When it comes, it's safe —— Teacher Li Fengxia's life code

A 63-year-old teacher, a teacher with 33 years' teaching experience, a teacher who has been a head teacher for 32 years, a teacher who has been rehired as a head teacher by a prestigious school after retirement, and who has been rehired as a teacher for six classes for as long as ten years, proudly summed up her greatest achievements in her life with one word: happiness!

"Naughty children piss you off, and savage parents kill you.

Teaching reform is killing you, and homework is killing you.

low salary will kill you, while glorious title will kill you.

The title evaluation is hard for you, and you will die of pain. " This limerick writes a lot of teachers' dissatisfaction and complaints: being a teacher is painful, bitter and painful. As a teacher, why is Teacher Li Fengya so happy? In the morning lecture, she untied life code, who was her teacher.

? "Choose what I love and love what I choose." If you want to be happy, you must choose what I love, and even if you can't, try to love what I choose. Miss Li told us about her happiness with passion.

? She has a happy family. He has a like-minded lover, a teacher and a special-grade teacher, and has the same hobby of reading. Cherish each other and be warm to each other. It's really fly with me. For more than 3 years, they have gone through ups and downs together, guarding their homes, their ambitions and their love for each other. Another manifestation of happiness is that they have an excellent son who graduated from Fudan University with a Ph.D. and stayed on as a teacher. Speaking of the education of his son, Mr. Li's happiness is even more full. Happiness is not only the son's achievements, but also the natural cultivation of his son. The reason why it is a natural cultivation is because the couple's love of learning has set an example for their children. Mr. and Mrs. Li began to work in rural junior high schools. They had dinner every night. Three people prepared lessons, changed their homework, and wrote homework. Everyone who comes to their home always sees three desks, three lamps and three scholars. Mom and dad didn't urge homework and reading, and the children naturally entered the learning state. Because mom and dad's pursuit of Excellence infects children, the son naturally becomes outstanding. This is the so-called natural! I also have a particularly deep feeling about this. For example, I know that teachers such as Dou Guimei and Zheng Ruifang all have the same experience as Miss Li. They are excellent children, and when they grow up, they grow up.

"When you come, be safe" is the second password for Miss Li's happy life. Since I love what I have chosen, I must do "If I love, I will love deeply". If you don't love, please leave. " There is a lyric that sings "If you love her, let go", but for education, it should be "If you love her, please hurry!" This is Miss Li's understanding of love, but deep love requires wisdom. As a teacher, many people may say that they love their students, but why don't students feel their love? That's because the way you love is not correct enough, and you naturally love your children with the love you understand, instead of looking at love from the perspective of children. Teacher Li told us a love story with educational wisdom.

She once taught a child, who was always the last child and always gave other teachers a headache. When the student was assigned to Mr. Li's class, Mr. Li said, "This is our fate. A look back 5 years ago brought us an encounter in this life." It is not only a verbal indifference, but the most important thing is the performance of Teacher Li's behavior. Every exam, the teacher can see the progress of this child. Although he is still the last one, what the teacher sees is that the gap between him and the second last one has narrowed. Every time he makes a little progress, Mr. Li will say, "You are very powerful. You still run hard without anyone chasing you." This student is very successful now, running his own company, and specially putting a big slogan on the teacher's own company in Qingdao-welcome Miss Li to my company to check my homework. For this child, Mr. Li's words of encouraging him to grow up forever are the life homework assigned to him.

Miss Li can do this because she feels that teachers are a responsibility. As a teacher, we should not only lead our own lives, but also lead our students to lead their lives. Therefore, her education for students is always not to blame, but to guide.

She had a class meeting once-my dream. A girl in their class actually said that her ideal is to be a full-time wife. Miss Li didn't criticize her, but asked her to go back and look up Fu Mingxia and Guo Jingjing, two full-time wives. Later, the girl found out that these stay-at-home wives were so excellent. At this time, Miss Li told the girl what is the difference between a full-time wife and a nanny. In this way, the girl began to have a goal and a direction. Now she has been very successful. She took care of Miss Li like a daughter after her fall this year, and kindly called her mother. Teacher Li's happiness stems from a kind of self-confidence, a kind of firmness and persistence in ideals and beliefs-either outstanding or out.

since we can't choose to go out, or haven't the courage to choose to go out, then we must be an excellent teacher. But Excellence is paid, and the premise of paying is passion and pursuit. On the road of seeking to be a happy teacher, Miss Li has never stopped chasing. She asked herself to be a "Mala Tang" teacher, that is, a teacher who is humorous, kind, knowledgeable, versatile, has a wide range of interests, has a young mind and loves life. Seemingly simple words, but how difficult it is to do. "As soon as the teacher appears, education begins", what a simple sentence, but it contains an unsophisticated educational essence. Teacher Li has been teaching for more than 3 years. She has divided her educational experience into three stages: subduing students as an authority, conquering students with the power of knowledge, and infecting students with the charm of personality. Teacher Li's summary of his educational experience is not only his own growth experience, but also based on the age characteristics and characteristics of the times of students. In her first ten years at work, she was faced with students born after 6 s and 7 s, which could be subdued; In the second decade, she faced the post-8 s students, and children living in the internet era could only be conquered by knowledge; In the next ten years, the students born after 199 can only infect students with their own personality charm. The times are developing, students are forcing teachers to make progress, and as teachers, we have to force ourselves to make progress. When we stand proudly in the hearts of students, our sense of happiness naturally arises.

? The true meaning of education is love, and the true meaning of love is to know how to love, so that Party B who is loved can feel love, so that we can both love and be loved happily. Let's be a happy teacher-choose what I love and love what I choose; If you love, please love deeply, if not, please leave.