The most cowardly slogan

I believe that many people have been educated with gentle respect since childhood. Adults always say that honesty and kindness are warm and kind to people, and it is a blessing to suffer.

But when I grow up, I will often find this is a big pit when I use it in actual interpersonal communication!

I used to think that accommodation was a sign of being friendly to people. Usually it's not a matter of principle, as long as it can be said. Being kind to others is a blessing.

But in fact, I don't know since when being easy to talk is regarded as a good bully, and there are still some people. The more relaxed you are, the more smelly they are.

Xiao Zhao, the hero, graduated from technical secondary school, with an average education, is good-looking, sunny and handsome, with a height of 1.83 meters. He loves playing basketball and used to be the center of the school team.

After Xiao Zhao went to work, she met a girl named Xiaoxi. Xiaoxi is three years older than Xiao Zhao.

At first, Xiao Zhao didn't like the brook, because its appearance was somewhat unsatisfactory. Height 1.5 meters, bloated figure, ordinary appearance, dark skin, junior high school education.

Everyone I know laughs at Xiaoxi, saying that she actually wants to chase Xiao Zhao, which is just a pipe dream.

However, the stream turned a deaf ear. Six months later, she moved in with Xiao Zhao.

Everyone was shocked. Many people asked Xiao Zhao: Are you crazy? Or are you bewitched?

Xiao Zhao, on the other hand, has been silent. Even if his parents asked him, he didn't say anything, just sat with his head down like an old monk.

Finally, at a class reunion, Xiao Zhao was drunk and told the whole story with a runny nose and tears.

Xiao Zhao doesn't like Xiao Xi, but Xiao Xi is especially good for Xiao Zhao!

For example, on a rainy day, when Xiao Zhao got off work, Xiao Xizhun waited for him at the door with two umbrellas in his hand.

For another example, Xiaoxi asked Xiao Zhao to go shopping on the grounds of his birthday. Xiao Zhao saw a watch and casually said, It's beautiful.

Xiaoxi does odd jobs to earn money, and then buys watches for Xiao Zhao.

Xiao Zhao didn't want it. Xiao Xi dropped his watch on the ground in front of Xiao Zhao, stamped it with his foot, then went to odd jobs to earn money, and bought another piece for Xiao Zhao.

As long as Xiaoxi can think of it and can afford it, buy it all and give it to Xiao Zhao. Xiao Zhao just has to say no, throw it away or break it, and then make money to buy it.

There are many such things, and Xiao Zhao has a psychological shadow. Xiaoxi gave him something again, and he silently accepted it. On the one hand, I don't want the stream to make things worse. On the other hand, Xiao Zhao felt sad to see the stream haggard for making money.

Xiao Zhao tried to avoid the stream, but the stream could stand downstairs in Xiao Zhao's house in the heavy rain. He didn't open an umbrella all night and was drenched like a water ghost.

Xiao Zhao herself said: I don't like her, but who can be as kind to me as she is?

From the beginning, I was embarrassed to refuse, to being coerced, and finally I felt dependent and misunderstood psychological distortion as true love. This is not only because I am easy to talk, but also because I am weak and shallow.

Colleague Sun Xiao's family is very rich, but Xiao Guo's life is very poor. Xiaoguo often borrows money from Sun Xiao, but he doesn't borrow much. He borrowed 500 yuan once. He borrowed it this month and will pay it back next month.

This kind of loan repayment lasted for more than a year. Suddenly, one day, Xiao Guo borrowed 10,000 yuan from Sun Xiao, saying that the old man at home was ill and needed money badly, but the money was too big to finish in half a year.

Without much thought, Sun Xiao lent Xiao Guo the money. After all, Xiao Guo always borrows money from him and pays it back every time.

Half a year later, Xiao Guo told Sun Xiao that he could not earn so much money. So far, he has only saved more than 2,000 yuan, but the old man is still in poor health, and this money has to be saved for emergencies.

Sun Xiao is a little unhappy. Didn't he say he would pay it back in six months?

However, with a sincere apology on his face, Sun Xiao couldn't erase his face, so he said, Pay back the money if you have it. I'm not in a hurry to use the money anyway.

After waiting for a year, Xiaoguo never mentioned paying back the money again. Sun Xiao put up with it several times and finally couldn't help it. He asked Xiao Guo for money, but Xiao Guo said, aren't you in a hurry to use the money?

Sun Xiao said with an angry smile, I'm in no hurry to use the money. You borrowed money from me and agreed to pay it back in six months. It's been a year and a half. When will you pay me back?

