Son, read the book by yourself.

I lived in a room with my parents when I was a child. When I wake up, I always see a word hanging on the bedroom wall,' There is no end to learning, and there is no end to learning. I didn't understand the meaning of this sentence at that time. Today, in an age of no doubt, seeing my son's efforts, I have a different understanding of this sentence.

Because of the epidemic in Shanghai, children's schools began to take online classes. Since it is an online class, it is the same everywhere, so yesterday the child flew back to Zhengzhou from Shanghai with two big bags of books on his shoulders. On the first day of online class today, I got up at 5: 50 and started doing morning exercises in the yard. At night 10 and 19, my son is still trying to finish his homework. During the day, the children ran and read in the morning, attended eight in-class classes and two-hour extracurricular history classes 1 class, wrote in-class and extracurricular assignments in Chinese, mathematics, English, history and other subjects, and recited English texts. Even so, the child still said, "Dad, I need to use my mobile phone in class today. Sometimes I can't help watching. Tomorrow, my grandparents won't have to be afraid of affecting my class. They can sit beside me. It may be better to have external supervision and learning. "

After listening to the child's words, as a father, my heart is particularly contradictory. On the one hand, I feel sorry for the 15-year-old child. He has a high-intensity and high-intensity study schedule from morning till night. I want him to leave some space, not work hard. On the other hand, I especially agree with the child's own reflection, and want him to have that kind of calm and hard-working state, better and more self-disciplined. I don't know if all parents have my mentality, caring about their children and asking for them without a bottom line. Laugh at yourself, this tiger dad mentality makes me very disgusted with myself. However, after abandoning it, you can also find yourself a step down. Philosophically speaking, contradiction is the unity of opposites. In children's view of learning, the contradiction between love and expectation is out of love, hoping that children will have a better life.

My child, please believe that every success is watered by hard work and struggle. There is an old saying: "The blade comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom is bitter and cold." President Mao Zedong likes reading, and half of the bed where he slept in his later years was full of books. Obama said that when he was a child, his mother woke him up at 4 o'clock in the morning to study.

My child, please believe that if you suffer now, your future life will be wonderful. There is also an old saying, "You can only be a master after suffering" and "After ten years of cold window, no one asked, you became famous in one fell swoop". The Beijing Winter Olympics and Paralympics have just come to an end, and we have seen the highlights of athletes on the podium. We also deeply know that every winner has made extremely hard efforts in the training.

Please believe, my child, you don't need to learn for anyone, and you don't need to care about other people's feelings. You just need to revel in your daily study as you do today.