A Henan bride’s younger brother raised a domineering banner and sparked heated discussions. What is the focus of debate among netizens?

Recently, at a wedding in a village in Henan Province, my country, three eye-catching banners appeared, with the following content written on them: ?My sister is arrogant and domineering, you have to stop?, ?In the future At home, you cook and you wash the dishes?, "If you are not happy when you go back to your parents' house, you wait for me?" It is obvious that these banners of the younger brother are specifically targeted at the brother-in-law, but some netizens think it is inappropriate. These words are relatively childish, and The groom's family's face was not considered, but many netizens thought it was just a joke, just for fun, and there was no need to go online.

First of all, in fact, at many weddings, the speeches made by brothers, sisters or brothers’ best friends are of a cruel nature. For example, when some sisters get married, their brothers will warn them at the wedding. ?Brother-in-law?, many netizens were very moved after watching it, and felt that the relationship between siblings is very deep, but this is only looking at the problem from the perspective of the woman.

But if we look at the problem from the man’s perspective, we will find that the views we get are completely different. There must be many family members and relatives of the man on the wedding day. Such speeches and banners may cause confusion among the man’s family and relatives. If you are dissatisfied, your relatives may use this matter to tease the man in the future, so it is indeed inappropriate to do so.

Secondly, a large number of netizens still think that there is no problem with this move. After all, these words are all made in jest. The younger brother must also wish his sister well. At the same time, he said that there is someone behind the sister's back? That is not the case. A real "declaration of war", so these netizens feel that criticizing this behavior is unnecessary.

Finally, for this debate, it is completely a matter of the public saying that the public is right and the mother-in-law saying that the mother-in-law is right. Both views are correct, but everyone does not think about the problem from different angles. However, if the bride and the groom both If you don't mind these things and have already said hello in advance, then this will add some fun to the wedding. My brother can definitely do this.