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Chasing girls special training class

Lesson 1 Absolute confidence

Self-confidence is the basic condition for doing anything, and chasing girls is no exception. You need absolute self-confidence if you want to succeed in chasing girls. You must meet: "You must succeed, it won't happen again."

People's faith. Moreover, you should adopt a "self-reliance" approach, pick up girls by your own strength, and try to avoid relying on friends and family. Friends and family may not be able to help.

Help yourself, too many people know that your partner is more likely to backfire, and girls don't like people who rely on friends to chase girls. But to realize your wish, you must be confident first, even if you are not white.

Prince Ma ",but you can also dress yourself up as a prince. What matters is self-confident temperament and demeanor, which makes the other party irresistible. In short, that is: self-confidence, self-confidence and self-confidence.

A man who confuses women

Most women do not like men who are too honest. How boring! In fact, the most popular men they have are all good people, cheerful and lively, unable to refuse others or keep secrets.

Close, no opposite sex, easy to compromise, a little overconfident and some honest rash types.

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In fact, as long as you have any of the above points, you can say that you have the conditions to attract women, but the more the above points, the more favorable you will be in the pursuit process, and the smaller this point, the harder it is to rush out.

Breakthrough. But even so, even if you have the above conditions, there is no guarantee that you will please any woman, because although you have any advantages, you cannot have some rights at the same time.

Party simply can't accept or tolerate shortcomings, such as the poor. Generally speaking, eyes, voice and body language are needed to attract women. When you meet for the first time, you can naturally look into her ears.

Around here, when two people meet and then turn their eyes to their ears, she will naturally have a deep impression on you. When she has a chance to speak, your voice will be slightly higher, cheerful and loud than hers.

It will attract her to continue talking to you, and when listening to her, her eyes will shift to her lips, making her feel that you are listening to her attentively; As for the hand on the table, the four fingers are side by side, which makes people feel.

Your neatness and beauty will naturally leave a good impression on you.

Lesson 3 Encounter

You should always remind yourself that the word eye margin is almost the most puzzling concept on the road of love, which is enough to make two people fall in love, fall in love quickly, and even walk into church. So, when you are at

In any place and occasion: buses, subways, streets, restaurants, banquets, workplaces, etc. Don't hesitate to meet the woman you've been waiting for for a long time and hit it off at once. The opportunity may never come back. guarantee

At present, the only way to grasp the current beauty is to go forward and talk, so that she can get to know you and have an impression, affection, love, miss and so on. Anyway, you must start the first step. but

There is no doubt that this requires great courage and caution. Besides, if you make a mistake, you can save your stomach in the future. Therefore, you must study often in your daily life.

You can deal with it when it's useful.

Below, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:

1. Look at her with attractive or uncontrollable eyes and don't look back from time to time. This trick, even if the other person is not attracted to you at all, will think that he is irresistible and complacent, no.

Never look back at you. )

2. A smile.

They will believe that their appearance must be pleasing and make others feel good, and then they may return a smile. )

Ask her the time in the most natural way, but you must never have a watch, but you can slow down or speed up first.

She can't find any reason to refuse to answer you. )

4. "hello! "Smile.

If you do it properly, your chic attitude will definitely attract her, but most importantly, she will be sure that you have been attracted to her. The purpose of the above is to reduce the number of times you meet strangers.

An ideal way to keep children alert. Because we don't know each other, if we are too glib when we speak, it may make the other person disgusted and thus self-defeating. In fact, any woman

Believe in fate and obey it, and they will believe that every man who appears in front of her eyes may be her future husband. Therefore, as long as you use the right method, she is always ready to let go.

