How do children escape from the glory of the king?

According to statistics, there are about 200 million people playing king in China, many of whom are minors. If children have poor self-control and have no interest of their own, they will indulge in one thing and even forget to eat and sleep. It used to be martial arts novels and animations, but now it's the glory of the king. In fact, even without the glory of the king, children will be addicted to other games, so this is not the fault of the game, but the lack of sense of identity and value in the transition, which is the product of the failure of family education.

The word game is always resisted by many parents, but the less children are allowed to touch games, the more they want to touch them. Now more and more news reports, some children use their parents' mobile phones to play games, charging thousands or tens of thousands of games; Some children are addicted to games, and their mobile phones are confiscated by parents, which leads to children running away from home, etc., which makes more parents boycott games. Tencent has also launched a series of anti-addiction systems. From the beginning of playing for minors for three hours every day to now, it is only one hour on weekends. It can be seen that children's addiction to games has nothing to do with the game itself, but is caused by parents' inaction.

Playing games doesn't mean you can't study well. In fact, many academic figures also play king. The original intention of the game is to entertain and relax. Some children have a good sense of proportion, while others are addicted to it.

What is the truth behind children's addiction to games?

Combined with the negative behavior of games in recent years, most children's families have several characteristics:

1. Parents are very busy.

Many times, parents are very busy at work. Sometimes children need it, and when they want to accompany them, they are pushed away by their parents with mobile phone software, so that children can play mobile games or short videos by themselves. Later, children gradually became addicted to games and lost interest in other things.

Parents don't care about their children's behavior.

The consequence is that children only discover the seriousness of the matter after charging a large sum of money for the game. If parents care a little about their children, how come they don't even know that their children are collecting money?

3. The sense of identity in life is too low

In life, parents always like to deny all their children's behaviors and make them lose their sense of identity and accomplishment. Games can bring recognition to children. As long as the operation is in place and the teammates are taken away, the teammates will be full of praise and ask for release, and the children will feel great satisfaction. They feel that games bring them happiness and a sense of accomplishment, and things that are not available in real life can be satisfied online.

To sum up, children are more and more addicted to games or other things. How to keep children from indulging in games?

1. Give him enough sense of accomplishment and praise him unreservedly when what he has done needs to be recognized. The child is very simple, and sometimes he just wants his parents to praise him for doing something.

2. Spend more time with your children to find out what they really need.

Don't stop children from playing games blindly. Counseling is more than just stopping. Instead of letting them play secretly without knowing it, let the children play aboveboard, arrange the time to play with them and cultivate their self-control ability.

A child who can control himself must have a rich life, and his parents' company is as indispensable as recognition and persuasion, so he should think about himself from the perspective of the child.