Proverbs for introducing objects

1. If you don’t get married, you won’t be able to conquer the world.

Comments: This sentence goes without saying, everyone knows that men should get married when they are college students, and women should get married when they are college students. If they don't get married, the world will be in chaos. If you have the desire to get married, do it!

2. There is no good wife in one generation, and there is no good son in three generations.

Comment: This sentence is very important, that is to say, if a man marries the right wife, it will not only be his own happiness, but also his children and grandchildren will benefit from it. Therefore, in the past, I was particularly concerned about the physiology, character, and abilities of my future daughter-in-law, and would go to the girl's home again and again to "check up."

3. It is not advisable to get married too early, as long as it is a good match.

Comment: This seems to be an ancient family planning propaganda slogan. The reality is that leftover men should not be anxious. If you are anxious, you will not be able to eat hot tofu. If you are impatient, you will not find a good home. You cannot get married just for the sake of marriage. It is not a good choice to find someone to start a family. This is often a tragedy.

4. Marry a wife with virtue but not with sex, make friends with your heart but not with wealth.

Comments: Many men don’t do this. When looking for a wife, they all want to have a beautiful face and a slim figure. In fact, this is a taboo in marriage. If a woman is both virtuous and beautiful, she will naturally be blessed in eight lifetimes. But if you choose one, remember - you must choose one with good moral character, otherwise you will be unlucky for the rest of your life.

5. Don’t look at appearance, but look at the heart.

Comments: This sentence has the same meaning as the previous sentence. They both remind you to pay attention to character when looking for a partner, and not just look at whether you are beautiful or not. No matter how beautiful a woman is, she can still be ugly. This is what is meant by the so-called "senior color declines with age".

6. The wife should be young, and the wife should be old.

Comment: This sentence is taboo for many men in modern times. They want to engage in sister-brother love. In fact, from the physiological point of view of men and women, it is better for the wife to be small rather than big. If a woman goes through menopause early, her married life will be difficult in the future. Entering a state of disharmony early can easily lead to emotional crises after middle age. I not only want to marry my younger brothers, but I also want to advise my older sisters. If there is a younger brother who swears that he will love you forever and will not marry you unless you are the one, please avoid him quickly. Most of the vows made by men are lies or temporary passion and cannot last long.

7. When buying a house, look at the walls; when marrying, look at the mother.

Comment: This sentence tells you the skills of choosing a mate. It is a "mother-in-law's law". Tutoring has a great influence on a girl, especially the mother. If the mother is diligent, kind-hearted, and helpful, her daughter will not be that bad no matter how bad she is.

8. When buying pigs, you don’t need to buy a pen. Your wife relies on advice.

Comments: This sentence is the way to harmonize husband and wife. I think it is the common saying that "women should coax". The implication is that as a husband, you should not be mad at yourself emotionally, but should care about your wife. Unhappy Coax when you are angry, and enlighten when you are angry. There is no such thing as an ignorant wife, only a husband who cannot coax his wife.

9. Female senior, boring.

Comments: Superstitious, don’t believe it, I think it’s “a female senior, everything goes as she wants”. But I still believe what is said above: "The wife needs to be young, and the wife needs to be old."

10. The female senior has deceived her ancestors.

Comments: Superstition, don’t believe that although “women are like tigers”, the real tiger is a physiological problem in the future! I hope to hear more of the old saying that "the wife needs to be young and the wife needs to be old". But it doesn't work if the wife is too young. Like Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan, old cows eating young grass are too old.

11. A wicked heart is a thief, and a greedy mouth is a matchmaker.

Comments: As we all know, matchmakers are two-way players. Being a matchmaker means eating and drinking, but there are also times when there are troubles, that is, when there is a relationship problem between a couple, they will scold you as a matchmaker. .