Embrace and accept what you accept. Sincerity is always the strongest weapon to capture a woman's heart. To win her heart, she must believe that you are absolutely attracted to her, and even only she can attract you. therefore

She will gradually release her psychological guard and smile at you. However, if the other party is introduced by a friend, or you know that it has something to do with the other party (such as school and work), then,

Falling in love is much easier. 5. "He (someone) said that you are a beauty in XX College, so you must be busy with the pursuit of different boys every day. "

Even if she is not a real beauty queen, after you say it, she must think that her beauty has fascinated many people, but the most important thing is that she must deny and explain this. )

6. "Your work looks interesting. What are your daily duties? 」。

At this time, she is absolutely embarrassed to refuse to answer, but gradually she will be attracted by your serious and frank eyes and answer with your heart. )

7. "You must have spent a lot of time and thought on clothes. Have you cultivated this experience since you were a child? 」

This is undoubtedly an implicit compliment, both a compliment and a trace. )

8. "Go to the street and see your real self! 」

She will immediately frown and ask you impatiently, "What are you talking about?" You might as well read it backwards, she will certainly be unable to help smiling. ) of course, this kind of opening

It's no use being white, no matter how smart you are. Because in terms of intelligence, women are never inferior to men, but they are easily deceived by sweet words and cannot keep a high degree of vigilance. but

Excessive rhetoric will only make them vigilant and build a wall to guard against you. Therefore, the simplest and most direct opening remarks are often the most effective opening remarks, because they will not

I will think without thinking that someone will show her love or something, so the only conclusion is: "The other person must be a brother, and he is really sincere. This person is not bad! " So, Shun

Naturally, she will open the door and welcome you to join her and enter her life!

Lesson 4 Creating Opportunities

If you want to pursue a girl, you should have an opening statement anyway. No matter what image you use and what effect it has, the most important thing is that she responds. As long as she responds to you, everything will be fine.

It's much simpler. Basically, she won't think that you turned away after starting the topic, so she will be furious and think that you are playing a trick on her, and it is too light.

Pick it. Therefore, you must make a quick decision and create a dating opportunity for yourself. Even if she refuses you, at least she will leave a good impression on your politeness and courage. So, how should it be made?

What about the opportunity? It is difficult to generalize because of the different situations, venues, people and atmosphere, but there are always some principles to follow:

Make an appointment in the shortest possible time. In this way, she had no time to refuse, but acquiesced. ※. )

Choose some popular places. She will feel safe, so she might as well have a try. ※. )

Take her to a place she knows. She will not be at a loss, she will feel natural. ※. )

Talk it over with her, and then you can make a decision. Women like others' respect as well as others' tyranny. ※. )

Make appropriate arrangements for her, such as the way and time to go home. She will think you are a considerate, mature, considerate and gentle person. ※. With this arrangement, she will readily agree with you.

I want to spend a romantic evening with someone like you. However, a woman is definitely an animal manipulated by emotions, even if you think you have completely mastered her psychological state.

State, in fact, she may also be impacted by another kind of outside world. Therefore, we must always be careful when getting along with them and never be careless.

Lesson 5 the first date

Meeting and talking can be said to be the most important step, because it is the beginning of everything, but there is no guarantee that there will be a second step and a third step in the future. Therefore, after the first step, you still need to spend

Many ideas must not be relaxed.

Of course, you should also distinguish whether you have the necessity and impulse to continue to associate with her. If you are just reluctant, don't be reluctant, so as not to bring excessive trouble and pain to everyone in the future.

When you only have a preliminary understanding and find that she is worth continuing dating, then it is absolutely necessary for you to make a careful plan and consider the feelings and reactions of the other party.

Treat it sincerely, otherwise, it will not only hurt others, but also insult your personal character, which is really meaningless.

Therefore, the first date must not be sloppy, otherwise it will be over. Besides, if you can't devote yourself to that date, it will be a happy and happy thing to pursue it.

So, tell yourself anyway that you must take your date seriously. Now that she has agreed to your date, she will definitely dress up and have some expectations. Therefore, you can never succeed.

She is disappointed and should take care of her psychological needs as much as possible. For example, tell her that you value her in neat and beautiful clothes, meet her in a happy mood, and make enough preparations to spend an evening with her.

Arrange to send her home after the show. After making a good impression, she will undoubtedly agree to your second date. In the meantime, if she really appreciates your arrangement all night.

Naturally, I hope you can keep dating her. At this time, you can privately consider whether she is worth continuing dating. If it is absolutely worth it, please don't hesitate until the first date is over.

You must start, or you may miss all the opportunities. Because the more nervous you are, the happier she will be.

Lesson 6 the second date

Why emphasize the second date? Because when we meet for the first time, it may be the first contact. We don't know each other at all, and we're not serious. They rely entirely on intuition and eye contact to judge whether each other is true or not.