Xiaoguo was kept in the dark at that time and replied coldly: No money.

Sun Xiao was angry, too, and said with a straight face, How much money do you have now? Pay me back first, in installments.

Unexpectedly, this sentence angered Xiao Guo, who jumped around the office and shouted at Sun Xiao: You want to kill me! I gave you all the money I earned in a month. This is the money to live. Why doesn't my family drink northwest wind?

Sun Xiao was stunned. How can I force you to death? It is obvious that you borrowed money from me to pay off your debts. Isn't this a matter of course?

No one in the office said a word. In fact, someone persuaded Guo Lao to borrow money from you in this way, which is not good. Don't lend it to him

But Sun Xiao wouldn't listen, saying that they were all colleagues, and 500 yuan was nothing.

So at this point, nobody said anything.

Finally, the company leaders called the two men to the manager's office and agreed that Xiaoguo would pay his salary every month and pay it to Sun Xiao 500 yuan until the money was paid back.

From then on, Xiao Guo regarded Sun Xiao as an enemy. He also told everyone that Sun Xiao was untrue and forced him to pay back the money. He doesn't even have the money to buy a new pair of shoes for his children. This is Sun Xiao's fault.

Sun Xiao thought about quitting his job and changing jobs. But Sun Xiao can't leave until the money is paid back. At that time, it was not like now, just changing accounts. Cash was used at that time. When borrowing money, Guo is not allowed to write an iou, so he can only endure it.

As the old saying goes, it is absolutely true that emergency is to save the poor.

Therefore, you can't be easy to talk to, no matter who you are to, you must always have a sense of proportion in your heart.

I don't know whether the heart has changed or the truth has changed. Anyway, I've suffered a lot in recent years, and I haven't seen the good news.

This word is derogatory in most cases. But nothing is absolute, and there is a kind of cowardice that is worth developing, that is, avoiding foreseeable dangers.

What I want to say today is that you can't be timid.

More than half of the stress in the workplace comes from being too timid. Dare not argue with the boss, dare not challenge the customer, can only wronged themselves, pay can not get the corresponding return.

Colleague Tang Xiao is responsible for the fire maintenance of a key unit in the city, but the person he docked with is not the direct employee of this unit, but the engineering department under the outsourcing property company.

At the beginning of signing the contract, the department manager communicated with Tang Xiao, because Tang Xiao's technology is excellent, and he can master both hydraulic and electrical work.

According to the truth, the maintenance contract only cares about maintenance, regardless of maintenance.

For example, the faucet of the toilet, I only guarantee that there is water when it is open, regardless of other problems. For example, it can't be opened or closed, the water pressure is not enough, dripping water leaks, and the water is not clean. These problems are under the control of the property engineering department.

This is the concept of maintenance. The function of the faucet is to drain water. I just need to make sure that there is water at the source, that the valve in the middle of the pipeline is not closed and blocked, and that all other work related to maintenance and replacement is not in my charge.

Of course, this is just an example. It is impossible to go online in this way in actual operation, but the contract must be signed as much as possible, because only in this way can it be in the best interests of oneself and it is the easiest to get rid of the relationship on foreseeable issues.

Tang Xiao is knowledgeable, but he is afraid to argue with the manager.

The manager is not ignorant, but the problem is that the manager just signs the contract and doesn't have to work. All the work needs to be done by Tang Xiao.

The manager certainly hopes to sign the contract smoothly, as long as the company can collect money. As for whether the work is good or not, that's not the point.

No one is stupid, and everyone wants to spend the least money and get the most benefit. Property refers to all fire maintenance (except for strong electricity, which must be operated with a certificate, and fire protection is generally weak electricity) which is also done by Party B. ..

The manager asked Tang Xiao: Do you think there is any problem in repairing this piece?

Tang Xiao replied: This is not within the scope of maintenance. This is an engineering problem.

The manager said: Never mind whose business it is, just say, is there a problem with this piece of repair? This contract is very important. It is a key unit in the city. Signing a contract with them is good for the reputation of our company.

When it comes to the overall situation, Tang Xiao chickened out and nodded silently, so he signed the contract according to Party A's meaning. ..

Then Tang Xiao became a resident. From morning till night, even if the sign on the fire water tank is loose, Party A will call Tang Xiao and ask him to fix it.

Because of the contract, Tang Xiao didn't dare to challenge Party A. As a result, Tang Xiao did the work that should have been coordinated by Party A alone.

