The virtue of civilization is in my mind.

If you lose today, you are not a failure, because you will come back tomorrow.

If you lose money, you are not a failure, because the value of life is not in the purse.

If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a human being.

Civilized etiquette is a code of conduct for self-discipline and respect for others, and a process and means to show respect and understanding for others.

Civilized etiquette is the embodiment of personal quality and upbringing, personal morality and social morality, and is the face of the country. Singapore is an English-speaking country, and most of the slogans in public places in this country are written in English. But some polite slogans, such as "No spitting", "No smoking" and "No lawn", are written in Chinese. Why? People replied: "Because most of these uncivilized behaviors are tourists from Chinese mainland." A middle school principal who visited Singapore said earnestly, "uncivilized behavior is also a national shame." I don't know if you remember, CCTV once reported that chewing gum residues can be seen everywhere in Tiananmen Square after the National Day. There are 6, pieces of chewing gum residues in 4, square meters of Tiananmen Square. In some places, there are 9 pieces of chewing gum stains on the ground less than one square meter. The dense spots are in sharp contrast with the sacredness and solemnity of Tiananmen Square.

Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are: first, to pursue personal moral perfection; second, to safeguard public interests and public order. Speaking of manners, I think of a story. Once, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow aisle of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the woman worker sees Lenin, she will retreat to make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're already halfway with something, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first!" He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and let the female worker go upstairs, and then he went downstairs. Isn't this also the embodiment of good manners? Students, the wheel of the times has brought us into the 21st century. In modern society, people are like atoms, and only when they are interrelated can they have their survival value. Whether you like it or not, if a person wants to succeed in his studies or career, and if he wants to live happily and happily, he must first learn manners and manners, learn to get along with anyone, including relatives and friends, teachers and classmates, and even all those who need to communicate with him, and must learn to shape a healthy personality.

as the ancients said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand". That is to say, if you don't learn "courtesy", you can't stand in society. The meaning of "cultivating people" is to improve people's thinking and civilization. People's civilization is not innate, but is constantly improved by the day after tomorrow. As Mr. Lu Xun said: "China wants to survive in the world, its first thing is to establish people, and then everything is done." To improve personal accomplishment, we must first devote ourselves to studying and improve our cognitive level; When cognition reaches a certain level, it has the ability to distinguish right from wrong; With the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good from evil, we should correct our mentality, not violate our conscience, and strive to make our words and deeds conform to moral standards, so that our self-cultivation will be improved. This is what the ancients said: to be realistic, to know, to be sincere, to be upright and to cultivate one's morality. Perfecting personal moral cultivation will have the basis for promoting social civilization.

Civilization is actually made up of details. I remember a famous person once said that the realization of virtue is made up of behavior, not words. Numerous examples show that the key to a brilliant career and a successful life is noble sentiment. On behalf of the future of our nation, we need to learn and inherit many things, but the most basic question is: what kind of spiritual outlook, what kind of ideological quality and what kind of moral standard should we take over the baton of human civilization.

The president of Nankai University wrote a motto on the mirror: "Face to face, hair must be cut, clothes must be straightened, buttons must be tied, head should be straight, shoulders should be flat, chest should be wide, back should be straight, weather should not be arrogant, colors should be quiet and appropriate." As a middle school student, we must understand that our appearance must at least conform to the atmosphere of the school and the identity of the students, and maintaining a generous and decent appearance is a kind of respect for teachers and classmates. Reflecting on what we have done shows that civilization is still a long way from us. There are still some uncivilized behaviors around us and some students. For example, in our campus and on the stairs, we can always see scraps of paper that are extremely discordant with our beautiful campus, and food bags and fruit shells can be seen everywhere on campus. How can these not be painful! Are we all "giants of language, dwarfs of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said, "Knowing is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowing; Knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the achievement of knowing; Knowing and doing is an ontology and a kung fu. Knowing and not doing it is just unknown. " We accept the education of civilization and etiquette, but we are stingy with it or even do the opposite, which is different from never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard from this "unity of knowing and doing", work hard from our own words, and bid farewell to uncivilized behavior.

To be a civilized person, you must receive the education of civilization, just like a piece of ore. To become steel, you must be put into a furnace to be smelted by fire. Our parents sent us to school just to let us be turned into a piece of pure steel in the melting pot of civilization. The result is not the most important thing. As parents, they expect us to grow up healthily and become a civilized person and an excellent person under the guidance of teachers. They don't expect us to be pillars, but I hope we are at least a green tree. Needless to say, we should treat the uncivilized behavior in today's society dialectically, choose the good ones and follow them, and change the bad ones. I firmly believe that the waves behind the river push the waves ahead, if each of us keeps our mouths shut, don't swear or spit everywhere; Hold our hands, don't litter, don't fight; Keep our feet under control and don't trample on the lawn. The garden will be more beautiful because of our civilization and the society will be better because of us.

Civilized manners are the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth. Without civilization, there is no basic moral bottom line. Let's learn to be civilized people, learn to be social people, clean the environment and protect the campus environment. The flowers of civilization and etiquette bloom everywhere on campus, so that the wind of civilization can blow all over the campus and society, and accompany us with a healthy and happy life!