Nanjing Youth Olympics Ambassador (18-year-old Youth Olympics Ambassador)

Friends who have watched the new season of "Qi Pa Shuo" must have noticed a beautiful academic master. In the debate, she relied on her novel viewpoints, powerful logical thinking and soul-piercing language to defeat many old "Qi Pa Shuo". ” stands out.

Even economics professor Xue Zhaofeng was full of praise for her and chose her to be the captain of the team.

She is Xu Jiru.

At the age of 16, he took the TOEFL test with a total score of 117;

At the age of 18, he became the image ambassador of the 2014 Youth Olympic Games and was recommended to Tsinghua University with the first score in the school;

At the age of 19, he represented China in London to participate in the World English Speech Competition and won third place;

At the age of 22, he delivered a speech at the Tsinghua University graduation ceremony as an honorary graduate, and received a full master's scholarship to study at Harvard;

At the age of 24, he participated in "I Am a Speaker" and won the runner-up. Talented girls can attract applause wherever they go

In the third episode of "Qi Pa Shuo Season 6", Xu Jiru met Zhan Qingyun, also from Harvard. Their debate topic was: Am I wrong to be refined and poor at a young age?

Zhan Qingyun’s point of view is: wrong.

When you are young, you follow the trend and consume the so-called so-called so-called sophistication and buy the same style as an internet celebrity. This does not mean that you are truly sophisticated. The closest distance between you and so-called sophistication is only the moment you place an order.

Xu Jiru, who has rich experience in debating, immediately counterattacked with a story that imitated Dongshi.

Xu Jiru believes that everyone thinks Dong Shi is wrong, but Dong Shi should not feel that he is wrong, because this is the awakening of beauty and the first lesson Dong Shi has learned about beauty, so exquisite and poor It is also the only way for people to awaken and improve their self-awareness.

Before Xu Jiru finished speaking, there was constant applause. Many contestants were full of praise for Xu Jiru’s arguments.

Netizens who watched this episode were also deeply impressed by Xu Jiru, praising Xu Jiru as "not only good-looking, but also eloquent."

So, how was this beautiful and talented girl raised? Let’s go and see it together! As a child, Xu Jiru was very partial to subjects and entered a key middle school because of his talents.

Everyone must think that Xu Jiru is born with intelligence and excellent academic performance, but in fact it is the opposite. of the middle and lower reaches.

But when she was a child, she loved to imitate, and she imitated Song Dandan and Zhao Benshan's sketches very vividly. When she was 10 years old, Xu Jiru won the first prize in the high school category of the Nanjing TV English Speaking Contest for primary and secondary school students.

With extra points for his expertise in public speaking, Xu Jiru squeezed into a key middle school.

However, after enrolling, Xu Jiru’s grades were completely crushed by his classmates, not only in mathematics, chemistry, and physics. She was at the bottom of the class, and even Chinese and English, which she was good at, fell to the bottom, which was a huge blow to her.

At this time, Xu Jiru realized that just speaking was not enough, so she began to focus more on her studies. Every day after school, she locked herself in her room, sat at her desk, and brushed Problem, except for eating and going to the toilet, he almost never stops.

But her score only improved by about 10 places, which made Xu Jiru start to reflect on whether there was something wrong with her learning style. She stopped memorizing from books and started observing her classmates with good grades every day. How to read.

In addition, she began to frequently ask questions from teachers, bought many books on famous people’s learning methods, and after reading them, she extracted the learning methods that suited her.

Xu Jiru found that previewing can directly affect the efficiency of listening to lectures. What you learn in class after previewing is the relationship between old and new knowledge and the way of thinking in this subject.

So she started spending time every night to preview the next day's learning content and mark the areas she didn't understand so that she could focus on listening to the teacher's explanation of this part of the knowledge during class.

Xu Jiru also found that the preview time should not be too long. This will lead to loss of interest in learning in class and thinking that one has understood it. Therefore, fragmented time such as lunch break and recess is enough.

Xu Jiru said: Just get familiar with the new knowledge during preview, and stay in class to get to know each other deeply.

After finding a suitable learning method, Xu Jiru's grades began to improve by leaps and bounds. By the third year of junior high school, she had become the first in the class.

Xu Jiru attended high school in Nanjing Foreign Languages ??School, which is known as "the best among the people", and is an alumnus of her milk tea sister Zhang Zetian.

Xu Jiru fully demonstrated his language talent in high school. In his sophomore year of high school, he only spent 2-3 weeks preparing for the TOEFL and got a perfect score in oral English, with a total score of 117 (out of 120).

