Eight sample essays on how to make friends

How to make friends: Chapter 1? These days, as the exam is approaching, my mood fluctuates greatly. Because I have always attached great importance to this exam, and I always felt that if I failed, it would be over. So the more I thought about it, the more pressure I felt. I rush between three points and one line every day: home - school - canteen. I bury my head and just think about studying every day, but I know that I am in a bad mood. But I'm still glad to have friends by my side. With their support and encouragement, I gradually came out of my psychological shadow and my grades improved. So friends are very important. ? Making friends can be roughly divided into four categories: the first category is casual acquaintances. This category of friends say hello when they are in a good mood when they meet on the road, and turn a blind eye when they are in a bad mood. The friendship index is 10%; the second category is "fuck friends", but This is not a derogatory meaning, it just emphasizes that this type of friends are inseparable, laughing, joking, and destroying together all day long, with a friendship index of 40%; the third type is those who have the same hobbies and have the same People who pursue, study together, and make progress together, there should be no more than ten such friends, and the friendship index is 80%; the fourth category is the close friend type, two people have almost no secrets, and each other’s thoughts are clear, even in the classroom. One of these two people sits in the first group, and the other sits in the eighth group, but they will also form a unified tacit understanding at the same time. Such friends are limited to one person, and the friendship index is 99%. ? I hope that my friend - her: is not indifferent, but can always care about others; is not arbitrary, but can listen to other people's opinions extensively; is not cowardly, but can stand up for me. Not stupid, but a person who can advise me; not dull, but a person full of humor? He can't be cunning, greedy, hypocritical, stingy? He should be honest, Someone who has never or has deceived me with good intentions; someone who is straightforward and can boldly make well-founded criticisms of me; someone who is upright, upright and upright; someone who is diligent and able to communicate with me People who want to develop together and make progress together should be open-minded and generous; they should be brave and dare to face any reality... However, there is no gold and no one is perfect. ?Don’t be too harsh on your friends. When you ask others, think about whether you can do it yourself? ? How to make friends: Part 2? Friends are indispensable in today's fiercely competitive real society. With friends, there is an extra layer of barrier. , even when the wind and waves swept by, it still stood firm. For example, when you encounter difficulties in finance or career and your family cannot help you, then you need a friend. He can help you get through it. If you lack this friend, you will be devastated, perhaps penniless, and your family will be ruined. This shows how important friends are. We cannot live without friends. ? Friend, my understanding is: never give up on you in times of crisis, help you when you encounter difficulties, take care of you, share joy with you, endure hardships, do not value your status and origin, and bring you Joy, the one who comforts you when you are sad. This is what friends are. ? Friends are everywhere, but friends are easy to find, but it is very difficult to find a soulmate who truly has the same goals as you. As the saying goes: A true friend is hard to find. It is not easy to find a good friend. Many people never find a soulmate in their lifetime. Aristotle said: ?A close friend is like a person of different bodies but of the same mind. ?Making a good friend will benefit you throughout your life, while making a bad friend will bring about your own destruction. Make good friends, they can help you and help you when you are in danger. If you make bad friends, they will make it easier for you to join forces with others and lead you astray. Friends are important, but you must be very careful when choosing friends. The consequences of making careless friends are not something you alone can bear. The principles of making friends are roughly as follows: we must treat our friends sincerely, not hide ourselves, be honest and trustworthy, be heart-to-heart, tolerant and trust our friends, be willing to go out of our way to protect our friends, and respect them when necessary. One's own friends, elevate the friend's status and lower one's own status. When making friends, you should pay attention to his character and not blindly choose his status or origin. Don’t choose fair-weather friends. This is the basic principle of making friends. If you follow this principle to make friends, you will definitely make a like-minded friend.

