Analysis: How to adjust the unfavorable marriage of five elements and eight characters

Marriage is not smooth to a certain extent, which can be called "marriage disaster". The scope of marital disaster seems narrower, while the scope of marital unhappiness is relatively larger. Because a bad marriage means that you can't find a partner, you are frustrated in love, you get married late, you are unhappy after marriage, and finally you get divorced. And "marriage disaster" generally refers to divorce in the traditional sense. So, how can we "crack" the marriage disaster or adjust the marriage? Bottom line: Don't be superstitious, plan and adjust in all directions. There are many ways for the ancients to adjust the unhappiness of marriage, and the commonly used ones are as follows: 1. Adjust each character's favorite position from your favorite position (to your advantage). If you can find this position and "Taobao", maybe you can find a suitable marriage partner. Similarly, if the marriage is not smooth, you can also strengthen the feng shui in this direction. At this time, those superstitious feng shui methods may play a certain role. 2. Marrying people who belong to the same genus and have contradictions with each other has a high probability of divorce. However, people who belong to the same family or the same family often care about each other. Take Qi Mei as an example, the probability of divorce is very small. Therefore, it is also a good way to adjust the unsatisfactory marriage. It is more effective to start with choosing love. (Corresponding zodiac signs: rabbit dog, horse sheep, rat cow, cow pig, dragon and phoenix. Competing zodiac: horse, sheep, mouse, snake, tiger, dragon, rabbit, chicken, dog, pig, monkey) 3. Marry someone who has been married. If the marriage in the eight characters is obviously not smooth, you can marry a divorced person. This is a marriage for me, but it is two marriages for the other party. Generally speaking, this marriage can also be regarded as two marriages, so avoid a second marriage. Objectively speaking, people who have experienced marriage setbacks will treat marriage correctly and calmly and accumulate some mature experience, thus cherishing the hard-won marriage. 4. People who have a sheep's blade day in the eight characters can marry people who also have a sheep's blade day. The reason may be that the two sides are bound and restricted each other, and second marriage may also be avoided. 5. Late marriage The ancient people put forward the limit that late marriage should be considered after 28 years old. At this age, the work career is basically stable, and the outlook on life and love is relatively mature. I have experienced all the setbacks. The so-called "learning from into the pit" is more sensible. Treat and choose marriage, then it is possible to avoid the formation of marriage disaster. Nowadays, there are many people who get married late in some developed cities such as Beijing and Shanghai, and there are also many people who don't get married before the age of 35. The main reason is that people's knowledge level and marriage concept have changed greatly. They no longer regard marriage as the only major event in their youth, but spend this golden time on their careers, studies and hobbies. 6. Adjust the favorite color of each constellation from the color (suitable for you). Color is the direct embodiment of the five elements, and color can affect people's mood and psychological state. If you can wear this favorite color when dating, you can adjust the sexy mood of two people, enhance feelings and increase the possibility of success. Similarly, if there are cracks in the feelings of two people, they can also adjust the space and color of clothes to achieve a pleasant effect, which is also conducive to emotional marriage. 7. Psychological Adjustment Although there was no psychology in ancient times, in fact, the ancients used psychological adjustment consciously or unconsciously very early. First of all, we should start from ourselves, adjust our mentality, establish a correct view of love and marriage, and avoid falling in love. In a sense, "seeing through the world of mortals" is not negative, but knowing ourselves and knowing ourselves, so as to deal with it calmly. In love and marriage, giving and forbearing may be a virtue, but blindly giving and forbearing may encourage each other's laziness and domineering, lose the balance of marriage, and form an unequal emotional marriage on the surface, which has doomed the foundation of failure. The ancients said "cultivate one's morality", which means that cultivate one's morality is the most important, followed by cultivate one's morality. If we cultivate a normal heart, a calm heart and a compassionate heart in love and marriage, maybe we can avoid an unfortunate ending. Therefore, the key to marriage adjustment is subjective adjustment and psychological adjustment. Therefore, some masters suggested that people should believe in Buddhism more, practice more, and do more good deeds and accumulate virtue, which does have certain truth and function. 8. Adjust items, including feng shui supplies, sex ornaments and five-element ornaments. Sometimes it is found that some couples often quarrel because an item in the bedroom belongs to the owner or they like to make mistakes with the five elements. If someone is a rabbit, but sleeps in a golden phoenix bed decorated with a picture of a phoenix, he often gets restless and angry. Others are pigs, but they put a snake ornament nearby. As a result, strange bedfellows and his wife turned against each other. There are also some five elements who are jealous of Jin Ximu, but put the metal halberd in the bedroom. As a result, Jin Kemu is powerful and "kills each other". Everyone, every couple's five elements are different, so we should adjust them according to different people. Therefore, it is best for couples to adjust some items that are suitable for both parties to use the five elements and are compatible with their genus.