You can keep dating.

The first date means that I really want to get to know you, so we might as well give each other a chance to start. Therefore, strictly speaking, the first single date is the first conscious and fixed period.

Looking forward to dating each other and getting in touch for the first time.

However, the second single date is more important because it is a sincere confirmation of each other. The first date can be said to be purely a temptation. If we don't feel right for each other, we can certainly do so.

Stop, don't go on. Of course, meeting more often is not necessarily a pledge of eternal love, but there is a bigger difference-greater sincerity. No matter what the first date is, you must

Admit that as long as you date again, it means that your last date will be unforgettable, and you hope to meet her again and get along with her. Therefore, your attitude must be more sincere.

Meaning. At the very least, you must let her know that you are mentally prepared, that you and she will become lovers at any time, and that you have begun to regard her as a girlfriend-a girlfriend that you are fully interested in further development.

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Lesson 7 Physical Contact

Maybe you and she have dated many times alone, or you may regard each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. They are talking and laughing together, but you still feel that there is a gap between us. Actually, after we spent some time together.

She will allow some physical contact, but that doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. You need to be careful, or all your previous efforts will be wasted. If you put your hand on her shoulder too hard

Exaggerated movements are bound to arouse disgust and think that you are too laissez-faire. Here are some correct methods for your reference:

Hand-When she allows you to drag her hand, you should drag it with a gesture that completely contains her hand, so that she will feel protected and warm. Never drag only one finger or just one finger. ※

What she does with her fingertips will make her feel disrespected, have a feeling of "contact with filth" and resist your further actions in the future.

Wrist-this gesture is actually not worth promoting, because everyone caught by the wrist (or arm) will feel commanded and "escorted", even lovers, but there are some. ※

It is also useful when crossing the road in a hurry. It is worth noting that the grasping position is only below the elbow, and the strength should be gentle. Otherwise, she will really feel like a criminal caught by the police.

Shoulder-After the hand-dragging stage, with the light hug of Xiang Shoulder, it is obvious that "light hug" is of course to gently hold her body with her hands, which makes her feel protected and safe. ※

Avoid hanging your whole arm on her shoulder, or the weight of your arm will make her feel burdened and despised.

Touching her back with your hand can also make her feel loved, but when you do this, you must gently press the whole palm instead of pressing it with two fingers, or ※

It is swimming around. The former makes her feel uneasy about being "stuck behind", and the latter makes her feel that she has been played and that you are frivolous. But remember, although body language is a way to communicate with each other.

Path, but there is also quite a lot of oral communication. The relationship between two people can never be established only by physical contact, which means that feelings should never be based on sex. On the other hand, if you can

At the beginning of spiritual communication, gradually cultivate each other's feelings, enhance each other's understanding, and clearly understand their disharmony. Physical contact can completely help emotional growth, otherwise, the two will go hand in hand.

The madman in love made a big mistake.

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1. The girl wants others to praise her beauty. Everyone likes to hear compliments. Women are more prominent in this respect. They will get the pleasure of being recognized from people's praise. Understand; understand

Women's psychology, if you want to win the favor of the girl you love, you must always praise her beauty. For example, your girlfriend puts on makeup for you for a long time in front of the mirror, and she has to change it for a new one every date.

Pretending, shouldn't you praise her sincerely when you see her?

2. Women like to give people small favors. There are subtle differences between men and women in giving and receiving gifts. A woman gives a man an expensive gift to show that she is willing to trust him. first

Think of gifts as a sign of respect or courtship. Therefore, women like to receive some small souvenirs and small gifts for their boyfriends. If her boyfriend doesn't take back the gift,

She will be disappointed. When a clever man accepts a girl's gift, don't forget to give her a deep kiss.

3. Respect her and get to know her. A woman likes to be listened to, and she hopes that her feelings, even if childish or unreasonable, can be used by men. She wants others to respect her,

Know her. Women are easily hurt inside. Be sure to protect her, care for her and take care of her.

4. It suits her interest. Most women believe that a man who shares her views or interests and helps her achieve a certain goal will be a trustworthy person. Therefore, they are interested in such men.

