How can you refuse to drink on the wine table?

In order not to hurt my feelings, I drink; I want to drink a little so as not to harm my health.

If he still advises you to drink at this time: "I would rather hurt my body than my feelings", this is irrational behavior. You can answer, "We consume rationally and drink rationally. Stay half awake and half drunk. I am a person who doesn't want to be hurt physically and emotionally. I can't reflect my feelings without my body. For feelings, I drink, and for health, I drink a little. "

2.

A gentleman talks but doesn't do it.

He wants to propose a toast to you. You can use it skillfully. Please enter the urn. You ask him, "Do you want to be a gentleman or a villain? Please answer this question first. " If he says "the reason is to be a gentleman", you can say "the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" and replace wine with tea, or "the gentleman talks, but you drink" and invite him to drink. If he says "willing to be a villain", you say "I don't drink with villains", and then even if you don't drink, he can't help it.

3.

As long as the feelings are in place, you will be intoxicated without drinking.