How to tell whether a person is gay or not?

Secretly pay attention to whether his eyes stay on the opposite sex or the same sex!

You should know more about homosexuality first.

The so-called homosexuality refers to the phenomenon of satisfying sexual desire through the same sex. Homosexuals are often attracted to the same sex. This attraction is both mental and physical. They will fall in love and have sex. Homosexuality is a lifestyle. Whether homosexuality is morbid is still inconclusive, but most people think that exclusive homosexuality in front of the opposite sex is often morbid. Although I deny homosexuality and think it violates the natural laws of human life, as long as it doesn't hurt others and I don't think it should be treated, it doesn't have to be regarded as a scourge. However, in consultation and treatment, it is found that homosexual patients often suffer from one or more mental diseases, at least those mental diseases should be treated.

Homosexuality can be seen at all ages, but it is more common among unmarried teenagers. Western countries are more common than eastern countries. According to statistics, homosexuality accounts for about 5% among men and 3% among women. Some belong to double love, that is, having sex with the same sex and the opposite sex. Homosexuality is a cross-regional and cross-cultural phenomenon, which exists in people of all races, classes, nationalities and religions.

So far, there is no definite theory about the causes of homosexuality. It is generally believed to be related to the following factors: (1) Genetic factors. It is found that homosexuals are far more common in identical twins than in identical twins, and homosexuals may be inherited from their mothers. (2) Endocrine factors. People who hold this view believe that the imbalance of gonadal secretion is the cause of homosexuality. Testosterone in blood and urine of gay men is less than that of heterosexual control group, while testosterone in urine of lesbians is more than that of heterosexual control group. At the same time, the number of sperm in gay men is less, and that in abnormal sperm is more. But I think it may also be the psychology and behavior of homosexuals that lead to the change of hormone levels. The experimental results show that the results of testosterone supplementation for gay men can not arouse his heterosexual behavior, but only increase the intensity of sexual desire in homosexual behavior. (3) Psychological factors. If the normal sexual psychological development is influenced by bad family or environment, the mature heterosexual internal drive will be blocked or distorted. The influence of family is very obvious in the occurrence of homosexuality. A remarkable feature of gay mothers is that they are extremely close to their gay sons. Freud believed that this caused children's narcissism, but I think it was the rejection of love that made them worship their mothers too much, made other women look down on them, and failed to communicate with women slightly, thus strengthening their pressure rejection of the opposite sex. A weak father will also prevent his son from getting a suitable role model. In order to be obedient to his son, he often opposes rude and reckless behavior and encourages more feminine activities. Living in an environment with more men, or playing with the opposite sex often, or being treated as the opposite sex, may hinder children's role identity and make their personality and lifestyle masculine. Fear and nervousness about the opposite sex. (4) Economic factors may play a certain role in the occurrence of homosexuality, especially in men, who are prone to homosexual tendencies because of economic poverty, inability to get married or potential tendency to evade male responsibility.

Homosexuality is also closely related to the following factors: ① Social atmosphere. Among the indigenous people in the Malay archipelago in the southwest Pacific. Young people are encouraged to masturbate to get pleasure as a substitute for heterosexual intercourse. For men, homosexual relationships are socially acceptable. At some point in his life, almost every man has been deeply homosexual. Such activities can be openly discussed in society and regarded as normal things like masturbation and marital sexual intercourse. Swan in North Africa generally has gay men. Noble Swann men borrow sons from each other and openly talk about their male sex, just like talking about sex with women. Both married and unmarried men engage in homosexual activities according to customs. If a Swan doesn't have sex with other men, he will be regarded as a freak. ② Effectiveness of contraceptive measures. Just to satisfy the pleasure of sexual organs, but afraid of pregnancy. ③ Sexual openness. During the Ming and Qing Dynasties, homosexual activities in China reached a small climax, which was caused by the government's ban on prostitution. However, it must be noted that this is only the difference between concept, dominance and invisibility. Homosexuality will not decrease because of a society's strict negative attitude towards it, nor will it increase because of the tolerance of social norms. ④ Sex ratio between men and women. The imbalance between men and women will lead to the emergence of homosexual customs and gradually rationalize people. In some tribes in northeast Siberia, there are often some men who are concubines of other adult men. ⑤ Sex discrimination. In particular, gender discrimination against women will lead to a large number of gay men. 6. Weak constitution is one of the causes of gay men. ⑦ narcissistic tendency. Homosexuals like same-sex couples because they are more like themselves than heterosexual couples.

