Is it worth popularizing that Guangdong wedding banquet only tears the corner of paper bag without accepting gifts?

This practice is worth popularizing throughout the country.

When someone went to Guangdong for a wedding reception, they found a rare thing. The host only tore a corner of the gift red envelope and didn't confiscate any gift money, which made many people feel unaccustomed and particularly surprised. Only then did I realize that this is a local custom. When holding a wedding reception, guests will not accept the red envelope, but will tear off a corner of the red envelope to show that the gift has been received and their hearts have been expressed. It is the best blessing for the couple that the guests dine at the wedding banquet. This practice is worth popularizing in the whole country, which can effectively curb the unhealthy trend of comparison in Li Jian.

Going to the wedding reception on holidays has become a headache for many people, so if the gift money is less, they feel that they can't afford it and often compare with each other. I will also have some unnecessary troubles because of the gift money, so it is not a good thing to get married with the gift money. If only we could tear a corner on the red envelope when we get married like Guangdong, and if the other person's mind would not accept the other person's gift money.

At present, most parts of China need less gifts when attending wedding banquets, ranging from 200 to 300 in thousands of places. Some close people will also pack tens of thousands of red envelopes. In fact, their economy is not rich, but in order to save face and show their attention to each other, they always try their best to give gifts, but after giving gifts, they will have to scrimp and save for a long time. If we can promote this new method of wedding banquet and separate the wedding banquet from the money, it will reduce the burden on many people and make people attend the wedding banquet with a more relaxed attitude.

Although this practice is suitable for nationwide promotion, it is also difficult to promote and takes a long time, because giving gifts at wedding banquets is also a long-standing custom. It can't be changed overnight. Promoting this practice will increase the economic burden of owners and make them feel particularly unfavorable. Even some business owners will consider that if they don't accept gifts now, when others hold weddings, they may be understood by themselves and think that it is not cost-effective for them, so they still insist on accepting gifts.

It is a custom and tradition that Guangdong wedding banquets do not accept gifts. It is said that this practice began to be popular in this place many years ago. Not only wedding banquets are not combed and full moon wine is not served, housewarming banquets and school banquets will not receive gifts, but only one corner of the private gift red envelope will indicate the acceptance of the other party's wishes. Local people think that as long as someone is present, Li Qingqing is the best support and blessing for the host. Even in some places in Guangzhou, when receiving a gift from a guest, only one card is rushed out, and the rest will be returned to the guest. However, this practice is difficult to implement and popularize in northern China and most inland cities, because different regions have different customs.

Now, when getting married in the south, women don't ask for a high bride price. Even some southern girls will give a huge dowry when they get married, which will not increase the burden on the man. There is no need to worry about how many sons the man will marry, but in the north and even some small places, many families are crushed because of huge financial resources. So now, in some areas of Henan, zero profit has been implemented. However, after the introduction of this policy, the implementation has encountered many obstacles, so it is a long process. No matter whether it is a zero gift or a zero bride price, many efforts are needed. What is more important is to improve people's cognition and make people's thoughts change.