People tend to feel close and give their hearts to them. Generally speaking, unreasonable men will make women unhappy. If a female colleague fails to meet the work quota, you will definitely not get her if you criticize her directly.

You should put yourself in her shoes, provided that your work and group are not affected. At this time, her heart will somehow tend to you. Women are usually very alert. If you

If you have the same goal as her, for example, you are both dissatisfied with a colleague's behavior, you will be easily accepted.

5. Pay attention to her tiny desires. Women always think men are forgetful. Therefore, if she accidentally blurts out something that interests her, you will remember it firmly when you ask her again one day.

She must be very moved to mention it. For a woman, if you can understand some of her tiny desires, she will feel that you know her best and are the most reliable, so she is closer to you.

6. Trust her. It is true that women like men's masculinity. Strong and brave are the characteristics of men. But men are also affectionate and gentle on the premise of being strong and brave.

When a woman falls in love with a man, she often falls in love with his fragile side. The deep-seated reason for this phenomenon may be that women are born with motherhood. A man can easily show it in front of his good woman.

For their own reasons, and it is so natural that women have sincere sympathy for such men. "Men don't flick when they cry." Men don't cry until they are sad, and don't cry until they really love each other.

People don't confide in women. Women are easily conquered by such men.

7. Pay attention to the subtle changes in her clothes. For a woman, if someone discovers the subtle changes in her body, she will have a sense of satisfaction. Women like to pursue fashion and love beauty.

Nature. If your girlfriend changes her hairstyle or dress today, she will be very happy if you praise her a few words. She thinks that you always keep her in your heart and look at her all the time. She is satisfied, but she is not.

There will be sudden "strong winds" or sulking alone. Careful men will find subtle changes in women without her reminding them at all. In this way, your feelings will be very harmonious.

Small means of chasing girls

1) chasing girls who are silent and arrogant.

At first glance, this seems to be tricky. In fact, these girls are indifferent in appearance and often fanatical in heart. They generally like boys who are a little wild. If you are the kind of gentle boy with bad looks.

The possibility is relatively small, it is better to choose another beautiful woman. If people say, "That's cool!" Then you want to be bigger! If your first invitation is not rejected, you must not.

Lose the opportunity! They may not care about you at first. You must not be discouraged at this time.

Be sure to stick to it, even if it is repeated. Watching movies, dancing, skating and going to her usual study room are all good strategies. Be sure to find more opportunities to express yourself, more and more (of course

I love you for the last time, hehe) ... for this type of girl, it is very attractive for you to show your true feelings.

This kind of girl usually has to chase for a long time. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems best not to start. So as not to waste ... hehe. But after catching up, she usually

Will be dead set, you will be on cloud nine and feel that you are the happiest BF in the world! Ha ha.

(2) the girl chasing romantic fantasy.

If you really like such a girl, let me remind you first-you are going to taste the ups and downs! This kind of girl seems to pursue spirit more than material, but in fact it is just the opposite. Romance is necessary.

It needs money to build it. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider. Because she likes romantic things, flowers and chocolates very much, you can touch her heartstrings to the greatest extent by giving more gifts.

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If you want to catch up with this kind of girl, don't be stingy with your little money. Besides the moon in the sky, there are other things on the ground (what? You should do it without hesitation as long as she wants it.

Try to get it. Usually roses and snacks are more subtle ... in short, if you want to chase such a girl, you must cultivate the ability to read the girl's mind. Yes, the room next to the girl.

Friends, don't forget to pay more bribes.

They will tell you a lot of useful information. And you must think more about your clothes, and don't be rustic all day. After catching up with girls, you can safely show your true colors.

Because in her eyes, you are no longer rustic. Haha)

If you want to play with her, you should also go to more romantic places, such as spring outing, dancing and watching love stories ... she will gradually be inseparable from your care, haha! Although such a girl has cost you a lot.

Money, but it will also bring you a lot of good fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live a happy life.

③ A girl who pursues tenderness and consideration.

This kind of girl is devoted. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and amiable, and let you feel the warmth and reliability of love. If you can catch up with this kind of girl, theoretically you will become.

The most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be easy to chase (also suitable for all kinds of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you, you deserve her. Now let's discuss the means.