People have a lot of prejudice against homosexuality. For example, homosexuals tend to be heterosexual. In fact, according to the questionnaire data, most homosexuals do not like the female characteristics of men, but prefer the male characteristics. Gay men rarely imitate female characteristics, and some men who imitate female characteristics are not gay.

Discrimination against homosexuality. In the Qing dynasty, under the rule that male and female actors were not allowed to perform on the same stage, the male host was outside and the female host was inside. As a result, the profession of actor has become the best outlet for homosexuals and transvestites.

As long as there is sex, there is sex, whether it happens between the sexes or between the same sex. Homosexuals' sexual behavior also gains sexual pleasure through direct stimulation such as rubbing and squeezing sexual organs (mainly external genitalia). Because sexual organs are sensitive to touch, friction, squeezing and other stimuli, they can get sexual satisfaction regardless of whether the stimulus source is themselves, the opposite sex or the same sex, so it is possible for homosexuals to have sex.

Oral sex and masturbation are the most commonly used sexual behaviors in homosexual behavior. The sexual behavior of gay men and lesbians is very different. Lesbians usually have AIDS to simulate their penis. The sexual behavior of gay men is usually accompanied by anal sex.

In homosexual sex, the boundary between preparation and main behavior is not as clear as that of heterosexual sex. Homosexuals are more effective sexual partners because they know each other's sexually sensitive parts from themselves.

People have the right to freely choose their way of life. As long as it doesn't hurt others, others have no right to interfere. But from the current judicial point of view, homosexual acts are illegal, mainly hooliganism.

The suppression of homosexuality has no natural basis and is the product of culture and times. Whether homosexuality is moral or not is also based on the mainstream moral concept in a specific time and space. In recent years, the gay movement has achieved certain success in some foreign regions. Homosexuality in China is gradually becoming tolerant. With the further development of society and the further opening of consciousness, the restrictions will be gradually relaxed.

Since homosexuality is not accepted in contemporary China, homosexuality can only improve the environment in two ways. One is cultural change, which can be quite difficult. Then it is to correct homosexual behavior, increase interest in the opposite sex, and let them move in ex-gay.

The prevention of homosexuality should start from childhood, and when they are found to have some vague and unconscious homosexual tendencies, they should strengthen education and guidance. Those with special family background should be dealt with in time. For adult homosexuals, psychotherapy can help them find out the reasons, establish a correct understanding, and give appropriate guidance in heterosexual communication to promote their behavior changes. Some homosexuals should be encouraged to marry the opposite sex as much as possible, and make up for the past trauma through normal sexual life and pleasure experience after marriage.

The existing treatment methods for homosexuality are not completely effective. The success rate of standardized psychoanalysis therapy is 25%-35%, while the success rate of electroshock therapy or vomiting therapy is only 50%.

Although China redefined the standard of mental illness, homosexuality is no longer classified as pathological, but homosexuality is an act or phenomenon that goes against the needs of human development, so it is always a shadow, which is indisputable. The so-called homosexuality refers to the phenomenon of satisfying sexual desire through the same sex. Homosexuals are often attracted to the same sex. This attraction is both mental and physical. They will fall in love and have sex. Homosexuality is a lifestyle. Whether homosexuality is morbid is still inconclusive, but most people think that exclusive homosexuality in front of the opposite sex is often morbid. Although I deny homosexuality and think it violates the natural laws of human life, as long as it doesn't hurt others and I don't think it should be treated, it doesn't have to be regarded as a scourge. But in consultation and treatment, I found that gay people often have one or more mental diseases, at least those mental diseases are to be treated.