Dressed up as a man, went to the opera and got domestic violence. At the age of 32, he left seven words. What has Qiu Jin experienced?

Don't say that women are not British. They sing on the wall of Longquan every night.

During the Republic of China, many women heroes emerged, including women who made a difference in business and founded girls' schools at the earliest. They were all admired by women, and Qiu Jin, the "woman who built the lake", was even admired by men.

She is an advocate of feminism and women's studies in China and a modern democratic revolutionary. In order to overthrow the feudal autocratic rule, she died heroically, turning her short life of 32 years into a red rose, illuminating the way forward for future generations and igniting every indomitable patriotic heart.

The autumn family has a daughter, who has just grown up, married and enjoyed the warmth. Qiu Jin was born in an official family, his father Qiu Shounan went to Chenzhou, Hunan, and his mother Shan was a famous family in Xiaoshan, Zhejiang. Although women were still men's accessories at that time, Qiu Jin, who was smart and lovely, was loved by her father.

With a scholarly family who is not worried about food and clothing, a relatively free growth environment, and the influence of his brother who can write and his cousin who can fight, Qiu Jin was familiar with the Four Books and Five Classics at the age of 10, and read poetry, literature and history to the fullest. At the age of 65,438+05, equestrian fencing is in full swing.

Compared with ordinary women at that time, Qiu Jin was naturally different, but this difference was also produced under the same shadow of feudal autocracy. She doesn't like foot binding, but she can't beat pedantic elders. She doesn't want to follow the rules, but she is always bound by that set of moral norms. ...

Maybe at that time, there was a flame of resistance in her heart, but because her vision was still narrow, it was just a flame.

There is a girl at home who just grew up in autumn. She is beautiful and handsome, brave and calm with a gun across the horse, which makes her look fresh and gentle. At the age of 2 1, Qiu Jin married Wang Tingjun, who was 4 years younger than her, under the arrangement of her parents, and started a new stage of being a wife.

It can be seen that in such a feudal society, even if her parents spoil her so far, it is not up to her to decide on marriage ... Wang Tingjun is the son of Wang Yichen, the richest man in Xiangtan (Zeng Guofan's cousin), and his family background is not bad. He is now a proper rich second generation.

Although their marriage was arranged by their parents' matchmakers, in the initial stage of their marriage, the couple was also an example of Qi Mei playing the piano and singing.

In the second year after marriage, Qiu Jin gave birth to a son for her husband, and the days of love without waves passed day by day. 1900, Wang Tingjun got a position by bribing officials, and then Qiu Jin went north with her husband and started a new life in Beijing.

With a husband and a son, life is very comfortable. She wrote in her diary at that time: "My husband has been learning foreign languages recently." Only these seven words are enough to imagine the warm moments of husband and wife.

The following year, Qiu Jin gave birth to her daughter Canzhi Wang in Beijing. She thought that her daughter's arrival would bring more happiness to her marriage, but she didn't expect that her relationship with Wang Tingjun was in crisis at this moment.

Marriage is red, and patriotism has awakened. Wang Tingjun has only been an official for one year. Under the influence of corruption and the Qing court, he gradually lost himself. He goes to parties all day and doesn't do business. Qiu Jin felt sad and complained. In his letter to his younger brother, he wrote angrily: "I am not as good as a servant in the Wang family!" "

At this moment, a woman named Wu Zhiying appeared. Wu Zhiying is a talented woman with her own opinions. Under her influence, Qiu Jin began to think more about the power of women, the meaning of marriage and what she can do for this country.

Qiu Jin began not to stick to trivial matters, but to take a longer view. At this time, she is a feminist, and there is a little star light that is about to become a revolutionary.

In her third year in Beijing, Qiu Jin disguised herself as a man and went to the theatre. When Wang Tingjun found out, he was subjected to domestic violence. Qiu Jin was dissatisfied with her husband's behavior and left home to live in an inn in a rage, or Wang Tingjun bowed his head and apologized, which made the contradiction between husband and wife come to an end.

