Why is it important to learn to be a good person?

Chinese people like to say: "Be a good person first before you have to do it." So I would like to ask: Is it more important to do things or to be a good person? The most important thing is to learn to be a good person first, to be a kind and humble person, and to care about others, including teachers, classmates, and neighbors; his mother focused on cultivating his independent character and asked him to wash his underwear and underwear since he was a child. Socks, tidying up one's own room, helping parents with housework, etc.

1. All aspects of life seem to be very positive. For example, this parent said: "Be a kind and humble person and care about others, including teachers, classmates, and neighbors."

p>

2. Dan Zeyao often felt the other side of it:

(1) Regardless of right and wrong, working together in harmony, gaining a "mass base" - forming competitiveness, and then attacking opponents and dissidents

(2) In fact, the most important thing is to do things, do things seriously, don’t do things randomly, and do things well, which is the basis for contributing to social progress

(3) Being able to be a good person is actually "smart" and "the way to be smart" - and then prevent yourself from suffering

(4) People who only know how to do things but not how to be a person may often become "old scalpers". If you don’t get anything out of your efforts, you will indeed suffer a lot

(5) Why do Chinese people emphasize so much on “being a human being”? Mainly due to the environment of "people rule", only if you can be a good person and please everyone, you will be "easy to mix"

(6) People who can "be a good person" are very suitable to survive in a country like China , people who can "do things" may often only be suitable to survive in developed countries such as the United States and Canada where interpersonal relationships are simple.

(7) We see in life that the honest workers and farmers, in addition to knowing how to work hard and remain unknown, often do not know much about "being a human being", which is indeed a great disadvantage to themselves, but For society, it has contributed a lot!

(8) When a parent keeps saying that "the most important thing for children is to learn to be a good person first", what reminds me is not "be a kind and humble person, care about others, and others will be kind". Including teachers, classmates, and neighbors.” On the contrary, the ones that are easier to associate with are “devil incarnate,” “sleek in both directions,” “sophisticated,” “specialized in speculation,” “appreciated by leaders,” and “climb straight up”! ! Why? ——Because when I was in elementary, middle school and college, and when I saw the people around me, many class cadres were like this: they had goals and plans. . . . Viewed positively, this is “professionalism”! But it doesn’t seem normal for children to have too much “professionalism” mixed in with them.

(9) According to Zeyao's "theory": "Production" is an "economic" activity that pursues "efficiency" and requires "science" and people's intelligence and IQ; "distribution" is "Political" life, the pursuit of "fairness", requires "democracy", people's shrewdness and emotional intelligence. So what is certain is: "Being a good person" actually means being "emotionally intelligent" and "savvy" - and then being loved by all parties and gaining a mass base - and this is precisely "participating in distribution" and "obtaining influence and positional power" ”, the basis for “getting promoted and making a fortune”!

(10) Engage in production and "fight" with nature to develop your IQ. Engage in distribution, "fight" with others, and develop your emotional intelligence! The latter is exactly the way to survive in the Chinese environment.

(11) No wonder, people always say that "the most important thing is to learn to be a human being first" - the article here is very profound! It seems that it is not as simple as you see "be a kind and humble person and care about others, including teachers, classmates, and neighbors"! Or in other words: "Be a kind and humble person and care about others, including teachers, classmates, and neighbors." It's just a means!