I learn Chinese by speaking.

We started babbling when we were babies. Spoken language is not only a way for people to communicate, but also a language.

I read a story from a magazine: a boy was refused to borrow something from his sister and sat angrily on a park bench. A man told him a way to borrow what he wanted smoothly. Boys made it and borrowed it. In fact, what he said is similar to the original, except for one more word: please. One sentence changed others' attitude towards him.

After reading this story, I benefited a lot. I understand that we should be polite and sincere, but sometimes we can't even say "please".

Sometimes I can't find my stationery, clothes or other things. I always say to people present, "Where are my things?" Then someone said to me, "Are you asking about the bench or the wall?" A title is simple, but some people are more serious.

From then on, I began to pay attention to the details of these words. One or two words can also have a great influence on a sentence.

Walking in the street, you can always see many warm tips. There are signs everywhere in the park saying "No trampling on the lawn". However, although posted everywhere, it still doesn't have much effect. However, in other parks, some people wrote other words on the signs: grass hurts, too. This sentence gives people a more cordial feeling, which brings us closer, and it is also humorous, which makes people smile and has a much better effect.

From this point, we can understand the knowledge of speaking: speaking kindly and naturally will make people more willing to listen to you.

There are some suggestions on making friends in the footer of the magazine I often read. In order to make more friends, people will introduce themselves. These self-introductions all say the same thing, but different ways of introduction make people feel different.

Some people are simple. Name, age, gender and hobbies are all written down like filling out a form. However, this kind of introduction is always ignored by many people.

Some people write in general terms: who I call, who I am, what I like to do, and what kind of friends I hope to make ... This seems similar to filling out a form, but it will be more colloquial, closer to life and easy to make like-minded friends.

There are also some people who are ingenious and use a few poems or famous aphorisms as the introduction, which reflects their cultural accomplishment and introduces everything in the introduction just right, which is refreshing.

Different ways of introduction lead to different responses, which is also a language.

Chinese can be a small detail of speaking or an attitude of speaking. There are languages everywhere in life. Even a simple sentence can be savored in your mouth, chewed repeatedly and tasted the beauty of different languages.