Learn how to get along with others

1． We must recognize and respect the differences between people

As the old saying goes, there are hundreds of people, all kinds of people. Everyone is an independent individual and has his own unique characteristics. When dealing with interpersonal relationships, you must be clearly aware of this. Do not force others to be consistent with you, and do not exclude or attack others because they oppose you. Only by recognizing and respecting the differences between people and knowing how to tolerate can you deal with complex situations. It is a sign of high emotional intelligence to be able to handle interpersonal relationships with ease, rather than easily making enemies for oneself, or making wrong social behaviors due to subjective emotions.

2． Be good at finding and even creating "cries"

People have differences, but they must also have similarities. Differences must be recognized and respected, and similarities must be carefully searched for. Create a buzz, and in this way, you will naturally get along with the other person better. As the saying goes, like-mindedness means unity. Whether you can handle the relationship well with the other party depends to a large extent on whether you can create a "complaint" in the similarities between each other. In social activities, if we want to get to know someone, the best way is to find the most common points with each other as soon as possible, seek common ground while reserving minor differences, and quickly generate a psychological "complaint" to weaken the other person's rejection. and alienation.

3. Be sincerely interested in the other person and express concern

If you want to handle interpersonal relationships well, indifference will definitely not work. No one will have a good impression of an indifferent person, so you must learn to treat others sincerely. Being interested not only includes other people's things, but also the person himself. It should reflect your enthusiasm and concern and concern for the other person. For example, you should consciously pay attention to the other person's life and work, see if the other person needs help, and help if you can. If you can't help, give an idea, or just verbally express your concern, which is also good. In addition, try to remember the other person's important day and send congratulations or comfort in time.

4. Respect each other’s privacy

In social activities, privacy rights cannot be violated. No matter how good your relationship is, you must respect each other’s privacy, resist your curiosity, do not ask, and do not inquire about. Once you ask a question that silences the other person, you should stop talking in time, tolerate the other person's silence, and avoid all kinds of inquiring.

5. Discover more the advantages of others and pay less attention to the shortcomings of others

Everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses. In social activities, we should discover more the advantages of others and pay less attention to the shortcomings of others, such as For a chronic person, you should see that he is considerate and patient, instead of being procrastinating and inefficient in doing things. In this way, no matter who you get along with, it will be easy to achieve a harmonious atmosphere and it will be beneficial to each other.