On the surface, the relationship between husband and wife is sound, but in fact, Qiu Jin has been extremely disappointed with this marriage.

At the age of 29, she made a decision to study in Japan. When Wang Tingjun first found out, he flew into a rage and accused Qiu Jin of "disobedience". But at the insistence of his wife, he paved the way for him to go abroad and was willing to stay at home and take care of the children alone.

Under the influence of feudal thoughts, Wang Tingjun could not fully understand his wife's real thoughts, but despite his confusion and anger, he chose to set Qiu Jin free and let her pursue her own world.

During her study in Japan, Qiu Jin made friends with revolutionaries such as Chen Tianhua and Lu Xun, and it was these kindred spirits that made her see the hope and dawn of China.

After returning to China, she attended the Guangfu Association, returned to Japan again, entered Qingshan Practical Girls' School, and joined the League. These experiences made her fight not only for women's rights, but also for the bright future of the country.

During this period, she also discussed divorce with her husband many times, but Wang Tingjun never agreed. ...

Shortly after his heroic sacrifice, his faith was immortal. At the request of the Qing government to restrain the political activities of students studying in Japan, the Japanese government promulgated the Banning Rules. Qiu Jin returned to China in a rage, founded the Chinese Public School in Shanghai, and actively contacted revolutionaries to plan the uprising.

However, just before the uprising, Xu Xilin failed in Anqing uprising, and his brother gave up Qiu Jin, so the air was filled with the breath of war. Although Qiu Jin learned the news in advance, he did not intend to leave, insisting that "the revolution can only succeed if it bleeds".

Everyone knows the tragic ending. When Qiu Jin was arrested, he refused to confess. When he died, he left only seven words: "Autumn wind and autumn rain are worrying people". That year, she was 32 years old, like a delicate and charming fire rose. After she disappeared, her light pierced the sky.

However, it is only the body that is destroyed, but the spirit that can last forever!

After Qiu Jin's death, Wang Tingjun resigned and returned to his hometown with his children. Two years later, he died of depression. ......

For a long time, there have been different opinions about the relationship between Qiu Jin and Wang Tingjun. Some people say that Wang Tingjun is conservative, and Qiu Jin despises him. It is also said that both of them have each other in their hearts. Qiu Jin broke off relations with the Wangs only because he didn't want to implicate her husband and children.

On the other hand, children in Qiu Jin and Wang Tingjun believe that there is love between their parents, and the reason why they later stand on the opposite side is also caused by the current situation.

What are people with faith like?

I died for the revolution this time! Since I was in Qiu Jin's time, women in China have not shed blood for the revolution. Even though the world didn't fully understand the revolution, it made me mercilessly abandon my family and children. This time I am going to die to answer the so-called revolution.

Revolution is to create a storm-proof home for the world and a gentle and quiet world for children. Even though these enslaved people have been numb for a long time, they don't know what peace and gentleness are.

"These two children will lose their mother" ... "My death is for all the children" —— The film Revolution of 1911

The so-called women don't let a man, that is, Qiu Jin, who doesn't fit, is a man with a strong heart. Remember her Song of Women's Rights?

We love freedom and encourage it with a glass of wine. Men and women are equal in talent, so why not stay behind the cow? ..... The responsibility is on the shoulders, and the excellent period of ethnic women is not negative.

So broad-minded and brave, I really want to say thank you to the goddess figures in the history books, even though I can't get there in person.

Conclusion Many people have written stories about Qiu Jin and heard many stories about her "tragic fate", but privately they think that her short life of 32 years is not tragic.

Because she is a woman who pleads for life for the world, she has a patriotic heart and voluntarily gives up a comfortable life to join the revolution at all costs. Fighting to death is her own choice. People who have the right to choose are not tragedies, but tragedies.

A truly miserable woman is a duckweed who can't choose for herself all her life, or who lives in dire straits but doesn't even have the right to die. She can only cling to a man and live miserably until she becomes a wasteland.

Compared with them, Qiu Jin, a woman who can control her own destiny, is actually much luckier.