First of all, you should pay more attention to her in life and study. She doesn't need any material things, but needs a heartfelt concern to appear in front of her when she needs help. (at

This is a reminder: you must observe more in peacetime and find a good opportunity to start. Of course, if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send flowers and gifts on holidays.

At first, you can send some friendly content, and when you think it can be expressed (for example, when she looks at you in a different way from others or seems a little overwhelmed in front of you), you can send it.

Rose. If you don't want to be so extravagant, you can reveal some in the chat after study on weekdays. When the time is right, you will suddenly say something like "It feels good to be with you". If she doesn't,

To avoid it, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have long wanted to say. The best time is at night: people's defense ability is weak at night. If she starts to avoid, don't force her, you can do it again.

Care silently until she is moved.

BTW: If you don't have much contact with her at ordinary times, and you have your eyes on her when she doesn't know you, you can pretend to meet her by chance with her through friends and then go through the same study room.

Let's have a few more "random encounters" to deepen our impression, and then we can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest, and it will be safe to catch up with her. In fact, it depends on the individual, and she is not allowed to leave in some extraordinary times.

If I can't fire you, I'll have to write and call often.

4 chasing lively and lovely girls

This kind of girl seems to like many people. In the new environment, boyfriends are often the first. Not because they are easy to be chased, but because they often have to take the initiative. Like it here.

Kind girl, if she likes you, it will be easy. Get in touch with her more, occasionally show your affection for her, and she will approach the goal synchronously with you.

If she doesn't like you (worse, she likes another person), please don't lose heart. As long as you still have a chance, you should fight for it (of course, you are just so-so to her, so you don't have to). you can

And she first exists in the form of friendship, and strives to cultivate a person with the same interests and hobbies as her. In the meantime, your humor and open-mindedness are very important, so that she will still think of you on her way back. If she likes it.

Some people are not interested in her, so you can take your time until she takes the initiative to you than to him.

At this time, you can take obvious strategies to make her really become your girlfriend. If she and he like each other, if you think she deserves to be accused of stealing people's love, then they are.

Before we talk, we can make one last shot. At this time, the opportunity is very important.

You should observe carefully. When they have conflicts and misunderstandings, use them (it doesn't seem very ... haha) and then arrive first. Victory may well belong to you in the end! (Generally, girls catch up.

There will be no other ideas in the future. Haha) This kind of girl may be liked by some unsuspecting people after having BF. You should tell "Please! She belongs to me! " The result should be optimistic.

Chasing hysterical girls

The typical feature of this kind of girl is emotional exposure. She can cry whenever she wants, smile happily, which often makes people feel a little ridiculous. Old friends are surprised that this kind of girl is being chased, but I heard that

Love is often blind. When oldfriend saw the emotional experiences of friends around him, he understood the meaning of this sentence better. Crazy girls are like wild horses, if you think you don't have enough ability.

If you drive it, you don't have to think about chasing it. Choose another one. If you feel good about yourself, you can have a try.

First of all, you should give her the impression that you are awesome (whether he is a T or an F, haha) and make her worship you. Before chasing, you'd better sum up your professional knowledge and design the time to show it.

She adored you before she knew it. After this good start, you can launch a full-scale attack. You don't have to be embarrassed at all, just go out with her a few times (ok

Choose a friend who is neither handsome nor stronger than you, show your style more, and her heart will slowly move closer to you.

Don't catch up with her at once, or it will come and go quickly. You should play hard to get and let her fall into a trap. Your task is to create as many opportunities as possible to contact and show your talents.

. Wait until she is completely convinced of you, and then slowly make it clear-oh, so you like her, too. Ha ha!

6. Chasing girls older than yourself

It is a common problem in our school that the girl you like is older than you. And women are older than men, which is a fine tradition of lovers in our school. For beginners who have just stepped into love, there is no need to panic in this situation.

. Go ahead, too! But in the process of pursuing, we must pay attention to the following points:

Never act like a little boy. Even a really mature woman wants to be spoiled rather than spoiled. When encountering difficulties or problems, you must take the lead, but don't.

Ask her to protect you. Your own subjective judgment is very important. Don't act like a parrot in front of the girl you like.

B: "I am mentally older than you" should be your mantra when she has an idea. Make her feel that this is really more real than her biological age.