The more you give, the more you have.

Seeing this topic reminds me of the theme day "The more you give, the more you have" released by 20 18 Company. I remember borrowing the slogan of the activity day and the colorful flags used at the scene from the consulting department. At that time, Teacher Qiao told me to write a short message in the afternoon after the activity, and instructed me how to write it and how to dig deep into the meaning of the activity.

Seeing this title again now, what shocked me was not what we did at that time, but what shocked me was the slogan issued by the chairman: why "the more you pay, the more you have"? What is the principle behind it? "Why is giving more satisfying than getting?"

Different people have different social roles. Because of different roles, we are all practicing our fundamental responsibilities. If we put aside all social roles and return to our life itself, do you say that you know what the meaning of your life is? As a group creature, if there is only yourself on the earth, without your kind, is it meaningful to live as a creature without a single person? The answer is that as a kind of existence, a meaning of life itself is to realize your value and significance as a social person through your peers, and you can realize your meaning by helping your peers.

We push everyone's life to the end, and the ending is the same, lying in a small box. Your peers will have an evaluation of you. From a certain point of view, everyone's meaning in life is different. When you are alive, the more happiness you seek for your peers, the more you pay, the higher the evaluation of your peers, and the deeper your thoughts. I think this is one of the explanations that the more you pay, the more you have!

Giving is a psychological process of giving to people and things. And gain is a response to the result of one thing. In other words, the value embodied in paying is in the result, that is, directly entering the present state, which is the input into the game;

The value gained is reflected in the result, which is a summary of the past process, and the result is an unchangeable fact anyway. If we consider the results now, the uncertainty about the future will make people anxious and fearful.

Have you noticed that people can't live in the result at all, but only in the present process? Giving is the best way to enter the present. So in the present process, the more you pay, the more you gain.

Giving and receiving are people's interpretations of self-definition.

The self-explanation of "giver" to "who am I" is "what I have, what I can do, what I can give, I take full responsibility for things!" Reflect your own richness.

The self-explanation of "who am I" by the "reaper" is "what I lack, what I can get, who gives it to me and who is responsible for me", which reflects my poverty and needs.

"Payer" is the psychological model of success, and "winner" is the psychological language of poverty.

According to the law of exchange, the Bible says that "the rich give you more, and the poor take more". The acquired psychological model leads to getting poorer and poorer. Gambling addiction also makes use of this principle, which breeds greater scarcity through acquired psychology and strengthens it repeatedly, leading gamblers to put all their eggs in one basket. The more people pay, the more they have to explain the relationship between self-definition and fate!

"Life is precious, and the price of love is higher. If you are free, you can throw both. "

I once saw a very good movie, which said that before liberation, one of our agents was prevented from marrying his beloved woman several times in order to maintain his identity among the enemies. Lovers finally plunged into the artillery fire before the liberation of Chongqing, and agents finally left the mainland with the evacuation of Taiwan Province Province. Returning to China again, in the 1980s, the agent came to the grave of his girlfriend, touched the epitaph, stood up, and unconsciously danced with his girlfriend before he died. At that moment, she burst into tears.

I didn't know that people would sacrifice their lives and give up love for their own beliefs and for more people of the same kind. People establish a life bond of love with their companions by giving, and gain real freedom by giving.

Only by giving can a person have the present state and the state of doing things. When you can do things wholeheartedly, you will be in a state of peace and satisfaction. What will you do at this moment? Isn't this the true meaning of paying more and having more?

Thank you, Mr. Chairman, for your thought, Mr. Yang's deep-rooted class analysis and Mr. Liu's guidance. Thank you!