Party A has something to say: You are the person in charge. If anything goes wrong, it will be your problem. That's how your contract was signed. Our people try to cooperate with you when they are free, but our people are also very busy.

When he said this, people from the property engineering department were chatting in the smoking area two meters away.

In fact, with Tang Xiao's skills, it is not difficult for him to go to any company, but he can't change his character defects, and he can't change his thankless results anywhere.

In our fire maintenance industry, professionalism is still relatively strong. Even if the contract is unfavorable, there is still room for mediation when dealing with the problem.

When I was in Beijing, I was in charge of a large project. * * * 20 fire-fighting hosts to realize network multi-screen linkage. This means that the smoke alarm on host 1 should be able to start the fire pump on host 2.

At that time, the fire main engine was not advanced enough, and there was no cross-screen linkage function. However, in order to sign this big order, the company's business personnel privately agreed to the conditions of Party A and kept it from the company until the final signing.

In business, reputation comes first. Let's talk about the net profit of 20 fire engines. That year is equivalent to what some people say, "achieve a small goal first."

Therefore, the company hired an electronics subsidiary to develop communication boards for this large-scale project.

But this thing is grafted after all, so it can't be used very well. Signal blocking or component burning often occurs.

At that time, the price of developing this communication board was1million, and then the price of each communication board was 4800, which was in 2004.

Before me, the colleague in charge of this project was tortured by the communication bureau and resigned. My ability to enter the company is computer software. The minister of engineering thought that my ability was close to the communication board (in fact, it was nonsense, completely different) and gave me this project.

I didn't refuse, because this project has many benefits.

During the first troubleshooting after I took over, I told the person in charge of Party A: As you know, this thing always breaks down because it is not original. Things that are not original will not be so easy to use. At the beginning, you wanted to cross-screen linkage, and our company spent a lot of manpower and material resources to meet your requirements, and finally realized your requirements. The problem now is that it can be used, but it is not as easy to use as you think.

The person in charge of Party A called our company, and the engineering minister talked to me and asked me directly: How can you say that to Party A?

I asked the Minister of Engineering: What should I say? The price of a board is 4.8 thousand, and the price is only 6 thousand. Is it necessary for our company to change? On average, 20 hosts will be replaced every three months. If you approve this account, I have no problem.

The engineering minister was silent for a long time before telling me: Pay attention to the way and method of talking with Party A. ..

I said: I have told him this with the gentlest attitude. He asked us to make sure that the board wouldn't break. No one can do that. Even the original thing can't never decompose.

The minister of engineering was silent for a long time and said to me, to put it another way, after all, we are making money from others. Although it is impossible for people to change their equipment, we can't be too high-profile. It seems that if people spend a lot of money, we can take it. This is not good.

I accepted the suggestion of the minister of engineering and put it another way.

In fact, I didn't fully accept this suggestion, but later I found out that it was really the problem of Party A..

The project area is too large, and it is divided into two main control rooms and several sub-control rooms. There are generally no more than 3 fire engines in the sub-control room, but 6 to 8 fire engines should be placed in the main control room.

The more hosts are running, the higher the temperature. To what extent? There is no need to turn on the heating at home in winter. I wear a down jacket, and I have to take it off in five minutes.

Central air conditioning is useless in summer, and the people on duty inside are like water fish.

The communication board in the main control room is easy to break, and the one in the sub-control room is rarely broken.

I'll go to the person in charge of Party A and tell him that the ambient temperature in your main control room is too high and the electronic components are overheated, which causes damage.

The person in charge of Party A asked the engineering department to measure the air outlet temperature of the central air conditioner.

The man took the measuring rod, stuffed the rod head into the air outlet and told me that it was as low as 16 degrees. How can it be low?

I said to him, "Go deeper and reach out to the air conditioner. The temperature is lower. " . What's the use of your measurement? You measure the temperature of the main fire cabinet.

The man blew his beard at me and stared: I haven't heard of it. This is how the temperature of the air conditioner is measured.

I said, well, your central air conditioner is broken. Plus air conditioning.

The man glanced at me sideways and said defiantly, if you say it, you will add it. Do you pay?

I said to him, don't talk to me. Actually, I can't tell you. You can report it truthfully. I'll tell your leader.

The final result was the installation of air conditioner, which proved that the frequency of communication board failure plummeted.

If I dare not speak, I will be tortured to resign, just like my former colleagues. Therefore, when doing things, you must not be timid!