Making friends has been praised by people from ancient times to the present. For example: Bao Shuya and Guan Zhong in the Spring and Autumn Period; Baili Xi and Jian Shu. These are true friends in need. They help you when you encounter difficulties and are willing to go out of your way to help you. These are real friends. ? How to make friends: Chapter 3? What is a friend? Some people understand, some people don’t. ? A friend is someone who can tolerate each other. No matter how big a joke the other party made on him, or what offensive language they said to him, he would always smile back at him, or at most, just respond with humorous words. ? A friend is someone who can help each other. If the other party has any shortcomings, he will point them out and help the other party correct them. ? A friend is someone who can accept advice from the other person. No matter what shortcomings or even criticisms the other party may bring to him, he will happily accept them and conscientiously correct them to perfect himself. ? A friend is someone who cherishes friendship. He will respect each other and never force others. When the other person is happy, he will also be very happy; when the other person is sad, he will comfort the other person and never add insult to injury or take pleasure in others' misfortunes. ? A friend is an upright person. In the face of evil, he will never cower or hide, but will uphold justice and overwhelm evil. ? A friend is someone who is not afraid of difficulties. In the face of difficulties, he will never be afraid or escape, but will bravely overcome difficulties. ? A friend is someone who protects the other person. No matter what happens, he will step forward regardless of his own health and sacrifice everything for the other party, even his life. ? Some people think that as long as they are willing to eat, drink and have fun with them, they are friends. Actually wrong. ? ?True love emerges in dangerous moments. Dear reader, please think carefully, who are your friends? As the saying goes, "A fence has three stakes, and a hero has three gangs." Whether in life or online, everyone has friends. What are friends? Friends are people who have friendship with each other and are good friends with each other. Friendship is the purest, noblest, simplest and most ordinary emotion. It is also the most romantic, touching, solid and eternal emotion. No one can live without friendship. Life is inseparable from friends, and their friendship and support are indispensable. However, in the vast world, there is a mixture of good and bad, and friends suffer losses and losses. The ancients warned us like this: "A gentleman first chooses to meet and then makes friends; a villain first meets and then chooses. Therefore, a gentleman is rare and a villain has many complaints." It can be seen that how to know and choose friends is a very important life issue. ? Be careful when making friends. No matter what type of person you make as your friend, be careful. "Those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black." This long-standing famous saying vividly illustrates the importance of "making friends carefully". It is the experience of the ancients, and it is indeed true. What a person's friends are like often plays a big role in his or her own development. This is an invisible, subtle, nurturing and contagious force. ? What kind of friends are best to make? The ancients said: ? Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you. Friends who are straightforward, forgiving, and knowledgeable are beneficial; friends who are secluded, friendly, and gentle, and friends who are sycophantic are detrimental. That is to say, making friends with honest, trustworthy, and knowledgeable people will bring great benefits; making friends with those who are flattering, evil-minded, and flashy will bring harm. This still has implications for how we choose and make friends today. Generally speaking, in real life, we should make the following types of friends. ? A close friend. It refers to a true friend who is sincere, sincere, and lives by feelings and principles. "To fear friends is to be able to respect each other's moral principles and respect each other's faults." That is to say, it refers to people who dare to express opinions and advice among friends, speak out about others' faults, and actively carry out criticism and self-criticism. Fear of friends can be like a mirror, reflecting the dust and stains on the other person's face, allowing you to discover and correct them in time. ? Close friends. It is to be able to take care of priorities and decisions, and to be able to rely on life and death. It refers to a friend who is close, has deep feelings, and can share the joys and sorrows with oneself. ? Jacky. That is to say, a friend who is diligent in learning or knowledgeable. Making friends can increase knowledge, broaden horizons, cooperate with each other, learn from each other's strengths, promote each other, and spur each other. ? Be careful to avoid making bad friends.

