Interest is the best teacher.

Science and technology are more and more developed, information is more and more diverse and learning channels are more and more. Some children are learning better and better, and their learning channels are diversified. Some children are getting harder and harder to learn. They always want to play games, and they are rebellious when it comes to learning.

When many parents see me, the first sentence is "Your baby studies well, your baby loves to learn, your baby is obedient, your baby is smart, and my baby-alas". I can only agree.

In fact, my son is also a super playful child.

Love to play begins with playing. I bought a Pinyin card when I was one and a half years old. The patterns of Pinyin cards are all learned while playing, so I can't read Pinyin alone. When I was two years old, I got chicken pox and had a fever, so I got encephalitis. Are colleagues worried that it will affect IQ after treatment? So he taught the first three vowels in the morning, but he didn't follow, just took a look and ran away. I think this child is finished, and he will definitely not study. I tested him this afternoon and got it right. To verify, the next morning, I took him to see the cars on the side of the road. Because he likes all kinds of cars, I wrote the word "car" on the ground and told him that the car running on the opposite road was these two words. He was the same as yesterday, but he took one look and ran away. I tested him this afternoon, and he actually got it right. Later, I became addicted. I went to the playground, the supermarket and went for a walk. When I encounter strange things, billboards, etc. I told him what it was, what it was, what brand of chocolate it was and what brand of lollipop it was. When children see these things, they also want to know, and inadvertently think of the words on them. I never asked him to remember what it was and what it was, but the child did it. He even glanced at the strange place where the bus passed and remembered the names of the landmark buildings or shops in this place. If I go next time, he will tell me "Mom, we were here". Very discriminating. In terms of literacy, although you can't forget everything, it's not difficult. If I had taken out a book: "son, let's start learning, we must remember these words today." Will he learn? He is too young. Later I saw that he was very interested. He reads children's story books and listens to 300 tapes of Tang poetry. After listening too much, he will naturally recite it. I also often play games. I read the first half of the sentence, and he picked up the second half, and he knew a lot of words unconsciously. Primary school students can read story books with pinyin independently.

My son is also a poor writer. I remember that in the first grade, there were few written assignments, maybe a few words, maybe two lines. Every time I write, I cry for a long time, my hands hurt and I feel sleepy, but I just don't want to write. He likes playing games and competitions. We started writing in a competition. I counted dozens, and he wrote a word. If I haven't finished counting, if he finishes writing first, he will win. I count slowly and he wins every time. In this way, after a week or two, I got used to writing unconsciously, and my kung fu was practiced bit by bit. I often get little red flowers posted by my teacher on my exercise book, and I will get used to it if I write too much.

My son doesn't like olympiad, but he likes playing games and walking mazes. In order to cultivate his thinking ability, I bought a first-year book on Olympic Mathematics, almost all of which are mazes, pattern recognition and brain teasers. We just play games to see who is smarter. He is always better than me, so he works hard and is serious, and sometimes he is really better than me. The junior high school is about to start, and the Olympics is a stepping stone. He wants to enroll in classes to study, but he doesn't go out to study, so he wants to learn from me. Can my three-legged cat kung fu teach him to be admitted to five famous schools? There is no chance of winning. I didn't learn olympiad when I was a child. So I listened to several classes with him and got the fifth place in the monthly exam. When the teacher praised me, my interest rose. It seems that the maze recognition mode is not for nothing. If we had said, "We started to learn Olympic Mathematics". I bet he won't learn olympiad from me, because olympiad sounds difficult and consumes too many brain cells.

Children grow up, know a lot, learn a lot, realize the fun of learning knowledge, realize the importance of learning, and talk about learning.

Curiosity is inherent in every child. As long as he doesn't stifle, deny or nag those who study, study, study, do homework, he will be curious. Of course, every child's qualifications are different. Some children learn everything easily, while others do the opposite. Therefore, we should teach students in accordance with their aptitude and not generalize.

At the right time, it can also stimulate children's curiosity, and we must start with what children like. I remember my son just likes puzzles. When he was in kindergarten, he bought a map puzzle of China. Colorful, foamy, and marked with the provincial capital. After he was able to spell it skillfully and quickly, he basically remembered the names, provincial capitals, geographical locations and neighboring provinces of these provinces. In the first grade, he bought a world puzzle and put it together with bumps. After he mastered spelling, he remembered the name, geographical location and national flag of each country. In junior high school, my son is very interested in geography courses.

There was a parent-teacher conference, and we were waiting at the door. A parent said that there is a genius in our class who can draw a map on the blackboard, which is exactly the same as the real thing. I asked her, who is it? She said my son's name. I know this is a genius. It's just a childhood puzzle.