In high school, Xu Jiru launched a perfect counterattack, serving as the president of the student union, winning the high school championship in the CCRV "Star of Hope" English Style Contest, the National English Speech Contest, and the highest award in the Peking University Model United Nations. The Best Representative Award and the Best Speaking Award in a single category...

Even major newspapers at that time were contracted by Xu Jiru:

Xu Jiru's excellence attracted the attention of teachers, so he also She received a great opportunity that affected her life: she was recommended to Tsinghua University Law School. Tsinghua University opened a new chapter in Xu Jiru's life

After entering Tsinghua University, Xu Jiru took part in many major competitions. Xu Jiru was particularly impressed by the Shenzhen Universiade English Speech Competition due to his experience as a Youth Olympics ambassador in high school. .

During the competition, Xu Jiru told his story about himself and the Youth Olympic Games, from witnessing the successful bid to host the Youth Olympic Games in Vancouver to becoming the accompanying translator for Mr. Rogge, President of the International Olympic Committee. Also won the championship in the speech contest.

In August 2011, Xu Jiru won the China championship in the Asia-Pacific Economic Cooperation (APEC) "Voice of the Future" competition. When she represented Chinese college students in attending the 19th APEC CEO Summit in Honolulu, the United States, she also brought Small flags, badges and other promotional materials printed with the Nanjing Youth Olympic Games emblem.

Xu Jiru once said: Tsinghua Law School is the most correct choice in my life.

Professor Wang Zhenmin, the dean of the Law School, often leaves precious academic exchange opportunities to undergraduates. Under his trust, Xu Jiru served as simultaneous interpreter for many academic conferences.

Xu Jiru has represented Tsinghua University in many speech contests across the country and around the world since she was a freshman. Teacher Wu Xia from the Department of Foreign Languages ??and Literature taught Xu Jiru what a real speech is:

Speeches are the most The core part is appeal. Only by arousing the resonance of people's deep emotions can the speaker be truly successful.

Xu Jiru wrote a beautiful resume for herself during her four years at Tsinghua University. She successfully graduated from Tsinghua University and delivered a speech at the graduation ceremony of Tsinghua Law School as a student representative.

After that, she wrote her story with the Youth Olympic Games into her application documents for master’s scholarships from Harvard University’s Kennedy School of Government and the Sino-US Fulbright Program, and not only successfully received a full scholarship of US$200,000 , and successfully knocked on the door of Harvard University’s Kennedy School of Government.

When talking about what she gained from studying at Harvard, Xu Jiru believes that what confirms her most about studying at world-famous schools such as Tsinghua and Harvard is: A true academic master never works hard, but is always looking for The effortless way to learn.

During his internship at a top law firm in the United States, it only took Xu Jiru one month to get a formal offer that would take others three months or even half a year.

After working for less than a year, Xu Jiru was able to independently follow the partners to complete all cross-border M&A work, coordinating the work of lawyers in 15 different countries and different time zones.

Experiences abroad made Xu Jiru feel that the more she went abroad, the more patriotic she became. Only the motherland has a safe and stable stage. She hopes to become an expresser in the future

Xu Jiru once said that she wants to be a lawyer and an "expressor" in the future. In fact, it is not surprising that she would say this, given the way her family educates her. It is destined that Xu Jiru has the right to choose the path he likes.

Xu Jiru’s parents believed when she was a child that the basis of learning is the cultivation of interest. There is no need to deliberately improve. It is best to be able to subtly influence it in life.

Xu Jiru’s mother once shared Xu Jiru’s experience of failure when participating in competitions. When she was in the second grade of junior high school, Xu Jiru participated in the Hope Cup English competition. At that time, she was leading in the Nanjing and Jiangsu divisions, but when she arrived in the Beijing division, she Didn't make it to the finals.

At that time, her mother accompanied her there. Xu Jiru’s mother did not criticize her, nor did she ask her to summarize the lessons and experiences of her failure. Just accompany her back silently and tell her: It doesn't matter, the sun will rise as usual, nothing has changed.

Later, when Xu Jiru participated in any competition, she no longer felt a lot of pressure and faced everything in her most comfortable state.

Xu Jiru’s mother believes that the best education is for educated parents and children to inspire each other to the most comfortable state. During the growth process of the child, the task of the parents is to create as much peace and tranquility as possible family atmosphere and environment.

It is precisely because of his parents’ education methods that Xu Jiru did not give up his love and pursuit of speaking due to heavy academic pressure.

Having the awareness and ability to self-examine and solve problems when facing failure, the ability to self-heal when faced with setbacks, and the willpower to become more courageous with setbacks are the key factors for Xu Jiru's success.