There is a kind of maturity called against one's will.

At the handover ceremony, the new leader talked about the great contribution of the outgoing leader to the unit, the preferential treatment for his subordinates, his conscientious work, and his easygoing tolerance. All flattering words can't describe this wise old leader SHEN WOO. The successor cursed the corpse of the outgoing person in his heart, being a vegetarian, doing nothing and occupying the toilet. Then why did the successor tell these lies? This is political wisdom and the need of work. If you don't say so, how can the face of the outgoing person be saved and how can the new work be carried out? Although these lies are false, they will keep people from tearing their faces, and we can meet again in the future.

Relatives have lived at home for many days and have to prepare good wine and food every day. This relative is really blind, the food is not delicious, the air conditioner is not enough, and the bed is too hard. Deep down, you really can't stand this man's picky and no eyebrows. But when he says he is leaving, you will smile and say that you will stay for a few more days. Don't you hate him so much and keep him? But the opposite is true. The opposite is disgusting. Because the maintenance of family ties requires patience, especially when someone asks for help. If you don't tell lies, you will be a traitor in your family and you will be called forgetful.

I don't want to attend a friend's party, but I can't say it directly. I have to find an excuse to refuse. Something has happened at home recently, and I suddenly need to work overtime. If you don't want to, you don't want to. Why make up excuses? Say it directly, break a friend's heart, find an excuse and give a friend a step down. Although it is an excuse, it can leave room for the other party.

This dress of yours is really nice. In fact, you think dirt is at home. You seem to have lost a lot of weight, but you have obviously gained a circle; Your child is really smart, but you obviously think the child is too naughty. We often tell these lies without feeling guilty. Why? Because the sign of maturity is to say some lies, although it is against one's will, the relationship between people will not be embarrassing, there will be no contradictions, it will not make the other side feel disgusted and reduce mutual resistance.

Telling some false stories against our will proves that we have grown up, because we know that leaving room for others is a kind of respect. We don't expose other people's lies, and we don't tell each other's mistakes, so that we understand each other and the other party will appreciate you.

Telling some harmless lies, praising naughty children for being smart and fat people for being young are all good opportunities to ease the embarrassing atmosphere and narrow the distance. Sometimes these lies can remind others to pay attention to their behavior, and they are also a kind reminder.

Tell some lies, lead wise SHEN WOO, and lead forward. Although it is flattering, it is enough to satisfy the vanity of the other party and will not make the other party too embarrassed.

On the other hand, those who are ashamed of lying and always call a spade a spade, although seemingly straightforward, can be said to be ignorant and have bad interpersonal relationships. Everyone will stay away from him, because it is common to lose face with such people.

Lying hides some of our thoughts and is suspected of hypocrisy, but compared with being outspoken, lying can make us better protect ourselves and get along with others. Although this maturity is smooth, it is precisely because of this little smoothness that there will not be too much friction between people; Although a little sophisticated, it can also make us more sophisticated in this not-so-simple world.

It's harmless to tell a little lie, but it's very effective