What gifts can newcomers give in return for the matchmaker's etiquette?

In marriage, the role of matchmaker is self-evident, and she plays an active role in promoting the marriage of young men and women. Therefore, thanking the matchmaker has become the etiquette that newlyweds must follow. Let him share the joy of getting married, at least the first thank-you letter should express his gratitude. Most couples' "matchmakers" are relatives, friends, colleagues and classmates of the bride and groom. There are three steps to thank them.

Step 1: Once the wedding date is fixed, both men and women should visit each other, formally invite them to the wedding, discuss the marriage with them sincerely, introduce him to the wedding preparations and ask for their opinions. As a sign of respect.

Step 2: Treat them as VIPs at the wedding. And introduce them to relatives and friends to express their gratitude.

Step 3: After marriage, the bride and groom should go to the matchmaker's house to formally express their thanks. This time, we can't go home empty-handed, so we should attach equal importance to the invitation. As for what kind of gift to give, it should be suitable for everyone. If the matchmaker has children, she can give them some schoolbags, stationery and toys. If the matchmaker is a young woman, she can send some perfume and clothes to show her friendliness. If the matchmaker is a literati, she can give it books, pens and other stationery ... gifts can be inexpensive, but "ceremony is light and righteousness is heavy"

In addition, on holidays, the couple can also drop in and prepare some gifts to repay the matchmaker's words. That's how I thank the matchmaker for introducing you to a couple.