How to write your thoughts after reading "The Secret of Childhood"?

Writing ideas: Briefly introduce the content of the book "The Secret of Childhood", combine it with your own reality, connect it with reality from an adult perspective, and express your feelings and thoughts after reading this book.

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After reading "The Secret of Childhood" by Maria Montessori, the famous Italian educator and reformer, I feel that this book really made me understand a lot, especially in this This book has a lack of understanding for us adults when it comes to children.

When dealing with children's problems, adults gradually become selfish and self-centered, and can only see the child from his point of view, so the final result can only make the relationship between the child and his parents There are more and more misunderstandings.

Sometimes adults should look at things from a child's perspective, affirm them more, and reflect on their own behavior more.

The book says: No matter how much we love our children, from the moment he is born, we instinctively start to be wary of him and protect everything we have, even worthless garbage.

Adults should not think that children are troublemakers. When kids go crazy over trivia and useless stuff, don't think the act of free exploration is childish and try to stop it.

But for children, these explorations are satisfying, fun and enjoyable. For example, children will ask their parents to take things, eat, shoes, etc. They will be completely addicted to these things that are the simplest in the eyes of adults.

After many attempts and repeated explorations, you will appear excited and happy. But adults will not let children explore independently. Instead, they will use the most direct actions to take over the most difficult things in children's eyes. In the end, everything is done by parents.

Children’s growth requires adults’ waiting. For example, when taking a child for a walk and the child stops, the adult should also stop and wait for the child. However, in real life, we adults often push our children to move forward because we don’t want to wait.

Respect children. Maybe some animals do a good job. For example, a baby elephant walks with a group of elephants. When they are tired, if the baby elephant stops, the elephant will stop and wait. Seeing this, we should respect the growth speed of our children.

I think adults should really admit their mistakes, and we really shouldn't interfere too much in children's growth. Sometimes, adults' "standing on the sidelines" may not be a good choice for children.

Looking at the problem from a child's perspective, my doubts were answered. I learned a lot of theoretical knowledge from this book. It seems that there is indeed a need to read more.