Middle school students are very imitative. If you make friends with someone who carries a dagger and has a cigarette in his mouth, you may end up having a similar temperament. Middle school students are at an age when they are full of emotions and are impulsive. They must not do things they shouldn't do impulsively, out of affection, or out of "loyalty." You must be careful about what kind of friends you make. ? How to treat friends? After we have found our friends through careful selection, how to ensure the harmonious and healthy development of the relationship is very particular and knowledgeable. ? Treat each other with sincerity. It comes from sincerity and sincerity. The most fearful thing about friends is hypocrisy, hypocrisy and manipulation. Friends are allowed to have their own privacy, but there is no doubt that whether there is nothing to hide or how much to hide is a sign of friendship. ? Keep your promises and trust each other. ?Faith? was regarded by the ancients as one of the constant virtues in conducting oneself in the world. Confucius said: "When making friends, keep your word." Trust, first of all, is credibility, do what you say, keep your promises, and keep your word; secondly, trust, trust your friends and not have unreasonable suspicions. A person who is distrustful cannot make friends, and a person who is always suspicious of others will rarely make friends with you. ?The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. "Zhuangzi Mountain Trees" says: "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as sweet wine." True friendship relies on sincere sympathy, not sweet words or heavy gifts. As for material exchange, disgusting flattery, mutual use, and even intrigues among villains, we should throw it into the garbage heap. "The friendship between gentlemen" should stand the test of time and the test of the external environment. ? First of all, you must make more friends with your heart. To make friends with people, you have to use your own heart to exchange for the trust of others, so that the other person knows that you are his good friend, true friend, and caring person, so that he can dedicate his heart to you without any scruples, so as to achieve the goal. Heart for heart?, become good friends who are close to each other. If you are hypocritical, duplicitous, do one thing to your face and another behind your back, or even talk the talk but don't mean it, then this kind of person will not make friends, let alone make more friends. Just like a salesman coming to sell products, he should sell himself first, and then the product. Because customers will spend money to buy his products only after they accept him as a person. The principle of making friends is actually the same. ? Secondly, seek common ground while reserving differences and make more friends. No one in the world is exactly the same, no one has exactly the same personality, temperament, and ideological views. As Goethe said: It is difficult to find two leaves with exactly the same shape on a tree. Therefore, it is required to seek common ground while reserving minor differences, and adopt the policy of not making mistakes in principles and being careless in minor matters. When dealing with differences of opinion between friends, you must be magnanimous even if you are wronged. The exchange of opinions can be used to clarify right and wrong and achieve reconciliation. ? Furthermore, it is to change your temperament and make more friends. If a person has a stubborn temperament, has too "individualized" living habits, or is silent, introverted, taciturn, etc., it will be difficult to make many friends. We should work hard to become cheerful, go to social groups to exercise more, talk to others, and gradually improve our communication skills. Only in this way can you deal with anyone, and only in this way can you get to know different personalities, learn how to behave, and adapt to this society. ? How to make friends: Chapter 4? Since ancient times, friendship has been regarded as the most precious thing in the world. The value of friendship lies in being like-minded and keeping one's word. ?Fire knows true gold, and crisis reveals true love? People in adversity are the best witness to friendship. From ancient times to the present, how many people with lofty ideals have left a brilliant page for friendship. ? ?The most important thing for people to get acquainted is to know each other; Being of the same mind and having the same feelings will make our lives full of sunshine, comfort and joy, and will make us work together for the same goal in life. ? Friendship is spiritual communication, emotional exchange, selfless care, precious trust, sincere advice, and enthusiastic encouragement. With friendship, our lives will have one more pair of hands and one more sunshine. ? True friendship is based on like-minded people. Only like-minded people can establish true friendship. Friendship between people with different ideals and different ambitions cannot last long.

Lu Xun and Zhai Qiubai met in the summer and autumn of 1932. They had a tacit understanding with each other at first sight. From then on, they fought side by side to promote the revolutionary cultural movement and forged a deep friendship. During their mutual interactions, Lu Xun helped Zhai Qiubai many times. Zhai Qiubai wrote "Selected Collection of Lu Xun's Miscellaneous Thoughts" to express his gratitude to Lu Xun, and spoke highly of Lu Xun's essays. Lu Xun also drafted a couplet for Zhai Qiubai? It is enough to have a confidant in life, and this world should treat him with sympathy. The reason why Lu Xun and Zhai Qiubai established such a deep friendship is that they have the same ideals. Therefore, it is said: "We have different paths, so we don't want to conspire against each other." ? Su Jun of the Ming Dynasty said: ? Sweet words are like sweet wine, and games are conquered, and they are friends; benefits are connected, and intentions are mutually beneficial, and thieves are friends. It's true that "friends" or "friends who are thieves" cannot be called true friends. Don't rush to make friends, not everyone can be your friend. One of the difficulties in making friends is to choose them carefully. With the progress of society, people's thinking is also constantly improving. It is easy to be deceived by some insidious and cunning people when choosing friends. Such people may appear to be honest and trustworthy, but they are not. Those who are unjust for profit are not worth dealing with. Wang Tong of the Sui Dynasty said this: "Those who use power to make friends will be defeated when the power is exhausted; those who use benefits to make friends will be dispersed if the benefits are poor." Therefore, it is said: "If you are not careful at first, you will become enemies later." ? In the vast sea of ????people, looking around, who can be called a confidant? Who can be called a confidant? This requires us to master the way of choosing friends and choose carefully, so that we can have a pure friendship. Read full text