How to improve one's humanistic quality and self-cultivation

Some people say: life is like porridge, it is better to be sick and stay hot; It is also said that life is like soup, and there are four benefits after frying; It is also said that life is like medicine, and slow fire and slow stew taste miscellaneous; "forbearance" is the deepest taste of life, and only after suffering can sweetness be ushered in. People's success is not achieved overnight, but step by step. Butterflies can only break out of their cocoon if they have survived the bondage; Plum blossoms can only stand proudly if they survive the cold winter. People, after suffering, can gallop the world.

Endurance is the constant precipitation of things that are not satisfactory in life. Nine times out of ten, the key is "forbearance". But "forbearance" is not for enterprising, but for depositing and accumulating energy. Some people are patient and successful; But some people put up with it and disappear. After four years of cooking, bamboo grows 3 cm, and in the fifth year, it grows 30 cm every day, and finally it can reach 15 m high. However, how many people did not survive the 3 cm?

When Zeng Guofan was a teenager, his talent was extremely poor. Compared with Zuo, who is one year younger than him, he is 14 years old. Li Hongzhang, 17-year-old scholar, has a low starting point. But his achievements have surpassed many people, which is due to his diligence and persistence. It is not difficult to cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's sexuality. The difficult thing is to persist for a lifetime and make a little progress every day. It is precisely because of his persistence that he has changed from an ordinary person to a pillar of the country and "the first perfect person through the ages." Tao Te Ching says, "A late bloomer." All precious artifacts need years of precipitation and tempering. Therefore, life, don't be impatient, step by step, a little bit of precipitation, in order to have a deeper growth, get through it, know how to be grateful and cherish life.

Boiling is a gift from life. There is a poem that says: the edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold. Everything must be tempered. Deer in the deep mountains don't know where to go, and everything is bitter, so they have to cross the river by themselves. Su Dongpo was demoted several times in his life, ups and downs, erratic. However, his pride remains the same, and he has always maintained a childlike innocence. Being demoted to Huangzhou, without salary and no one to help him, he practiced and reclaimed land; No one talked to him, so he chased vendors and farmers and talked about everything. If you like cooking, you can fish in the river and make cakes in the mountains. Only after winter dormancy can we usher in a bright spring. In the rest of his life, he faced it with an optimistic philosophy of life without complaining. Because of this, Su Dongpo's mood has also undergone great changes, and he has the reputation of "the first scholar in history".

The poet Rilke also said: "Without victory, persistence is everything." In fact, there is a fortitude in everyone's heart. They don't know that they can be so strong without experiencing wind and rain. On the road of life, when the storm strikes and you stand in the wind, you can't survive, come out, survive and stand out.

Endurance is the gift of "Heaven will send great responsibility to Sri Lanka" and the gift of God crossing you. Just like iron, it takes countless tempering to be made into steel. There is no definite gain or loss in life. Take your time and get through it.

Study hard, "there is something new every day", and it is never too old to learn; If the cause is to last, it will take a lot of effort to "get up from the ground"; Marriage needs more running-in and understanding. Only after being tested can life be sublimated. The world of mortals is rolling. If you can bear it, you will be able to make progress and see another village.