Do you think the wedding is important?

I think this is very important. Love is sweet, and only a sense of ceremony can make people remember their lives. In the long years of life, many things that we firmly remember are just some kind of ritual experience.

Some people say that married life is not composed of trivial matters such as daily necessities. Of course not! Marriage must not be made up of trivial things! Proper sense of ceremony can make some days and moments different, make ordinary life have some small surprises from time to time, and make days more interesting. On the contrary, if you focus on the "trivial things" in life, you are likely to reap the dullness brought by the "unchanging" pace of life.

Let's talk about a case first

Husband and wife are classmates and have always had a good relationship. Through their own efforts, the two have their own home and a baby in Beijing. The wife gave up her job for the family and children and devoted herself to the children. It was also from here that the two began to have nothing to say. The husband said to the family lawyer, "On our wedding anniversary, I booked a restaurant to celebrate after we got the certificate, but she came to the restaurant unkempt." In this regard, my wife said that I have no time and no mood to be "exquisite" with my children every day. A beautiful wedding anniversary became the fuse of marriage. ...

The reason why love should have a sense of ceremony

The purpose of everything is to enhance feelings. In fact, every day, whether it is a date, a gift or a greeting, it is to leave a good memory for each other, and people are preparing new surprises in the good memories. So every time you make an effort, you will find that you love each other more.

The so-called sense of ceremony is not what you want to give or how grand you are. Sending a flower in winter and saying "good morning" every morning are all ceremonial feelings of love.

Love memories can really live a lifetime! (1) The sweet interaction agreement between two people, the more memories. Maybe there will be some friction in life. When friction occurs, these memories may be a catalyst to promote reconciliation between two people.

When was the last time you thought of your other half and smiled silently? Good memories will bring people a happy mood. How can marriage be unhappy if you have always maintained a happy mood in your marriage life?

Adults need to increase their sense of dependence. Now that two people are married, they should change their consciousness from two people to one family. Many times, they need to face some difficulties together. At this time, don't be male chauvinist and don't be a strong woman. Mutual consultation is also a way of communication.

In fact, having the so-called sense of ceremony is just a constant reminder that two people have become a family, and adults have a lot of troubles in their work and life. At this time, home is your safest harbor, and talking to your partner may not be for answers, but because of habitual dependence.