Is the divorce rate high among couples in different places (4 reasons may increase the divorce rate)

Nowadays, the development and construction of rural areas are getting better and better. While a series of changes have taken place in rural areas, people's attitudes towards marriage have also changed. I remember that in the past, the divorce rate in rural areas was generally not high, and everyone still valued the family. But now, with the development of society, there are more and more divorced men and women in rural areas. Every year, some couples divorce for some practical reasons.

It is understood that; The cost of marriage in rural areas is very high. Coupled with the unstable marriage relationship and insufficient men and women, many young people now have the idea of not getting married or buying a house. Most importantly, after the divorce rate rises, most young people feel that their marriage is unstable now, and even if they spend money to marry a daughter-in-law, they may not be able to live well with themselves. Besides, people nowadays are too realistic. If their married life is not very good, they will step into the hall of divorce sooner or later, leading to an increase in young people with unmarried thoughts in rural areas.

Nanfeng found that the divorce rate in rural areas has been on the rise in recent years, and the post-80 s and post-90 s couples have also become the main force of divorce. Then the question is, what causes the divorce rate in rural areas to rise?

Reasons for the rising divorce rate

First, in rural areas, after the phenomenon of more men and fewer women appeared, people also put forward many new requirements for marriage. In addition to buying a house in the city, it is also inevitable for young people to buy a car and give a bride price. However, after the cost of marriage in rural areas increased, many male friends had to borrow money or borrow money to get married. The high cost of marriage also leads to many problems in married life of couples. Over time, while the quality of life declined, the contradiction between husband and wife deepened, and some couples could not stand the test and eventually entered the divorce hall.

Secondly, in rural areas, most couples live in two places. After marriage, the wife has been living in her hometown for the education of her children, and the pillar of the family can only go out to work in her hometown to make a living. Long-term separation between the two places has made the relationship between husband and wife weaker and weaker. Without emotional communication, it is inevitable to quarrel over some trivial things in daily life. There are many contradictions, and the distance between husband and wife has also gone far. Finally, because I couldn't go on, I ended up divorced.

Thirdly, it is understood that in real life, many couples divorce because of extramarital affairs. Now the outside world is very tempting, and the hard life has been too long. Everyone has an idea. Some couples work outside and meet people who are better than their husbands or wives, so they can't resist the temptation and start a family with a third party.

Fourth, young people's ideas and attitudes towards marriage have changed, and their attitudes towards marriage have become more and more sloppy. Some young people divorce because they pursue freedom of marriage excessively. To put it mildly, they are too indulgent and think their young people have capital. Even if they find their first marriage unhappy, they still have a chance to find happiness. Therefore, when the husband and wife divorce, both sides are not calm enough and think that they can live together, but they can't. It is precisely because of this idea of young people that the divorce rate in rural areas has soared.

Of course, the above four reasons are just Nanfeng's personal views and opinions. During the communication with other villagers, some farmers bluntly said: "Husband and wife live in different places" is the main reason for the rising divorce rate.

In fact, the reason that this villager said is not unreasonable. According to the author's investigation, many couples in rural areas will divorce because of the separation of the two places, and finally they can't resist the temptation of the outside world to cheat and divorce. Now everyone attaches great importance to this problem. Some farmers will take their wives when they go out to work, and their children will stay at home to take care of their grandparents.

Of course, in view of the increasing phenomenon of divorce in various places, China has also put forward many new divorce measures in the newly formulated civil code. According to the author's understanding, the cooling-off period of divorce began to be implemented after the formal implementation of 202 1 1 Civil Code. According to the regulations, the "30-day cooling-off period" is a requirement that divorced couples must abide by. This is also to prevent people from rashly divorcing without thinking because of excessive pursuit of freedom of marriage. After the establishment of the "cooling-off period", it can not only alleviate the divorce problem, but also leave room for divorced couples. During the cooling-off period, properly handle conflicts and avoid direct divorce due to impulse.

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In a word, marriage is no joke. Although China now gives everyone the right to freedom of marriage, whether a couple can live a happy life involves many issues. When choosing to live together, husband and wife should understand and tolerate each other. Once you have the idea of divorce, no matter who you form a family with, there will be some contradictions in your life, and it is easy to have the idea of divorce. In the end, children will be hurt by their actions, and parents will be worried about it. What do you think of this? Do you think these are the reasons?