Sad! The body of the man who committed suicide by jumping off the Jieyang Bridge has been found. What are the helplessness and bitterness of adulthood?

Life is: carrying the painful "I" through the world. And existence, existence is happiness. ——? Milan Kundera's "Immortality"

As a child, I always couldn't understand why adults would bend their backs for five buckets of rice, losing their dignity and self-esteem. But the moment we entered the adult world, we realized that in order to make a living and for the people we wanted to protect, we had to give up the so-called dignity and drag our tired bodies forward. What are the helplessness and sadness of adulthood

1. Work pressure

The first big problem faced by adults is that there are millions of college graduates in our country every year, except for a small number of them. Outside of prestigious universities, other graduates face tremendous employment pressure.

In school, I have the protection of my parents and monthly living expenses. Once I graduate, I am faced with the pressure of supporting myself, and everyone who has experienced the helplessness and melancholy of finding a job must know it. We can also often see social news about graduates from Peking University setting up stalls selling watermelons and postgraduate graduates running takeout restaurants. Many people continue to study for a Ph.D. after graduation, partly because they don’t want to face the pressure after leaving society.

2. High prices, high housing prices

Especially the ridiculously high housing prices. It is very difficult to buy a house if you don’t have any financial resources. Housing, betrothal gifts, and getting married have also become very difficult. Without a house, let alone children studying in the future. But now if you get a salary, not many people can afford to buy a house even if they work hard.

You may say that rich people don’t have this kind of helplessness. In fact, it is the same. When you are rich, you will want to buy a bigger house and buy a house in a school district. Because there will always be better school districts and people with more money than you.

3. There is old age at the top, but little pressure at the bottom.

As relatives age day by day, it is inevitable that there will be some minor health problems. When you are sick, you need money to see a doctor, and some medicines are very expensive. Yes, as social security has become more and more complete in recent years, the cost of medical treatment should continue to decrease.

There are also children. From the time the child is born, milk powder, diapers, early childhood education, training classes, etc. are so serious now that the involution is so serious that other children are taking training classes. If they don’t, they will fall behind. Sometimes they will fall behind. Being coerced in this way, children spend less money on food, drink and talk, and most of their money is spent on education.

The point is not about money. There is something wrong with your family, and you need to spend a lot of time. If you are an office worker, it is difficult to take care of everything, and your work will inevitably be affected. The expenses are high and the income is affected. It is difficult not to be anxious.

4. I think the biggest sadness is that there is no end in sight

With the solidification of class, more and more people cannot see hope and feel that this is the case for their whole life. This state is the most helpless, causing people to lack vitality and motivation.

I am so busy every day that I don’t know what I am doing. In life, I just want to solve the problem of life. Without love, without hope, there is a future that cannot be seen and cannot be seen clearly. The collapse of an adult may occur in just a moment.

One second, he was still joking with others, and the next second he turned around, he felt endless loneliness and helplessness.

There is an electric car left on the Jieyang Bridge. The driver's license and slippers are left on the electric car, but the owner is missing. After the incident, the rescue team quickly rushed to the scene for rescue. They dispatched 16 boats and more than 80 people a day. According to the documents left at the scene, the person who fell into the water was a 36-year-old man. After nearly two days of search and rescue work, the man's body was found on the river and was later fished ashore. A young life passed away like this.

I don’t know what kind of difficulties he encountered and chose this method to solve the problem.

There are always moments of powerlessness in a person's life, and this feeling of powerlessness makes people burst into tears.

When this feeling of powerlessness comes, remember that life is the most important. There is no obstacle in life that cannot be overcome. There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain. Among the thousands of lights in the city, there is always someone waiting for you under one light

The helplessness of adults is that they have weaknesses and responsibilities on their shoulders, and they are overwhelmed by these responsibilities. I could no longer straighten my waist, and gradually realized how difficult life was and became more and more undignified.

And our weakness is also our warmest place. Even if we are scarred by life, there are still people waiting for you at home.

We are not just running so that our families can have a better life, so that our children do not have to worry about life early and can grow up happily.

Seeing the smiles of my family makes everything worthwhile.

Even if we lose our dignity, so what.

It is also these weaknesses that make us brave, allow us to wear armor and protect the people we want to protect.

Life is not easy, but you have to do it and cherish it. No one's life is smooth sailing. When you get through each hurdle, you will find that it is not a big deal. Wipe away your tears and life must go on.

When you are tired, stop and take a rest. If you are sad, let out your stress.