"There are no corners that cannot be dug, only mistresses who don't work hard." Is that true?

We often hear this sentence, "Great love comes from shameless crowbars." I think this sentence is the same as "There are no corners that can't be dug, only mistresses who don't work hard." The meaning is the same, right? As long as we are shameless enough, we can defeat the principal, and we will be successful, right? But what I want to say is the extended meaning behind this sentence.

We know that mistresses are like mice crossing the street. Everyone shouts and beats them, and they are ridiculed and reviled by everyone. However, there are still many people who are willing to be mistresses and pursue what they want for the people they love. The person acts as a mistress. We say mistresses are shameful, but I think there are many types of mistresses. Just like we are all divided into good guys, bad guys, men, and women, then mistresses can also be divided into those who do not intentionally destroy other people's families and those who intentionally destroy other people's families. It's from someone else's family.

In my opinion, many mistresses are particularly stubborn. She knows that others have boyfriends, wives, and children, but she still prefers to bear the infamy of being a mistress and accompany this person silently. Many times, men fall into this step by step, and then break up with their girlfriends, divorce their wives, and abandon their families and children. The result depends on the efforts of the mistress, even if she never thought about getting married. The man stayed together, but her persistence ultimately destroyed a family. But there are some mistresses who are just here to cause damage. What they call hard work is more appropriate to use unscrupulous means. I think it is "there are no corners that can't be dug, only mistresses who don't work hard." In this kind of mistress, the word "effort" is really tarnished.

In fact, when we say this sentence, we might as well look at it from the perspective of spreading positive energy. On the other hand, it can also be understood as relying on one's own efforts to successfully accomplish something. Well, as we say “where there is a will, there is a way”. As long as we work hard, we may achieve our goals, but if we don't work hard, there must be no hope. When we were in our senior year of high school, there were many inspirational slogans, and there were many words with this meaning. Maybe under the high-intensity training and high pressure of the third year of high school, many people don’t want to work hard and think about giving up. But giving up means that there is no hope of getting into a key university, but if you are still working hard, you will have Fifty percent hope to get into college. We do not have students who cannot learn well, only students who are unwilling to work hard and are not diligent. As students, we can better understand the meaning of this sentence.

When we work in a company or unit in the future, don’t think about saying that you have a job and everything is stable. This is really not stable, and everything is changing. If we don't work hard in the company, don't have a competitive spirit, can't complete the tasks assigned by our boss very well, and are not qualified for this position, then the company will definitely dig a corner and recruit someone who is more qualified than you. If you can't find someone to work for, you just have to pack up your things and leave. And in the workplace, if you don't work hard, you will never get a higher salary because of your job title. You will have to wait for staff to move, and the position you want will only have to wait for someone else to be assigned to fill it.

So when we want to give up, we use the phrase "There are no corners that cannot be dug, only mistresses who don't work hard" to encourage ourselves. We are positive people, not negative people. This sentence should be understood with a positive attitude, rather than over-interpreted with a negative attitude. We must remember that if you don't work hard, you are useless.