Some rural people never treat their guests easily. Do you know why?

It's not that rural people don't treat guests, but that rural people treat guests according to custom. If you invite them, they will be invited, and one or two will not be invited alone. Rural people's hospitality mainly lies in happy events and funerals at home, such as marriage, children over 100 years old, parents' birthdays, family funerals, and building houses and beams. Invite a lot of guests, relatives and friends to sit at more than a dozen tables. It is also customary to treat guests occasionally during the Chinese New Year Festival. However, rural people really don't take turns to treat guests like urban people, such as inviting three or five friends and sitting in restaurants. You invite them today, and I will invite them tomorrow. So why don't farmers treat people easily on weekdays?

First of all, from the perspective of lifestyle. Treating guests is a way of communication, in order to deepen feelings. Rural farmers live in groups. Everyone is either a relative or a neighbor. They are very familiar with each other on weekdays. It is a habit to help each other whenever anything happens. Everyone is very simple, and feelings are maintained by family ties and national feelings. On weekdays, you don't need to invite me to deepen your feelings. Everyone works in the fields, and there is not much social interaction. There is no need to treat and give gifts.

Secondly, rural people are busy with farming on weekdays.

? Thirdly, hotels in rural areas are not as convenient as those in cities. There are no hotels in many rural areas, so it is too inconvenient to go out for more than ten miles to entertain guests at hotels. Call it home to eat, it needs to be prepared in advance, and those who buy food and cut meat must prepare in advance. How can there be such time in the countryside? It's better not to be invited than to go to so much trouble. Rural people treat guests occasionally, only in the first month, and the chickens, ducks and fish at home are ready-made, so there is no need to prepare them now.

Fourth, in the past, rural areas were relatively poor, and they did not worry about food and clothing. Who will treat them on weekdays? Some people like to have fun together, but letting anyone spend their own money usually feels like a burden. Therefore, the way rural people usually get together is called "binding", which means that everyone shares the money equally, which is equivalent to the AA system in cities now. Therefore, from this point of view, AA system was not invented by urban people, but initiated by rural people. At that time, if a pig died in the production team, it would be sold at the asking price. All the bidding, that is, the current bidding line, you say five dollars, that is five dollars each, and whoever pays the highest price in the end will get a return. When bargaining, one person will stand up, and after winning, several companies will be even. In order to be fair, they often hold a big pot in the wild and don't go to any one. When cooked, everyone eats and drinks on the spot, and the remaining soup and meat are shared equally, and the wife and children will follow suit to solve their problems.

In a word, rural people don't treat guests, but they don't treat them casually. This has certain social and historical reasons, mainly due to the lifestyle of rural people.

Decide.

To sum up, rural people don't refuse to treat, but they just don't treat at will. This has certain social and historical reasons, mainly determined by the lifestyle of rural people.