Three kinds of people you need to stay away from in life

Always telling me to be kind, as if all good people in fairy tales have good results in the end. Just make the reality clear, don't let your kindness be too cheap, not all people deserve kindness.

Some people say that a person's life is long. He will meet many things and people when he grows up.

However, people's life is also very short, so short that they are close at hand before they can get along well.

Half my life has passed and I have experienced prosperity, only to find that when people reach middle age, it is good for some people to know each other and there is no need to make friends.

If you meet these three kinds of people, don't say a word and turn around and leave.

Stay away from those who ask you.

The world is bustling and mercenary; All the noise in the world is for profit.

As the saying goes, one more friend leads to another road.

But some friends have never paved the way for you, but have been asking you.

Like cancer cells, they erode every inch of your skin and suck up every drop of your nutrition. If you resist, they will even rob the city more and more.

There is a word in economics called "stop loss in time". For those who keep consuming you, you must stay away as soon as possible, otherwise it may ruin your life.

In this world, we need friends to grow up together, but it is more important to learn to distinguish between friends who want something from friends who are really good to you.

You must learn to stay away from those friends who consume your energy.

Stay away from people who hurt your self-confidence.

This kind of person just takes pleasure in hitting you and won't make any suggestions.

Remember, no matter what age you are, please stay away from those who deliberately undermine your self-confidence and make you feel inferior.

Attention, it's anyone.

It is not until people reach middle age that they really realize that it is not those people who hit you, but those who give you encouragement and confidence. The latter is more worthy of amplification than the former.

Zeng Guofan said: "Choosing friends is the first priority in life. The success or failure of a lifetime is related to the merits and demerits of friends, and you must not be careless! "

The meaning of choosing friends is to stay away from those who undermine your self-confidence and get close to those who give you positive energy. From then on, only when two people join hands can they become stronger.

Stay away from ungrateful people.

Someone in Zhihu asked: How to evaluate Lu Bu, the God of the Three Kingdoms and World War I?

The most praised answer is: Lu Bu is a courageous, willful, mercenary, short-sighted and ungrateful person.

As we all know, although Lyu3 bu4 is a martial artist in the Three Kingdoms Westward Journey, his character is despised by the world.

It is not unreasonable for Zhang Fei to say that Lu Bu is a "slave with three surnames".

Lu Bu was the first adopted son valued by Ding Yuan, but after Dong Zhuo entered Beijing, Lu Bu bewitched and killed Ding Yuan.

Later, Lu Bu let nature take its course and became Dong Zhuo's adopted son, but Lu Bu took Dong Zhuo as his own.

When Lu Bu was captured, he said to Cao Cao, "Cao Gong has me, I lead cavalry and Cao Gong leads infantry, and the world can be unified."

Cao Cao was moved at this time and asked Liu Bei what he thought.

You know, Liu Bei looked down on unfaithful and unjust people the most, so he said solemnly, "Gong Ming, did you see how Lu Bu served Ding Jianyang and Master Dong?"

Because of this sentence, Lu Bu died.

If Lyu3 bu4 really joined Cao Cao's camp, according to Lyu3 bu4' s character, he would still betray Cao Cao when it was time to betray.

But Cao Cao was suspicious by nature and would rather kill by mistake. Even if Cao Cao didn't kill Lu Bu at that time, he would one day.

Ungrateful people are doomed to have no future.

As the old saying goes: Fight rice to support kindness and bear rice to support enmity.

Don't let your kindness be too cheap, not all people deserve it.

Your kindness is very expensive. Leave it to those who know how to give, to those who encourage you, to those who know how to be grateful, not to those who ask for too much, not to those who dampen your confidence, and not to those who are insatiable.

In real life, it's really different who you are with, and what kind of life you will lead with what kind of people.

Finally, I hope that we can all walk with the wise and each other will be extraordinary; May we all associate with our superiors and each of us reach the peak.