Marrying a soldier will make you lonely. Zhang Xinyu missed her husband. She picked up the photo and looked at it again and again. Could you endure the loneliness?

Some people say that being married to a soldier is an extremely unbearable torture, because for a long time one person has supported the family and solved all the big and small things at home. Many women are forced by such day-to-day worries and may eventually end their marriages. In fact, it is not just what happened to the star Zhang Xinyu, this kind of thing happens in many Chinese families. I think this is a very normal thing. As a boy, joining the army is a very honorable thing. This is not just a slogan said verbally. I think that in our hearts, we also think that joining the army is an honorable thing. A very glorious thing.

But joining the army is very honorable. If you have a partner, you will feel that you owe the other person a lot. There are also such cases around me. I have an older brother who is a soldier in a military region far away, and my sister-in-law is a teacher locally. The two of us can only see each other once a year at most, and it is during the Chinese New Year. During the Chinese New Year, I couldn't go home and was alone in the military zone. If circumstances permit, my sister-in-law can go to the military zone to celebrate the New Year with my brother, but more often than not, my brother is alone in the military zone, and my sister-in-law spends the New Year with people at home, listening through the screen. The sound of firecrackers outside the window.

This is indeed a particularly unbearable loneliness and an unbearable trouble. I have a husband who loves me very much, but he is not by his side in middle age. I have to bear all the big and small things by myself, including things at home and outside. I have to take responsibility for myself. This requires a strong heart to bear these things. Without a strong heart, sooner or later one will collapse due to such endless pressure, which may eventually lead to the end of love and marriage.

I think if it were me, I might accept this fact, because I think this kind of thing is particularly glorious. If I have a significant other who loves me very much, he goes to join the army, and I Staying at home, so that he can win glory for the country outside with peace of mind. I must take good care of everyone at home and do all the big and small things at home so that he can go out without worries. But there are more people who can't bear this kind of confusion and this kind of loneliness. We can't say anything, but we are just a little regretful.