In the third grade, in order to write a good composition, I practiced keeping a diary first. I took him to the park, watched people coming and going in the street, watched fireworks and set off firecrackers. The only requirement is to write down what I saw. Watch me cook when I don't have time to go out. I can describe one thing slowly and methodically. I always have a unique view on the same thing, and I won't follow the same pattern as other students. Review the new words by dictation, improvise and make the new words in lesson 1 into coherent sentences, that is, review the new words and know the usage. Later, my son began to love making up stories and writing limerick. I remember when it rained in Mao Mao in the fourth grade, he made up a poem for me and his father to recite.

In the fifth grade of primary school, I rented a house next to the school. There was a dusty blackboard in the corridor with the periodic table of 20 chemical elements written on it. Going up the stairs, I can't help reciting the periodic table of chemical elements. Of course, the child is very curious and deliberately does not teach him: "Don't worry, you will know when you go to junior high school and learn chemistry." Can he wait until junior high school? In a few days, I learned it by heart. In junior high school, children were particularly interested in chemistry. They remembered the periodic table of chemical elements at the back of the dictionary They are interested in happiness. He secretly wanted to surprise me. Besides, I didn't graduate from junior high school. On the way home from school, I have to recite ancient poems from high school, full of happiness.

Discover the advantages of children, affirm their growth, and don't always look at other people's children. As we all know, the last thing a child wants to hear is someone else's child. Instead of praising other children, it is better to find the bright spots of your own children and encourage praise in time. Almost all parents want their children to get the first place, and only I tell them not to get the top ten. Although in the third grade, Chinese once regressed to a passing state, I still don't agree with him that he studied hard in primary school and got into the top few. Because I feel that my primary school spent a lot of effort to get into the top few, and my grades in junior high school and high school are basically not much better. I have exhausted my potential and have no stamina. If it's fun, it's another matter to accidentally get the top few.

For children who don't like homework, assign less repetitive homework. In the process of dictating new words to children, if there are any words that can't be written, I will mark them with a pencil, and then let the children look at them for two seconds before writing them out. After all the dictation, I will dictate the words I can't write just now again without reviewing them. In this process, he will definitely memorize the word, so there is no such thing as not being able to write it out in the second dictation. Nothing is difficult in the world, if you put your mind to it, you can do everything well without mechanical repetition.

With curiosity and internal motivation, our external force will be effective. We can try to cultivate children's interest and guide them according to their personality, instead of directly telling them what is good and what is not good and what you should learn. Generally speaking, the more you talk, the more you let him learn, and maybe he doesn't like learning, so at the right time, with proper guidance, let him decide what to learn and what not to learn. Adults and children like to do what they like and don't like to do what others force them to do. For example, my 70-year-old mother, who has never been to school and can't read, regrets it very much. To make up for my regret, I began to teach my mother to read. As I grew older, my memory declined. I tried to remember Chinese characters, but I forgot them in a few days. In order to strengthen my memory, every time I go out for a walk, I test my mother when I see the words on the slogan advertisement, so my mother has developed the habit of going out to learn words and asking if I don't know them. A few days ago, I took my mother to wait for the subway. There is a line written on the sign at the entrance of the subway. Maybe I can't help but watch it. Finding someone she didn't know, she asked: What is the word "car"? I showed him the subway track, read the gui, and the little train walked on this track. A few days later, everyone was forwarding COVID-19's itinerary and saw the word "railway" again. My mother knew that she had seen it a few days ago, but she forgot how to read it, so she asked me on WeChat. I told her that the track is the route that COVID-19 walked, just like the railroad track, it is a line. She replied happily: I can't forget it this time. I collect my voice, and if I forget it, I will listen. She will brush a auto quickless, forward a auto quickless works that she thinks are beautiful, and collect them. My mother can know almost all the words of northern Shaanxi folk songs now, because she loves northern Shaanxi folk songs and listens to them. Later, she developed to copy the lyrics herself, and the more she copied, the better. During that time, my mother lived alone, singing and copying words, and accidentally arrived at midnight. The reason why I wrote this paragraph is to say that a person's interest is very strong. Who can force a 70-year-old man to read and sing if it is not because of interest?

Interest is the best teacher, and I will spare no effort to do what I am interested in and get happiness and a sense of accomplishment from it.

A day's life, 95% is habit, 5% is innovation. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate good study habits and living habits in primary school, which has great influence on junior high school and even life. Primary school, leave some room for children to play, play makes children happy, happiness makes children physically and mentally healthy, health makes children smart, stay green, and have no worries about firewood. The real contest is in high school.

Keep curiosity, stimulate curiosity, cultivate good habits and hobbies, and let the children move by themselves, instead of forcing a lying child to finish his homework for a day by nagging and scolding, which will make both of them very tired and eventually reach the point of physical and mental exhaustion.