"Special Volunteers" organizations only serve the disabled. Is it the decline of morality or the brilliance of human nature?

As our disabled friends, many times, when we are physically "disabled", we have to face not only the strange eyes of others and the psychological confusion of our inner inferiority, but also the frustration and helplessness caused by the failure to effectively solve our physical problems.

According to statistics, there are 650 million disabled people in the world, 80% of whom are in developing countries. In China, there are more than 85 million. In such a huge group of disabled people, they not only need relatives, friends, family and society to provide them with more psychological care and love, but also need less physiological needs than us "normal people".

Just because of their "special status", these normal and basic needs have not been met and solved to a certain extent. How to really help them in action has become a headache for many of us, but the gathering of some social "special volunteers" organizations has made them wander on the edge of morality and humanity.

Similar to a self-made "special volunteer" organization.

So what exactly is a (white gloves) volunteer organization? Have you ever heard of them?

White Hand is a Japanese volunteer organization. Just the emergence of such a non-profit organization. It is not aimed at us ordinary people, but a "special service" provided by a "special group" dedicated to helping people with physical disabilities. To put it bluntly, it is a non-profit volunteer organization that solves their physiological needs, but it is limited to "using hands".

Of course, for the disabled, most of the nurses who provide these special services are trained by professional institutions, and some of them are volunteers who have passed relevant examinations. At present, non-profit organizations like them have their "shadow" and existence in many countries and places around the world.

Hong Kong's Wisteria Club, Australian charity "Touching Base" founder Ms. Wharton, Taiwan Province province's public welfare organization "Hand Angels" and other public welfare organizations have been providing their own "special services" for many disabled people in their own ways and methods, but in many cases, they also need to charge. And there are also some restrictions.

We can't deny that the emergence of such non-profit organizations has indeed solved the physiological needs of many disabled people to a certain extent. However, while being welcomed, supported and trusted by more and more disabled people, it has also been denounced by more and more people who don't know the truth, unreasonably accused and abused by people in other societies, and even strongly resisted by other disabled people.

Some "other" voices are slowly coming.

1. Some people say: Where is this social welfare activity? This is clearly doing illegal things under the banner of "justice" and under the guise of "justice". Everyone is equal before the law, even the disabled should abide by the law and not make anything special. Otherwise, wouldn't this society be confused?

2. Some people say: Since you always call yourself a volunteer organization, why do you charge? For most of our disabled people, in most cases, they are at the bottom of society and their income is relatively low. Now they are actually asking for money. Is this doing public welfare, or are they looking for a reason to be tall in disguise?

Some people say that this kind of volunteer organization has its own shortcomings even if its starting point is good. It has brought "gospel" to many of us disabled people. However, as the staff of our public welfare organizations, they are all faced with a group of strangers, but now they have to provide such "private" services for others, but who has really considered them?

Some people say that disabled people need the help of society and everyone, but we also need to analyze the specific situation. Is it really possible to completely solve their problems just by relying on this social welfare institution to help them a few times? I'm afraid this is an "idiotic dream"?

Disabled people also have "rights" in terms of physical needs, and no one can forcibly "deprive" them.

To tell the truth, disabled people do have a certain degree of "disability" because of physical functions and other reasons, so they will be different from our normal people in action, thinking and speaking, but they are also "flesh and blood" living life, and besides, they don't seem to be much different from us.

So we speak from this aspect, that is to say, normal people have physiological needs, so should we disabled people. We can't say that we can't have physical needs because we are disabled, but we still have a considerable number of disabled people who have long suppressed their physical needs because of their inferiority complex.

Therefore, whether we are the clients of the disabled or other people in society, we can't feel that the disabled have physiological needs, that is, there is nothing shameful or shameful. This is a very wrong and stupid practice. They also have the right to "woo and be loved", because this is a subconscious and physiological instinctive reaction of human beings, so we can only go with the flow, and we can't stop and accuse them at will.

How can we effectively solve the normal physiological needs of the disabled?

Since we mentioned above, disabled people also have the "right" to pursue normal physiological needs, how can we fundamentally solve and meet their needs in this respect?

First of all, we can find a suitable life partner for the disabled according to their basic family conditions and the degree of "disability", and then let them form a new marriage and family. Normal people can get married or get married. This is not only reasonable, but also reasonable, and can fundamentally solve the normal physiological needs of the disabled.

Secondly, relevant manufacturers or enterprises can study and produce a batch of "appliances" specially suitable for our disabled people and teach them how to use and maintain them. This is very simple, effective and quick, especially for the disabled with financial difficulties. Can effectively solve and release the physiological needs of many disabled people, but also can alleviate their inferiority complex.

Finally, since our related "volunteer" organizations claim to be non-profit organizations, we can't just provide them with services several times by ourselves and then charge a certain fee. More often, they should also teach us how disabled people can solve their physiological needs by their own strength and methods. As the saying goes, "it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish."

Therefore, the existence and establishment of these "special volunteer" organizations have indeed solved some practical problems for many of us disabled people, and we should show respect and understanding to them. There is no doubt about it. As for their appearance, is it the decline of morality or the brilliance of human nature? I think this is actually "different people have different opinions".