Have you ever encountered the three most annoying people in the workplace?

1. Being a ghost in person

In front of someone, that is, in front of you, either laughing and joking as if they are harmless,

or smiling Like the spring breeze blowing on your face, kind and sincere.

But don’t turn your head, because if you turn your head, you will fall out.

When you turn your back, you become a ghost.

Use the words I got from you, some of the inner thoughts you told him because of your sincerity,

Put it out to show off to everyone, a picture that understands you very well, and even You play around with the applause,

There are also some, because in the eyes of others, you have a good relationship,

so he can arrange you at will, even if it is to slander you, because you Usually "seems to be close"

Everyone is willing to believe that the you he says is the real you.

Actually, maybe your relationship is not that good,

Or maybe you are willing to believe in him, or it is because of your belief that you will be with him.

Say something from your heart that you won’t tell anyone else.

However, you will understand the sinister nature of people in the workplace.

It turns out that some people are human in front of you, but behind them they have a grimace:

They say people’s hearts are sinister, but that’s actually true.

2. He is not bad either

In the workplace, there is a very strange kind of person.

The definition I give to this kind of person is "he is not bad either" bad".

The characteristics of this kind of people are very interesting.

You sometimes feel that they have bad intentions towards you, but there is no substantial evidence to prove that their bad intentions are real.

When you get close, you feel like they are deliberately keeping a distance from you.

It’s not that they hate you, it’s just that they are like everyone else.

Sweeping around their home The snow in front of the door, looking at the frost on other people's tiles.

You originally thought that this was the most perfect face-saving relationship,

but you will always find that they are rejecting you intentionally or unintentionally,

It is true that you still have no evidence to tell yourself that they are indeed malicious towards you,

But it is this kind of disgusting little behavior that keeps you unable to let go of your feelings towards them. Be wary,

You also know that it is actually good to keep some distance between people.

Because we are separated by a distance, everyone does their own things and has their own ideas.

There is a little distance and it seems relaxed.

But you find that you can always catch a glimpse of their eyes through your wall,

You don’t know why they are always peeking into your life,

I don’t even know why I occasionally hear them whispering next door,

Whispering about you,

The only thing you know is the old saying:

There is no good thing in carrying someone behind your back.

I call this kind of person "he is not bad",

Of course, he is not good either:

Don't underestimate those who are good to you. People who mean no harm, but spy on you and talk about you behind your back,

They are not curious about you,

but they think you are "curious".

3. The louder the voice, the bigger the idea

Speaking quietly is a sign of good quality, so in some situations where silence is needed,

We can see Get a sign like this:

No loud noises.

Practical ideas are a matter of thought. People who think too big often make people think that this person is too conceited and a bit exaggerated.

Just talking about one of these performances will often make people frown.

Reluctantly accepting it can only be said to be a laugh.

But once the two flavors are mixed, it is easy to produce a disgusting taste.

I have a loud voice, and my speech is unreliable.

I don’t know how to hide my clumsiness, and I especially emphasize my own clumsiness.

If in public, For example, during a train journey,

It can be regarded as a kind of human fireworks,

But if it is a place like the workplace, you will find such human fireworks,

The burning is too choking, and the burning makes people feel disgusted:

Some people have a habit of keeping it alone in a very private space.

In fact, it is not a problem. After all, people There is nothing wrong with having some personal quirks,

but if these personal quirks are exposed in public,

it will appear very inappropriate and expose the fact that one is of low quality.