fewer girls of marriageable age. There are hundreds of women in a family. If you don't give them to others, you can fix them up. Why are there fewer girls? With fewer children, women's marriages are generally aimed at families with higher status, and they are willing to marry in rich villages and even towns, and even fewer people stay in the countryside.

In fact, my experience over the years is that the concept of equality between men and women is much better than before. Men and women, like to work, like to earn money, can talk at home. It is no exaggeration to say that we have made remarkable achievements in gender equality. However, in economically underdeveloped rural areas, the situation is still relatively backward. The concept of having children and the idea of carrying on the family line still have a certain market. The imbalance of sex ratio at birth still exists to some extent. The girl was born less than 20 years ago, and today it does not lead to expensive daughter-in-law. Since gold is precious, the bride price is high.

Local governments are also advocating new happy events. For example, advocating the establishment of the Red and White Council and introducing village rules and regulations have achieved certain results. All localities have also actively carried out publicity and education, guided by the situation and established a correct concept of marriage and childbearing. In addition to mobilizing villagers to change their customs, the longer-term goal is to help these areas get rid of poverty and become rich, achieve urban-rural equalization in public infrastructure and public services, enhance hematopoietic function, and increase the attractiveness of nesting and attracting phoenix.

More importantly, in the social environment, efforts should be made to break the soil on which the sky-high bride price depends. We need to work harder on gender equality. Take the countryside as an example. There used to be a saying called "married women pour water", which became a husband's family. In many villages, women have neither rights nor obligations to their parents' affairs. It's easy to feel that "adopting a daughter is not as good as adopting a child". In fact, daughters, like sons, have no difference in legal rights and obligations. This legal equal right and responsibility should be put into practice in life.

It wasn't built in a day. Only by making efforts to make men and women more equal, and making having a daughter no longer a regret in some people's hearts, can we make the ratio of men and women more balanced and eliminate the root causes of the sky-high bride price.

5. "Sky-high bride price", distorted values Recently, the news about "Sky-high bride price" appeared in newspapers, and the author also went to the field to investigate related events.

Compared with the bride price and economic poverty that many media pay more attention to, what puzzles and distastes me most is that in relevant reports, the woman involved is completely regarded as a commodity and openly negotiated in the so-called "people's market", while in the mouth of her parents, her daughter's marriage is "how much did she sell". In my knowledge and experience, people can become commodities. First, in the years before the founding of the People's Republic of China, some poor families had to sell their children in order to survive and give them a way out.

This is a helpless move driven by life and a tragedy in a specific social background. In that case, survival is the most important thing; Another situation is the sale of slaves and population in feudal society described in history books, which reflects the tragic experience of the bottom people under the ignorant and backward cruel social system. In either case, it has become history.

But with the development of society today, parents will still betray their daughters on the grounds of marriage. Although this is different from the illegal and criminal behavior of human traffickers, it is a distortion of human relations and values and a retrogression of civilization, which should be strongly condemned. The difference between people and things is that people have dignity, personality and feelings, but in a normal society, especially in contemporary society, it is a very barbaric and shameless behavior to betray women regardless of dignity and personality.

It is barbaric because contemporary society is a civilized society that advocates respect for human rights; Shameless because human dignity can be sold naked just for money. In the "people's market", bargaining in the name of talking about marriage, women are completely materialized and commercialized, and people directly become trading objects, which means blatant contempt and insult.

Not only has the personal dignity of the betrayed woman disappeared, but the other party in this marriage that has become a "sale" has no dignity at all. It is precisely because of the influence of this feudal remnant thought that women are regarded as fertility tools because they do not respect their wishes. In an environment where there are fewer women and more men, people's views on marriage easily transcend their respect for women and get married for immediate interests.

If poverty is one of the reasons leading to the "sky-high bride price", then material poverty is not terrible. Ignoring dignity and personality, treating marriage and people as commodities is more terrible than material poverty, which is another kind of more tragic poverty. It is urgent for the government and relevant departments and organizations to curb the phenomenon of "sky-high bride price", and it is imperative to change customs and advocate civilized marriage customs.

The masses deeply expect that marriage can return to the normal track and life can return to its true colors. It is understood that the emergence of "sky-high bride price" stems from the imbalance of population ratio and poverty, but the author found in the investigation and interview that the deeper factors include backward marriage customs such as "carrying on the family line" and "the words of parents' matchmakers".

The greater significance of opposing high bride price lies in awakening women's "four-self spirit" and shaping women's subjective consciousness, which may be more important.